Katie There is very little that isn't allowed in this forum, just go ahead. They won't ban ya. It's on-topic.
I strongly recommend the two of you, to allow you to cancel it. Simply for legal reasons. It's in your best interest.

Katie I wouldn't do it at all. What if the belt damages the relationship with your boyfriend. Four years is a long time. Maybe your mother has bad experieces herself but this is not your problem. It is your life an she wants to control it comletely. At least you need an option to quit the experiment at every time.

    Angelina
    James told me not to talk about punishments aside from bra and thigh bands on forum. Some of the suggestion he and my mom are working on may be considered fetish by some which from what I understand is not tolerated on the forum even if used for not fetish reasons. If I say more I will be in trouble.

      a_father do you say that to all the girls here? I know I will fail if given the option to quit.

      Katie some of the topics aren’t allowed on this forum

      What kind of topics are not allowed here, beside porno

      a_father What if the belt damages the relationship with your boyfriend. Four years is a long time
      content? But it's not your case

      That's why I have chosen "when she get married"

        Missing item "when she moves out".

          Katie Some of the suggestion he and my mom are working on may be considered fetish by some which from what I understand is not tolerated on the forum even if used for not fetish reasons.

          i wouldn't say that, some also use the belt as a fetish. as long as it is not a fetish you can write openly about it (at least in my opinion)

          Laura What kind of topics are not allowed here, beside porno

          she probably means punishments coming from the bdsm area, it's hard on the border but because it's used for punishment it's ok to write about it or?

            Angelina it's ok to write about it or?

            Yes, you can discuss punishments in chastity context, just don't fall into sadism and tortures

              Katies-Mom-Melanie

              Voted for the shortest duration!πŸ˜‰

              Katie

              As I said,I'm not sure it is a good idea,and especially as you start wearing a chastity belt,and managing it.And I think you should take more into account women wearing these devices.

              Katie I would have the option to cancel.

              It would be better.

              Laura

              I agree.It should not be pure BDSM either,but I don't think it is what she wants to talk about.Probably things like spanking(I've read some times @James thinks corporal punishment is a "good" punishment),which is something I sometimes talk about too.

                Angelina she probably means punishments coming from the bdsm area, it's hard on the border but because it's used for punishment it's ok to write about it or?

                People who are not used to physical punishments often thinks that it is BDSM, I don't think so. I think BDSM is just a sex game that can be ended at any time. It is only about playing.

                  Vanessa As I said,I'm not sure it is a good idea,and especially as you start wearing a chastity belt,and managing it.And I think you should take more into account women wearing these devices.

                  Why is it not a good idea?

                    Right now I have been wearing the cheap belt for 2 2 hour sessions every day. When the mysteel arrives it will be 2 hours first day and add 2 hours every day. So if it arrives on 14th then the 25th will start 24/7. I’m officially 18 now.

                      Katie Happy birthday! πŸŽ‚
                      I hope it will be better with the MySteel chastity.
                      Had been nice if you get it today!

                        Tobbe won’t come today. Monday probably. They will ship it overnight today, but with customs prob Monday or Tuesday.

                          How does it feel. Can you stretch real well in it? What color is yours?which front shield did you go with? Is it comfortable?