Nothing on contract is final yet.

Katies-Mom-Melanie

What do you think Katie's chastity duration should be. We are in the process of negotiating rules, length, punishments etc. Since I'm not experienced, I'm wondering if till marriage would be better. She also really want me to get a degree so the reward might change. just thinking it through while we wait for belt to come from Germany.

Vanessa

Katies-Mom-Melanie

Voted for the shortest duration!😉

Katie

As I said,I'm not sure it is a good idea,and especially as you start wearing a chastity belt,and managing it.And I think you should take more into account women wearing these devices.

Katie I would have the option to cancel.

It would be better.

Laura

I agree.It should not be pure BDSM either,but I don't think it is what she wants to talk about.Probably things like spanking(I've read some times @James thinks corporal punishment is a "good" punishment),which is something I sometimes talk about too.

Ines

😳😅

Katie

How do I see the results?

BikelockFugitive

Katie You click on "View voters"
@Katies-Mom-Melanie I still don't think she should wear a belt. Because I am not really sure what this is about.
You know, you talk about you fearing that she gets pregnant but then order a mysteel because of the option for bra and thigh bands.
I have a feeling that this isn't just about pregnancy.

Katie

BikelockFugitive she wants to control me more. I’m a bit of a hand full. We are still negotiating everything but the thigh and bra will probably only be used for punishment. We also bought it because James recommended it. I can go into more detail of why she think I need punishment off the forum if you would like.

BikelockFugitive

Katie Most important question is: Is it YOUR choice to wear this belt? Can you break the contract and take it off? The Answer on this question will be important.

We also bought it because James recommended it. I can go into more detail of why she think I need punishment off the forum if you would like.

I would ask you to do it on-forum, if it's cool with you. Bc if it's the reason for you being in chastity it kinda belongs here, doesn't it?

Angelina

Katie I can go into more detail of why she think I need punishment off the forum if you would like.

why do you want to write outside the forum all the time ? the forum is the ideal place for it 🙂

I voted if you graduate in four years, which is what the original deal was. 🙂

Katie

BikelockFugitive some of the topics aren’t allowed on this forum. We are negotiating if I would have the option to cancel. I think it would be better if i don’t because I think there will be sometime I’m so horney and not thinking clearly that I give up 100k for sex. If I can cancel then the belt is really my choice and not doing it’s job. It’s my choice to start but after that I don’t want it to be my choice.

BikelockFugitive

Katie There is very little that isn't allowed in this forum, just go ahead. They won't ban ya. It's on-topic.
I strongly recommend the two of you, to allow you to cancel it. Simply for legal reasons. It's in your best interest.

a_father

Katie I wouldn't do it at all. What if the belt damages the relationship with your boyfriend. Four years is a long time. Maybe your mother has bad experieces herself but this is not your problem. It is your life an she wants to control it comletely. At least you need an option to quit the experiment at every time.

Laura

Katie some of the topics aren’t allowed on this forum

What kind of topics are not allowed here, beside porno

a_father What if the belt damages the relationship with your boyfriend. Four years is a long time
content? But it's not your case

That's why I have chosen "when she get married"

Katie

Angelina
James told me not to talk about punishments aside from bra and thigh bands on forum. Some of the suggestion he and my mom are working on may be considered fetish by some which from what I understand is not tolerated on the forum even if used for not fetish reasons. If I say more I will be in trouble.

Katie

a_father do you say that to all the girls here? I know I will fail if given the option to quit.

Katie

a_father I wouldn't do it at all. What if the belt damages the relationship with your boyfriend. Four years is a long time. Maybe your mother has bad experieces herself but this is not your problem. It is your life an she wants to control it comletely. At least you need an option to quit the experiment at every time.

I read some of your other post. Are you really just here to discourage chastity on a chastity forum?

Angelina

Katie Some of the suggestion he and my mom are working on may be considered fetish by some which from what I understand is not tolerated on the forum even if used for not fetish reasons.

i wouldn't say that, some also use the belt as a fetish. as long as it is not a fetish you can write openly about it (at least in my opinion)

Laura What kind of topics are not allowed here, beside porno

she probably means punishments coming from the bdsm area, it's hard on the border but because it's used for punishment it's ok to write about it or?

BikelockFugitive

Laura I mean getting married asap is useful anyway.
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Renita

Missing item "when she moves out".

Laura

Renita @Katies-Mom-Melanie what do you think about it? I can add this item

Laura

Angelina it's ok to write about it or?

Yes, you can discuss punishments in chastity context, just don't fall into sadism and tortures

Sara2001

Angelina she probably means punishments coming from the bdsm area, it's hard on the border but because it's used for punishment it's ok to write about it or?

People who are not used to physical punishments often thinks that it is BDSM, I don't think so. I think BDSM is just a sex game that can be ended at any time. It is only about playing.

Katie

Vanessa As I said,I'm not sure it is a good idea,and especially as you start wearing a chastity belt,and managing it.And I think you should take more into account women wearing these devices.

Why is it not a good idea?

Angelina

Vanessa Probably things like spanking

that's exactly what I mean (even if I don't approve of it) 😉

Sara2001 I think BDSM is just a sex game that can be ended at any time. It is only about playing.

that's exactly what I think, so I think it's ok to write about it here

Katie I’m officially 18 now.

Happy Birthday 😃

a little tip, the conditions for the deal with your mother should be completely arranged before the permanent wearing

Vanessa

Sara2001

I think too corporal punishment are very different than BDSM.

Katie

The chastity belt is already hard to manage at first,it wouldn't be good to add other devices hard to manage too.If your mother want to use these,even as punishment,she should not do this until you can manage the belt a bit better(at least).

Katie

Happy birthday!🙂

The My-Steel one is very secure,but it would be more comfortable,at least.

James

And trolling!😉

Angelina that's exactly what I mean (even if I don't approve of it) 😉

It would be pretty classical.

Angelina the conditions for the deal with your mother should be completely arranged before the permanent wearing

I agree.

Laura

Like most of us,you're right.Even if it is often because there would be consequences(generally financially and about relationship with our families);but we're free to leave and take it off.

Angelina finally someone who uses contracts 🙂 😂

I guessed you would approve it when I read it! 🤣