Maija Yes, he does know about it. Although what he's doesn't know is that she gets breaks from time to time, which could be beneficial
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but i'm afraid she doesn't necessarily get the breaks when she's with you.
it all sounds extremely sweet and the cuddling comes naturally. but i have to tell you straight away that it can also be uncomfortable. if it's not too hot, wear cosy clothes, use pillows and blankets etc. my equipment is not quite as heavy as yours (i think yours is the strictest i know so far), but it might be unusual if you don't wear clothes. cuddling with steel, chains and padlocks might sound exciting at first, but you have to be careful and gentle with one.
However, what you write sounds very good, I think you will manage it
what does your father say about it? he didn't know that you like women.