What do you think Katie's chastity duration should be. We are in the process of negotiating rules, length, punishments etc. Since I'm not experienced, I'm wondering if till marriage would be better. She also really want me to get a degree so the reward might change. just thinking it through while we wait for belt to come from Germany.
Nothing on contract is final yet.
How do I see the results?
Katie You click on "View voters"
@Katies-Mom-Melanie I still don't think she should wear a belt. Because I am not really sure what this is about.
You know, you talk about you fearing that she gets pregnant but then order a mysteel because of the option for bra and thigh bands.
I have a feeling that this isn't just about pregnancy.
BikelockFugitive she wants to control me more. I’m a bit of a hand full. We are still negotiating everything but the thigh and bra will probably only be used for punishment. We also bought it because James recommended it. I can go into more detail of why she think I need punishment off the forum if you would like.
Katie Most important question is: Is it YOUR choice to wear this belt? Can you break the contract and take it off? The Answer on this question will be important.
We also bought it because James recommended it. I can go into more detail of why she think I need punishment off the forum if you would like.
I would ask you to do it on-forum, if it's cool with you. Bc if it's the reason for you being in chastity it kinda belongs here, doesn't it?
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BikelockFugitive some of the topics aren’t allowed on this forum. We are negotiating if I would have the option to cancel. I think it would be better if i don’t because I think there will be sometime I’m so horney and not thinking clearly that I give up 100k for sex. If I can cancel then the belt is really my choice and not doing it’s job. It’s my choice to start but after that I don’t want it to be my choice.
Katie There is very little that isn't allowed in this forum, just go ahead. They won't ban ya. It's on-topic.
I strongly recommend the two of you, to allow you to cancel it. Simply for legal reasons. It's in your best interest.
Katie I wouldn't do it at all. What if the belt damages the relationship with your boyfriend. Four years is a long time. Maybe your mother has bad experieces herself but this is not your problem. It is your life an she wants to control it comletely. At least you need an option to quit the experiment at every time.
Angelina
James told me not to talk about punishments aside from bra and thigh bands on forum. Some of the suggestion he and my mom are working on may be considered fetish by some which from what I understand is not tolerated on the forum even if used for not fetish reasons. If I say more I will be in trouble.
Laura I mean getting married asap is useful anyway.
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Missing item "when she moves out".
Renita @Katies-Mom-Melanie what do you think about it? I can add this item
Katie Some of the suggestion he and my mom are working on may be considered fetish by some which from what I understand is not tolerated on the forum even if used for not fetish reasons.
i wouldn't say that, some also use the belt as a fetish. as long as it is not a fetish you can write openly about it (at least in my opinion)
Laura What kind of topics are not allowed here, beside porno
she probably means punishments coming from the bdsm area, it's hard on the border but because it's used for punishment it's ok to write about it or?
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As I said,I'm not sure it is a good idea,and especially as you start wearing a chastity belt,and managing it.And I think you should take more into account women wearing these devices.
Katie I would have the option to cancel.
It would be better.
I agree.It should not be pure BDSM either,but I don't think it is what she wants to talk about.Probably things like spanking(I've read some times @James thinks corporal punishment is a "good" punishment),which is something I sometimes talk about too.
Angelina she probably means punishments coming from the bdsm area, it's hard on the border but because it's used for punishment it's ok to write about it or?
People who are not used to physical punishments often thinks that it is BDSM, I don't think so. I think BDSM is just a sex game that can be ended at any time. It is only about playing.