suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Laura

Angelina i always have the secondary sign on it, i pee through the holes, is a big chaos in the beginning but you can learn it

I think, he is talking about a single shield without slot, but with rows of holes like on a secondary shield. Probably such thing exists, but seems very unpractical.

Angelina

Laura

i only know the first sign (lower sign i don't know the name) is alone very unpleasant and not 100% safe . since the labia push through the sign, only when the secondary sign is on it, everything is behind steel and i see and feel nothing more

Renita

Laura I think, he is talking about a single shield without slot, but with rows of holes like on a secondary shield.

I know what you're talking about. This was discussed in the 90s, but did not receive distribution. I can put a picture here, tell me how.

Laura

Renita I can put a picture here, tell me how.

Send it to laura at this forum name.
UPD: Renita's picture

Renita

Laura UPD: Renita's picture

Thanks. @Angelina, see, @strictfather apparently talks about it. Convenient that does not cut girl's labia, but wear for a long time will not work. Another toy

Laura

BikelockFugitive Regardless if @strictfather will follow our advises or not, this discussion is interestung for other forum member and readers.

Renita Do you happen to know what the make is? Customized Tollyboy?

Laura

strictfather You have mixed 4 different approaches.

No secondary shield at all. See Renita
Permanent secondary shield without lock. My case.
Secondary shield on the main lock. Can be attached and detached by parents when necessary.
Secondary shield on a separate lock. Can be attached and detached by girl if she has that key, but belt remains locked.

BikelockFugitive

strictfather Well because I am the only one who does it... I just want to remember that it might be considered child abuse to force a child into a CB. You can easily lose your head over this. Be careful, for your and your daughter's sake.

Renita

BikelockFugitive Well because I am the only one who does it...

It's now your job 🙂

Angelina

BikelockFugitive

Of course, he can't force them to, since I don't know Italian law.

i am actually against the chastity belt, but his daughter is currently destroying her life and it is better for her

Angelina

Renita

ah I understand

a belt like my front holes but has only one shield

BikelockFugitive

Laura Why exactly are you telling me that? I am fully aware of that. I am just trying to be helpful in my way.

Renita

Laura Renita Do you happen to know what the make is? Customized Tollyboy?

Tollyboy or Wiiliam Jones.

Laura

BikelockFugitive Would it change if the topic was called "suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter(18yo)"?

BikelockFugitive

Laura Would what change?
Laura you making me confused. From a legal point of view, it might change something, why you asking? Really I don't get it.

Laura

BikelockFugitive No possible child abuse like your mention, but the rest of the discussion remains the same. That's what we need. If somebody is looking for a chastity belt for their daughter they should find answers.

Megan

Okay Mandi, It may be awhile until I get to a computer so I guess I'll try to reply here. I think that it will be difficult for you to get your back opening to fit just right you might start shopping for the different types like this http://www.chastitybabes.com/images/belt4.jpg
You have said that you have a neo steel and a mysteel, which is it? If you have a hip belt that is good so long as the other parts fit you well. The shield does not to have tiny holes you need as much ventilation and flow from your shield as possible. If you have a shield with holes rather than long open slots either send it back or get it cut open.
I am starting to wonder if any of my CBs would fit you?
I am glad you are doing better.`

strictfather
This is what I wrote to Mandi about mine in 2016 on the old website.
I now want one like this to try after I am married in October!
https://fancysteel.com.au/collections/frontpage/products/female-slim-fit
https://www.dhgate.com/product/female-chastity-belt-pants-device-with-2/438426860.html
http://www.chinaglobalmall.com/products/546510016488
I have never tried this but I can think of several advantages even if my main ones have been top of the line very valuable.

You made a mistake in arguing with her! Now that you know that she has some serious problems and that this is what you must do you should never have told her! You should have spoken about her future, how irresponsible she is and how much she hurt everyone. You should have told her how it would be to be dumped by some criminal or drug addict or how she could be a migrant with a child!

By telling her about Chastity she can now think about that instead of taking responsibility. She can read horror stories about bad Chastity that caused terrible chafing and sores. Now she can spend the week before she gets it crying and getting ready to fight! She should be writing and assignment about what she did.

No you should have just started looking with your wife. Also for the low prices of the "Slim" or my types of belts your wife should own one so that she can know the difference between a manipulative complaint and a real problem.
You can shop but you see my picture with the locking plate. Mine was expensive but we live in USA not France! You can look at one like this (choose double cables, you can adjust the waist with that and the anus is left free not to get dirty).
https://www.ebay.com/itm/ALL-TYPES-Stainless-Steel-Female-Chastity-Belt-Device-Adjustable-long-term-wear-/123668730689
If you have cash and the store allows you to return items in so much time. I would buy several of the belts for her and your wife. Then return the ones that your wife does not like.

Megan

strictfather i understood there are two main chouces: neosteel and mysteel.

1)which one create less hygienic problems? (i have fear of infection own there)
2)which is the safest to stop orgasm?
3)which one is the safest, i mean impossible to open without keys?
4)when you walk with a belt you have to wear something between the body and the belt to protect the skin?
5) which belt is adjustable? (if my daughter increases or loose weight, i would like to adjust it)
6)the front shield: is was thinking with holes without slot (i will never need sick fitting as didls or similar) . or does the slot help to piss or to clean other?
7) menstruation: what happens with blood having a chastity belt?
8)the belt press really hard on vulva avoiding insertions (a finger, a pen,...) or is the front shield width to avoid insertions?
9)back connection: is better the single wire or the double or the rigid with the hole?

NeoSteel & MySteel are both very expensive. For some of us price is not a big problem but you probably need to make a decision on the next day. The mother should want one as well so that will be TWICE the price! That would cost thousands of dollars because your daughter lies and is irresponsible.
Do not feel like you are being cheap or disrespectful getting another brand. This is not like buy a sports car or Lamborghini this is buying clothes. If your wife was going to tell you daughter that she would not be allowed to wear Victoria's Secret short shorts to school you would not need to sit her down and tell her ahead of time and have a long argument. No you would just get different clothes. This is the same thing.

1) This is a good fear, a woman can die in a day from Toxic Shock Syndrome. Any of the ones I showed will not cause hygiene problems. What is most important is that the shield is bent upwards before her ass. People who have never worn before have terribly fitting belts which hang lowly, scratch the skin terribly, and trap waste after the bathroom. make her and her mother responsible not only for the fit but also hygiene. If she is lazy and filthy her mother should shame her.
2) Any of them. I myself did not understand how to do so until just a few years ago. So I never fought over it. but some girls will stress out terribly and have panic attacks after some time. For this reason I think it would be okay for your wife to allow her some rest breaks as Catherine gets. During a rest break tell her that it is important that she clean everything and give her some guidance on what is allowed. She does not need to insert FISTS to relax and sleep well!!! Some rebellious people will tear themselves up and for this reason maybe an anal hole that is not huge is a good idea. The mother should tell her exactly what is appropriate to do, how many times, how long, if you allow a rest break.

3) @BikelockFugitive watches a lot of movies, this is not really a problem.
4) The lining that comes on the belt is very important. Do not wear underwear! Just belt!
5) The ones I posted are adjustable. I do not believe women should wear waist because it restricts breathing. It helps with all health to open and fill lungs completely. The "slim" cables do not seem as adjustable as the other ones (The bands have those small holes and when unlocked you can feed them through to make as big or small, as tall or short as the needs. I think that the "slim" cables can always be replaced with more cables look at that, also if she puts on a little fat on her stomach that will not change the size of her hip bones so there is no need to adjust depending on where the cable go.
6) The more holes the better! Would you want to urinate through a tine hole?
7) Again the more holes the better. I rinse with a squirt bottle or get in shower with shower head if no one is around to help me. No problem.
8) It needs to fit and leave a gentle mark like your underwear elastic does. It does not need to press into the bone or leave red bands.

Is her room close to a bathroom? During breaks you could attach her foot to a chain around the toilet and let her mother deal with her for several hours. That would prevent violent arguments later.

BikelockFugitive

Megan Oh bite me.
Assuming the wearer of the chastity belt really doesn't want to wear it, it is a problem.

James

strictfather The general point I think you can take from this is you can buy a belt, sure.

It is not a magical cure!

You need to think of and change a lot of things about how things run in your household, including discipline, and mom needs to be involved. Just trying to belt her will be a miserable failure.

However, you need to restore your relationship with your daughter in the process, and trust, which is right now at zero. This is discipline, and it is a process. Which is separate from any belt. If you want to talk about that, I would be glad to do so.

Angelina

James

ok so the posts from @Megan and @James are really very helpful and very detailed. i think it's important for the father to get all the information.

the discussion about legality we already had in my case. it's clear he can't force his daughter to wear a belt, that would be child abuse and is not tolerable.

it seems to be difficult to convince her of the belt, but i believe that the parents only want good and really care about the daughter. i agree with james, a belt is not the solution to all problems. the daughter lies, freaks out if you talk to her calmly and if she continues she will probably soon be pregnant.

it's a difficult situation the family is in, i can't really guess for or against a belt, it would help her but she also has to get involved with the help. besides, i think that the family needs psychological help to find each other again.

a question for everyone. is it helpful if the daughter signs up here in the forum ? so she can talk about her fears and maybe we can see if a belt is a good idea ?

@strictfather no one condemns you because you are a father. you really worry about your daughter, besides it is also interesting to write with someone who is on the other side

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