alina I have to consider the problem of moving to another city with the chastity belt - I don't know how my parents would want it to go

They need to find a way.

alina If they say "ok, you move but the key stays with us here" I can't be able to work there.

You should study, rather than "work" there.

      alina they want to set me free only when I'm married so location doesn't matter

      Same for me. I can move out at any time, but will continue to wear the belt

        alina I suck at math, sciences and all of those.

        Do you have someone who can help you or do you have friends you can work with to get through the topic.?

          alina Try telling it to them 😆

          You don't have to, it will happen by itself when you move out at some point. 😉

          alina Most of them, I like reading and like English (I think I'm not so bad at it) but I suck at math, sciences and all of those.

          Have you thought about studying something else?

              alina

              if you don't see yourself studying, you can try other alternatives. vocational training, internships, etc. you can always study later if you want.

                alina
                If you are not sure, do it later. What @Angelina said, in the meantime you can do an internship or work in a company where you might be able to work after graduation. So in the field you can see yourself in.

                  alina
                  If you continue with your sex work you will earn money but it does not help to get you further with your education or work experience. The time you spent now for your career will be the base for you later life.
                  I read an article about a 16 year old men yesterday. He has two companies and work 90 hour per week. It is crazy but it shows you can do a lot if you will. If you spent sufficient time for learning you can work parallel as well.

                      alina Can't I just keep doing sex work?

                      For how long? It is an industry where you are often discarded once you get a bit more mature. And what will you do then, without education or other job experience?

                        alina It would make it more fashion and acceptable.

                        I wish that too. If I ever tell about chastity belt to my parents... They will think I'm such a "freak who's obsessed with weird looking metal underwear" or "too paranoid about crimes that aren't likely to happen to me" or even insane... They won't even let me to self-lock using timesafe or etc, if I manage to get belt and let my partner to hold keys (As I'm in long distance relationship with her I'll have to use some remotely controlled safe or lockbox) then my parents find it out they would actually think I'm "freak" and prompt me to get rid of chastity belt.

                        I hope it to become more normal, but I also believe that only wearing of chastity devices in voluntarily manner should be normalized. My ideal situation would be wearing chastity belt and my partner to hold a key (She understands me and wants to support me with the idea of wearing chastity belt), and even after marriage.

                        I wish the day can come sooner, when I can wear chastity belt of my choice and have my partner as a keyholder. In addition, if it becomes more like fashion, I think many chastity belts will also make better design and more improvements to make it more comfortable for long-term wear and hygiene, which would be amazing.

                          alina Can't I just keep doing sex work? For this moment of course. It's paying well because it's dollar.

                          you can do that, but remember that you are also getting older and what will you say to an employer when you are 30. even if you have a qualification by then, you will certainly be asked what you have done in that time and an internship or apprenticeship is certainly more helpful.

                          Joh I read an article about a 16 year old men yesterday. He has two companies and work 90 hour per week.

                          ok, even i wouldn't want that, my father never worked that much even at the most strenuous times. that's crazy 😂

                          alina I don't know how long but I see women on her 30's who are big and famous in this industry

                          think carefully about whether you want to do this and in this industry it's the look alone that counts. if you can't do this any more, you need a plan B.

                                  Christine Right. I never did and not going to do.

                                  I think it is better that way 🙂