Laura

don't get me wrong, of course it is never too late. it doesn't really matter when you have your first partner, but you have to be active yourself 🙂

      Laura You focus more on your belt than on a partner..... perhapse you should move out and start your own life

          Angelina And living with the parents at the age of 29 is not the best way to find a partner. It shows a possible partner, that you are not independent (and the chastity belt underlines that).

              Laura No, not really.
              But what would you say about a man who still lives at home with mommy when he is 30? Would that be your ideal partner? @Vanessa is much younger by the way.

                  a_father Why, do you have cats?

                  No, but you have some strange ideas.

                  a_father perhapse you should move out and start your own life

                  She doesn't want to.

                        Laura You said, you'd ask a 30 year old man for his reason to live still at home. What about your reasons? (Question now clear?)

                            I feel like the desire to end virginity is not a good reason for marriage! Alas, you seem to be rather permanently disabled from solving this problem all the normal ways. I assume your parents cannot be persuaded to give you a time-out; it would undermine the entire purpose of keeping you belted to begin with.

                            As always, I am torn between my honest self and my catholic upbringing, because there is a part of me that thinks it is a good thing that you stay locked until committed to marriage, but the free spirit in me regrets that you are denied certain natural pleasures!

                              Renita I don't think I have strange ideas. Usually people who stay alone for livetime start sometimes having pets. An I know woman who live alone and have lots of cats.
                              The idea with the cats is not mine. My daughter talked to one of her friends and she asked if she would like to have a partner one day. My daughter wasn't sure about that and said maybe she would stay single. The friend replied: "Cats, then you will have a lot of cats!" I found that answer so funny that I made up my mind to fool @Laura with it at the next opportunity.

                                  Laura As you have indicated you may be open to being a reluctantly convinced belted newlywed, you have all my hopes that you encounter a partner who both adores you and will make no such request of you. (Unless, of course, you eventually evolve to conclude you would be comfortable as a locked spouse. I suspect at least some on this forum who would reject the idea would accept the permanent belt from the right person they have not yet met.)