Angelina As always I respect your opinion, even though I have a different view. 😃

      Jonas As always I respect your opinion, even though I have a different view. 😃

      it was clear to me that you have a different opinion and that is perfectly ok 😃

        Jonas

        Logical.

        Angelina I stand by my statement, also based on experience from my circle of friends (whose parents).

        They were alcoholic and have resumed drinking,after their addiction were solved,without being addicted again?

        Joh

        It is what I've read/heard,too.

                Vanessa They were alcoholic and have resumed drinking,after their addiction were solved,without being addicted again?

                yes, the father of a friend of mine used to be an alcoholic. he went to therapy and didn't drink for 5 years afterwards. now he sometimes drinks one or two glasses, but in a controlled way 😉

                    Angelina Really interesting to read this. It would be nice to think that in the future I might have greater control and perhaps not have to wear a full belt, but I'm sure I won't ever masturbate again.

                        Jonas but I'm sure I won't ever masturbate again.

                        never say never, as you can read, it can take a long time but with a lot of self control it is possible 😉

                            Angelina It all depends on whether I make a promise to my wife on the subject. If I make such a promise to her, then that's it, no going back! 🙂

                            Also, of course, my experience has changed me. I am against masturbation now. I don't think it's been good for me at all.

                                Jonas

                                well, if you have made a promise to your wife, you should of course keep it, regardless of your attitude towards masturbation. 😉

                                    Angelina Yes, exactly. It's all a little unclear right now, but I think probably this year I will make this as a solemn promise to her and then that'll be the end of the matter. This is both exciting (as it's definite progress and a proper commitment on my part), but its also a little bit scary. I like masturbating. I like it a lot (obviously! 🤣 ). Unlike the gentleman who recently left the forum however, I fully accept my belt. It is a part of me. I am a better man wearing it. I'm a better husband.

                                        Jonas I fully accept my belt. It is a part of me. I am a better man wearing it. I'm a better husband.

                                        then the belt is definitely not a wrong decision, i just always worry when things to do with the belt are supposed to be valid for eternity.

                                            Angelina then the belt is definitely not a wrong decision, i just always worry when things to do with the belt are supposed to be valid for eternity.

                                            I appreciate and respect your concerns and have really thought about all the things that you and @Vanessa have said. I understand that you have different experiences and I can totally understand why your view of chastity belts is often quite different to my own.
                                            For me, chastity is a part of complete rebuild of myself. It's a hugely positive thing. I hope, expect and require that I will become the man my wife deserves, for eternity. 😁

                                                Jonas really thought about all the things that you and @Vanessa have said. I understand that you have different experiences

                                                on most points i am just worried, i don't want anyone here on the forum to be unhappy with the decision

                                                Jonas I hope, expect and require that I will become the man my wife deserves, for eternity. 😁

                                                with or without belt i support this goal 😉

                                                    Angelina

                                                    Very surprising!

                                                    Jonas

                                                    I think it could easily be the case.

                                                    Jonas

                                                    Why didn't you promised it to your wife and avoid of the belt,so?

                                                    Jonas It's a hugely positive thing.

                                                    Something we feel very different😉

                                                              Vanessa Why didn't you promised it to your wife and avoid of the belt,so?

                                                              I wouldn't make a promise to my wife that I couldn't trust myself to keep.

                                                              Now, a high security belt, I feel able to be able to make such a promise, but even so I will continue to look to increase security as much as I can to make absolutely certain.

                                                                Vanessa Jonas It's a hugely positive thing.

                                                                Something we feel very different

                                                                I know.

                                                                It frustrates me a great deal to know that your experience is so different to my own.

                                                                    Vanessa Very surprising!

                                                                    I would rather say a high mental strength 🙂

                                                                    Jonas It frustrates me a great deal to know that your experience is so different to my own.

                                                                    why ? i think most people (generally not only in the forum) would react similarly if they had to wear a chastity belt

                                                                          Angelina if they had to wear a chastity belt

                                                                          Yeah sure, if people had to wear them, then clearly more unhappiness would be the result.

                                                                          ...but given full social acceptance and maybe a few high profile celebrities being seen wearing them, I think a lot more people would choose to wear one.

                                                                              Jonas ...but given full social acceptance and maybe a few high profile celebrities being seen wearing them, I think a lot more people would choose to wear one.

                                                                              maybe, but for that to happen, the advantages would have to be put clearly in the foreground and the disadvantages clearly in the background, and it would take a lot of promotion.

                                                                                  Angelina Consent is the key. I think the experiences on Unwed forum make that clear. The more free the choice to wear, the better the outcome.

                                                                                  Of course, when people choose to wear chastity belts it gets labelled a "fetish" but I think most here agree that this line can be blurred. Whatever we call it, the huge numbers of products available on eBay and Amazon certainly show that there's a lot of interest out there.