Max9 Well, I don't mind not having sex. In fact, I don't plan to have sex before marriage / being engaged.

Ah so. That's somethin' else.
I am lucky engaged ๐Ÿ˜€ including all.

    Angelina

    For it,it is not hard to find some time!๐Ÿ˜‰

    Angelina

    I can confirm too.๐Ÿ˜‰

    Max9

    Both are important.

    Max9

    Please write in english.Most of people would not understand you otherwise.If you want to discus privately with @Joh you can exchange your e-mail address.

    Joh

    I agree.Except that my chastity belt limits it,presently...

      Vanessa Most of people would not understand you otherwise.

      Most of German can't understand what he wrote. Me neither.
      But a good way is to read it out loud and find something that sounds similar and make send at the sentence. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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        Vanessa I agree.Except that my chastity belt limits it,presently...

        I hope you are able to change it soon.

          Joh Because it's not German, ut's Bavarian. You asked me in German so I answered in Bavarian

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            Max9 You asked me in German so I answered in Bavarian

            Read again ๐Ÿ˜‰

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              Max9 What is actually so important about sex? I mean - the only important thing you really need are hugs and cuddles.

              it is another piece of the puzzle in a happy marriage/relationship ๐Ÿ™‚

              Max9

              please stop with bavarian, i even understand english better ๐Ÿ˜‚

              Max9 I don't plan to have sex before marriage / being engaged.

              just like me, only with you it's voluntary ๐Ÿ˜‰

              Joh I am lucky engaged ๐Ÿ˜€ including all.

              then also hopefully soon married ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

              Vanessa Please write in english.Most of people would not understand

              even i as a german do not understand it (its bavaria) ๐Ÿ˜‰

                Max9
                In which language is my question?

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                  Angelina it is another piece of the puzzle in a happy marriage/relationship

                  I agreed.

                  Angelina then also hopefully soon married

                  We don't see the necessity but we are in discussion. Maybe later.

                    Max9

                    Max9 "Blรถdsinn" is german

                    Yes, it is.

                    Joh Blรถdsinn
                    There is a big different between good sex and only hugs and cuddles. If you didn't expiriance it it looks like you had not good sex.

                    And my question was in English.

                    Max9 You asked me in German so I answered in Bavarian

                    You see now I didn't ask you in German. Only my first response was it.

                      Joh We don't see the necessity but we are in discussion. Maybe later.

                      i hope it is soon and that you give us a little report ๐Ÿ˜‰

                      Joh You see now I didn't ask you in German. Only my first response was it.

                      Blรถdsinn = Nonsense ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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                        Angelina i hope it is soon and that you give us a little report

                        What do you have in mid with 'soon'?
                        Yes, if it comes to it I will write a report about our wedding.

                          Joh

                          Not soon,probably...๐Ÿ™

                          It would depend on how much time I need to get a long term job.

                          Angelina just like me, only with you it's voluntary ๐Ÿ˜‰

                          If free,how long would you have waited?

                          Joh We don't see the necessity but we are in discussion. Maybe later.

                          If engaged,the wedding follow;how can you be engaged,but not sure to get married?

                            Vanessa how can you be engaged,but not sure to get married?

                            We both have been married and know the unpleased side. We know the advantage and disadvantage and we know how much a wedding and a divorce costs. We love to be together but also see the value to be independent. We will not decide lightly but we are on the way. ๐Ÿ˜
                            I learned a lot from @Sara2001 relation and adapted the key point. It is necessary to work on the relation and talk a lot about everything. Especially about small things otherwise it will pill up to a big hill bevore you be aware of it. Our relation is improving. ๐Ÿ˜„

                              Joh What do you have in mid with 'soon'?

                              that you will marry soon, i wish that for everyone, it was just a turn of phrase ๐Ÿ˜‰

                              Vanessa If free,how long would you have waited?

                              you mean how long would i have waited if i was free? hard to say, i certainly wouldn't have had sex after the first date but i'm sure it would have happened already

                              Vanessa If engaged,the wedding follow;how can you be engaged,but not sure to get married?

                              i don't understand that either, i always thought an engagement is only the "harbinger" to a wedding.

                              Max9

                              wrong topic ????