Just chatting
Jen It just worries me so much like I feel like I should give up on it but thinking that worries me.
Hi @Jen! Stick your belt in the cupboard and just do your thing for a little while. Don't stress. There are so many unrealistic expectations regarding what chastity "should" be, particularly on this site. It's just not the reality for the vast majority of users, despite what you read on here. I've had a crisis of confidence so many times I've lost count!
If it's not working for you then don't force it. Take a break. Or change it up and go play on Emlalock or something. It might be a fun way to challenge yourself! (Just be careful of all the creepy predators).
I'm glad I came back thanks
Jen
I guess from the little you have told us, that the belt is not the issue but the overall situation.
If I remember correctly, you just finished school and are about to enter a new phase of your life and a lot of things will be different. Old friendships and contacts will sometimes fade a bit to the background and new things require your attention.
It is not uncommon to feel a bit lost in such a situation. Don`t worry, thousands of young people experience the same every year and eventually come out on the other side of that step stronger and more prepared to face the next phase of life.
Jen I'm glad you're still here, and glad you have decided to stay in the belt. Of course, we will respect and support you if you decide to step out of it for a while. (I mean, it's US, so at least some of us will try to convince you to go back into lockup, but we're nice about it, I hope!) In the end, you have to do what's best for you and taking the belt was a big step.
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Jen Belt ain't the problem I decided. But trying to be too like actually good like church good - yeah it's not me
The underlying problem seems to be:
You have not clearly defined for yourself what is actually your goal. There are expectations of your parents which may or may not overlap with what you want for yourself. Don't get me wrong, when you are young it is absolutely normal not to know what you want and needing time (and maybe even trial and error) to figure that out.
Take your time, don't hurry things. Eventually you will know what you really need in order to be happy. That might be a life completely without belt, a life 24/7/365 in strict belting or anything in between. In the end it does not matter what it is, only that you have figured out for you, what your goal is and then go for that goal unafraid.
When you are 80, you are more likely to regret the things you never did / experienced because you did not have the courage to take that path than to regret something you actually did and tried and that turned out as something you found not live up to your expectations.
Joh I think the best thing will be for the UN to dissolve and the states to form something new.
What if the nations all got together and started some kind of league, through which they could promote world peace?
Laura
Thank you SO much for posting this! I keep seeing references to it here, but I couldn't find the discussion on misterpoll.