Vanessa

to get rid of it completely will be difficult, maybe before the wedding but not before I am engaged (and when I am engaged my father expects us to get married very soon so that I don't take advantage of the freedom), but I think I can soon get some relief, especially from the tighbands 🙂

      Angelina

      Understandable that it wouldn't be completely off before getting engaged,but good if you can have less strict rules about it soon! 🙂

      In my case,I don't think my rules would change much until marriage,or,at least,until I live on my own(except the chastity belt,it should stay on until I get married)....🙁

          Vanessa

          nevertheless i hope that you will get some relaxation, latest when you live alone or better said with emilie it will be difficult with the bra and the thighbands 🙂

              Angelina

              I guess it would not be possible to use the thigh bands if not living at home anymore.The chastity bra may be possible,but I would manage to have it off in this situation,I think.

              However, the belt would stay on until I get married...

                  Vanessa

                  that would probably be the same situation as with me. although my plans are more like moving out at the same time as my wedding

                      Angelina

                      But,if I remember correctly,your father would rent a flat or similar for you and your wife,right?

                          Vanessa

                          yes, as a gift for our wedding. therefore, my wedding and my moving out will probably be very close together

                              Angelina

                              It's a good idea too,to move on your own flat/house soon after you get married.Even if uncommon,generally,people marry some times after living together.

                                  Vanessa

                                  well, it is planned that camryn will stay with us for a few weeks or even months before our wedding, but we have no income of our own, so this is the only way

                                      Vanessa

                                      of course it is not perfect but as long as we don't have a permanent job we have to accept this condition.

                                      besides, there are worse wedding gifts than getting a flat financed 😉

                                          Angelina

                                          Sure,it is a very nice gift,and well related to a wedding,as it would make possible for you to live together soon after you get married!🙂

                                              Vanessa

                                              we want to design the flat beforehand so that we can live there immediately after the wedding 🙂

                                                  Vanessa

                                                  maybe, but more likely we will take a hotel room for the wedding night

                                                      Vanessa Good possibility too,it would give you enough intimacy.

                                                      preferably a location which is together with a hotel, so that the celebration and the overnight stay is in the same building 🙂

                                                          Vanessa It seems you have already think a bit about it!😉

                                                          it still takes some time, but it can't hurt to collect ideas 😉