Angelina if we were all sitting in a room and everyone knew what i looked like and might meet me again on the street (also because there are many germans here).

That's right. There might really be an embaressing silence at the beginning.
Meet someone on the street? I mean - Germany isn't such small that you meet all its inhabitants from time to time. But even if so - I mean - the belt /cage might be part of out life but that doesn't mean that we can be reduced to our device. Just like a haircolour is part of ones life but you can't be reduced or stigmatized to your haircolour.

      Max9

      huh? the question was have you ever been to a masquerade ball?

      Max9 Meet someone on the street? I mean - Germany isn't such small that you meet all its inhabitants from time to time

      I know what you mean and the likelihood of us meeting is relatively low (me in NRW, you in Bavaria), but with most of the Germans here I don't know where they live.

      besides i have friends from near müchen and bang the chance gets bigger

      Max9 but that doesn't mean that we can be reduced to our device.

      i hope so , because then i would end the conversation, in the forum it is ok, but in personal conversations it should only be a side role

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              Angelina huh? the question was have you ever been to a masquerade ball?

              Yes, I have been to a ball a few times.

                  Max9

                  interesting, did you like it ? or rather, what was the attraction of going there ?

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                      Angelina Oh, it's nice. Well, it's a nice meeting... when you meet some people that you know on a normal ball or concert you always talk to the same people ... I mean it's nice, but if there wasn't the elegant atmosphere it wouldn't be any different from what it is usually... a masquerade ball gives you the opportunity to get in touch to many other people because you don't know at first glance who the person is you talk to.... nobody does ... except for the couples of course ... it also gives an opportunity for people being rather shy to get in touch with others and not having to stand at the bar all evening long. It's also something different because it's nothing you do every day.

                          Max9

                          sounds very interesting, it certainly makes communication between strangers much easier because the first contact is still relatively anonymous. 🙂

                            Angelina hahahah, exactly the opposite as at the airport, whoever does not trigger the detector is not allowed to go in, the beep is the admission ticket 😂

                            😉

                            Angelina

                            Similar for me.The anonymity help talk freely about our chastity belts.

                            Max9 But even if so - I mean - the belt /cage might be part of out life but that doesn't mean that we can be reduced to our device.

                            But if the people meeting us know we're wearing one,they would probably think quickly about it.

                            Max9

                            But if you still keep the masks and not give personal information,it would be difficult to meet again,even if you appreciated the people you met...At some point,you should act in a more usual way,to make other meetings possible.

                            Or a woman can leave her shoe behind her...😉

                            Or the key to her chastity belt!🤣

                                      Angelina that way the story would make sense - because there are several people with small feet - but there's one belt to the key.

                                          Max9

                                          and nowhere near as many possible candidates 😉

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                                              Vanessa And metal detector,to be sure they react when going close to the waist/hips!

                                              You'd instantly know who's wearing a chastity belt by putting your hand around their waist, no metal detectors would be necessary 😁

                                                  SummerNight by putting your hand around their waist,

                                                  i don't think everyone wants that, not everyone wants to be touched by a stranger down there, i think a metal detector would be a better alternative. 🙂

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