Vanessa

that would probably be the same situation as with me. although my plans are more like moving out at the same time as my wedding

      Angelina

      But,if I remember correctly,your father would rent a flat or similar for you and your wife,right?

          Vanessa

          yes, as a gift for our wedding. therefore, my wedding and my moving out will probably be very close together

              Angelina

              It's a good idea too,to move on your own flat/house soon after you get married.Even if uncommon,generally,people marry some times after living together.

                  Vanessa

                  well, it is planned that camryn will stay with us for a few weeks or even months before our wedding, but we have no income of our own, so this is the only way

                      Vanessa

                      of course it is not perfect but as long as we don't have a permanent job we have to accept this condition.

                      besides, there are worse wedding gifts than getting a flat financed 😉

                          Angelina

                          Sure,it is a very nice gift,and well related to a wedding,as it would make possible for you to live together soon after you get married!🙂

                              Vanessa

                              we want to design the flat beforehand so that we can live there immediately after the wedding 🙂

                                  Vanessa

                                  maybe, but more likely we will take a hotel room for the wedding night

                                      Vanessa Good possibility too,it would give you enough intimacy.

                                      preferably a location which is together with a hotel, so that the celebration and the overnight stay is in the same building 🙂

                                          Vanessa It seems you have already think a bit about it!😉

                                          it still takes some time, but it can't hurt to collect ideas 😉