How did your parents first think of the idea of ​​"chastity belt"?

Vanessa As I wrote,it is an exception,I'm not punished if I try to fight my chastity belt.

Oh, I didn't expect that. Where is the line between punished and not punished offence?

If I really fight against my equipment or use any tool for the try to get out of it, I am in much trouble.

Sara2001 If I really fight against my equipment or use any tool for the try to get out of it, I am in much trouble.

although it is difficult to find a line there too. what is a serious fight against the belt and what is light fighting when we are aroused (which is normal)?

Angelina well, there are different variations, i think it's difficult to draw a line there.

Yes,but I know what would be accepted or punished.

Ines

So,not very risked for her to disobey.

Would it have an impact if she knows you are disappointed,or doesn't she care much?

Sara2001 and Angelina

Fighting is ok,but trying to cut it,destroy it or to pick the lock is not accepted.

Vanessa Yes,but I know what would be accepted or punished.

then it's ok, you can do certain things without fear of getting caught.

Vanessa Fighting is ok,but trying to cut it,destroy it or to pick the lock is not accepted.

so the border is at the point where you would have a good chance to succeed ?

Vanessa Yes,and it would be impossible to not fight it.

that's true, but some parents don't see that. my father didn't see it as normal at the beginning either. that was the reason why i got the thigh bands and the bra in the beginning. now he accepts my fights but he has seen other advantages in the devices.

Vanessa Probably;even if they not tell it this way,they probably know I can't win against my chastity belt if I don't destroy it or pick the lock.

I think it should still be discussed, otherwise you will be punished for something just because your parents misjudge it.

Vanessa Yes,and it would be impossible to not fight it

I have learned that it is possible to learn to not fight it. I normally don't touch my belt except for cleaning and things like that. In our family any try to remove or get around our equipment is a punishable offence and the more we try the more we loose our privacy.

Sara2001

interesting, i don't think i will ever be able to prevent at least small fights against the belt. it is admirable that you manage to do it, but it is probably also because you will be punished if you don't.

Angelina but it is probably also because you will be punished if you don't.

Absolutely. The cost is higher then the reward.

Sara2001

right, otherwise i probably wouldn't wear the belt at all anymore

Vanessa Do they think you can find a way to cheat on your belt,or is it because they want you to "accept" it?

They want me to accept it.

Vanessa So,an effective deterrent?

Absolutely.

Vanessa I was lucky that my parents quickly accepted it.

unfortunately, it was too late for my father and now he doesn't want to do without this additional security.

Vanessa I may try to discuss it with them,but I'm pretty sure trying to destroy the chastity belt or trying to pick the lock would mean a punishment...

yes, that would be the same for me, that's why we have the deal that i only get punished when i succeed, but i always think where is the limit?

Sara2001 Absolutely.

Not too hard to follow this rule,however?

Angelina unfortunately, it was too late for my father and now he doesn't want to do without this additional security.

Too bad he doesn't accepted your fights before ordering the additional chastity devices...

Angelina yes, that would be the same for me, that's why we have the deal that i only get punished when i succeed, but i always think where is the limit?

If they caught me fighting it in a way that makes the belt destroyed or with lockpicking tools.

Vanessa Not too hard to follow this rule,however?

The punishment is hard enough, so I have a vital interest to follow this rule.

Sara2001

Understandable,but it does not mean it is easy to obey this rule!

Vanessa Understandable,but it does not mean it is easy to obey this rule!

Absolutely not. Mentally it's very difficult., but the right motivation can help you a lot do beeing able to to difficult things.

Sara2001 but the right motivation can help you a lot do beeing able to to difficult things

It looks like the motivation you get is the right thing to follow the rule.

Vanessa Too bad he doesn't accepted your fights before ordering the additional chastity devices...

unfortunately yes, but it's no use, now i have these devices and have to try to make the best of it.

Vanessa If they caught me fighting it in a way that makes the belt destroyed or with lockpicking tools.

it could still be problematic to draw the line, but i think i can understand what you mean.

Sara2001

I understand it;even if a bit different,it is hard for me to not open the boxes containing the key of my chastity belt,and knowing what could be the consequences help to follow the rule.

Angelina unfortunately yes, but it's no use, now i have these devices and have to try to make the best of it.

Yes,not much choice now,especially as he likes the additional security,even if accepting your fights.Has he accepted you fight the added devices more easily?

Angelina it could still be problematic to draw the line, but i think i can understand what you mean.

When used to it,it is easier to guess what would be allowed or not.