Ideal age for marriage

Jeff

Angelina well don't get your hopes up because even if one of those manufacturers develops it, it will be quite expensive and it takes time. So it's not gonna happen until for a few years.
If you plan to get married at 20 or 21, isn't it too early, you will still be in college (if you're planning to go to one) and I don't know in Germany but in US if you want to lead a financial independent life, you go to college, get a good job and then get married at 24 or 25. Will your father let you get married without you having a job or when you are still a student?

Christine

Jeff but in US if you want to lead a financial independent life, you go to college, get a good job and then get married at 24 or 25.

You forgot to mention, this only applies to men.

Angelina

Jeff

ok, then I will tell you briefly what is planned

next year i will finish school and start studying, a 5 year study is planned. then i will (hopefully) have a master degree and will work together with my father

my girlfriend is about 2 years younger than me, that means when i am 20 she will be 18 and then we will get married. my father will support us financially until i finish my studies 🙂

HHelen

Jeff you go to college, get a good job and then get married at 24 or 25

If she's still a virgin by this age. But why not?

Jeff

Christine I don't understand, why is that so. I have got women friends who are leading financial independent life who all went to college and they have good jobs.

Christine

Jeff and they have good jobs.

What for? If it's a goal, it's a wrong goal.

Jeff

Angelina has your father agreed for no chastity after marriage

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree,but they may not think the extra devices are very useful.Or that using a GPS to know where she is,etc..is "too much" in their opinion.

And there would be flaws.If she meet her boyfriend for the first time since several days,her heart would probably beat faster.In the case of a chastity bra with sensors,it could consider it as a risk for her health...Only an example.

Jeff

Vanessa If she meet her boyfriend for the first time since several days,her heart would probably beat faster.In the case of a chastity bra with sensors,it could consider it as a risk for her health

Well even if it happens, it's for a short duration. But the criteria must be high beats consistently for few minutes or fall detection,it just notifies to the keyholder about that in the app, then he could enquire about it via call.

Angelina

Vanessa Or that using a GPS to know where she is,etc..is "too much" in their opinion.

well i think most parents who use a belt are rather suspicious and like to control their daughters, so they would rather see it as an added benefit

Vanessa And there would be flaws.If she meet her boyfriend for the first time since several days,her heart would probably beat faster.In the case of a chastity bra with sensors,it could consider it as a risk for her health...Only an example.

this could happen yes, that's why you have to think carefully about what you develop

Jeff has your father agreed for no chastity after marriage

yes, that is the condition for getting rid of my equipment 🙂

Vanessa

Jeff

I still think there could be more alerts than necessary.If someone,is,for example,late for work,he/she may run(so his/her heart beat faster for some time),and he/she may stumb and fall,which make an alert,while probably not needed.

Angelina well i think most parents who use a belt are rather suspicious and like to control their daughters, so they would rather see it as an added benefit

I guess my parents would like it too,sometimes...But I would hate it a lot!It would means no privacy at all...

Christine

I think being in love is more important! 😉

Jeff

Christine what do you mean? then please tell me what an ideal women's goal should be like, and tell about yourself career wise.

Renita

Jeff what do you mean?

She means she doesn't want to work 😃

Christine

Jeff then please tell me what an ideal women's goal should be like,

Marry a rich man who will support her.

Jeff

Christine well, we live in a realistic world and the chances of that happening is 1 in 1000. So if anyone want to live financially independent life, getting a degree and a job would be a sensible way

Angelina

Christine Marry a rich man who will support her.

sorry, but that is very naive and old-fashioned 😂

Laura

Jeff https://unwedchastity.org/d/246-seeking-a-rich-man

Jeff

Laura don't you think girls who wants only rich man are kind of gold diggers, don't get me wrong and im not saying anyone here is a gold digger but the entire concept of feminism is independence and equality. The idea of that thread is kind of old fashioned and maybe it could hold its relevance before women were allowed to work. I think times have changed and most women I know want to be even richer than the man they marry😂

Christine

Angelina sorry, but that is very naive and old-fashioned

Talking about it is old-fashioned, because you are supposed to strive for a career. But the reality is different if you look deeper.

Angelina

Vanessa But I would hate it a lot!It would means no privacy at all...

this is unfortunately true, fortunately it is not yet existing (except as a fetish toy)

Jeff

well, the chastity belt is also old-fashioned, but there are exceptional situations which make you re-string old things 😂

Renita

Jeff and most women I know want to be even richer than the man they marry

Maybe they just say a compliment to you 😃

Laura

Jeff I think there much more options between "find a rich man" and "find a good job". An own business, investments, royalties, etc.

Vanessa

Angelina this is unfortunately true, fortunately it is not yet existing (except as a fetish toy)

Happily,yes!

Angelina i think the ideal age for a wedding is 25 to 30 years, which is much later than i will get married and you should also be financially independent ( unlike me )

I agree,25 to 30 can be good,generally you've finished your studies and maybe have a job.Being financially independent is important too,yes.

I would add that the two partners should be in love(of course),and the relationship should have lasted long enough(at least 2 to 3 years without breaking up during it,even temporarily).Better if living together too,it is a very important step for a couple.