Megan HHelen Vanessa and if I remember well,she wants to wait until marriage Right, but she says it now. Angelina met at university and married after graduation, sounds romantic It would be great. I never knew how to masturbate very well growing up but if I had an addiction I needed to overcome, doing more work on chastity at home would make it easier to move into school. Also you would not want to be lazy and flunk out if home was not super easy... ??? That's just me anyway
Vanessa Angelina met at university and married after graduation, sounds romantic 🙂 Not uncommon!🙂 HHelen Right, but she says it now. She never said it before she started to have to wear her belt?
HHelen Vanessa She never said it before she started to have to wear her belt? She did, but what would she say later?
Vanessa HHelen She did, but what would she say later? I meant that,if she hasn't said it before,it could have been a try to get rid of the belt.Obviously,it is not the case,so. And there is no good reasons to think she would change her mind about it.
Jen Vanessa I expect it to be harder to stick to as we get older. Easy to be committed to staying virgin when you've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.
HHelen Vanessa it could have been a try to get rid of the belt Possibly. Vanessa And there is no good reasons to think she would change her mind about it. She will start communicating with new people.
Angelina Jen hmmm.... and if we have a boyfriend/girlfriend? then we could openly talk about wanting to stay a virgin until the wedding
Laura Jen Easy to be committed to staying virgin when you've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. I can confirm it
Vanessa Jen Right. Angelina But it could be harder to resist. HHelen Possibly. Not if she already said it before wearing the belt,and before knowing she would have to wear one. HHelen She will start communicating with new people. I doubt it would make her change her mind so easily.Is she very easily influenced? Saintprudence a fear that they won’t give up their investment that easily. I think so,too... Ines she decides use it. I doubt it!😉 Angelina no if the situation was like this then i probably wouldn't stay a virgin Logical!
Jen Angelina hmmm.... Hmmm, hmmm, what does that mean. If you and your girl had no belts and privacy would you stay virgin?
Megan Jen If you and your girl had no belts and privacy would you stay virgin? @Jen didn't you break and throw your belt out? That doesn't mean you will instantly find love... Love take work and I was sort of lucky that I already knew someone who moved back closer to me. Chill out it's all been done before & I don't think all the chastity belts in the world are conspiring to jump on you my sister...
Angelina Jen Hmmm, hmmm, what does that mean. If you and your girl had no belts and privacy would you stay virgin? hmmm means that I think about something 😉 and no if the situation was like this then i probably wouldn't stay a virgin
Jen Megan didn't you break and throw your belt out? Not broken but never worn. Still in a suitcase in my parents wardrobe last time I looked.
Ines Jen And it should stay there until you decide that you want wear it. I am glad of not to have a forced wearer here. And your reaction and course of situation is very logical. Any normal family can survive to a situation of forced wearing.
Saintprudence Ines I worry that it staying there represents a constant sword of Damocles, a fear that they won’t give up their investment that easily. I applaud Jen’s assertiveness against it.
Ines Saintprudence My words were figurative sense, I mean it should be away of her until she decides, that if some day she decides use it. And however,frankly, I do not think that her parents can force the use
Jen Saintprudence I worry that it staying there represents a constant sword of Damocles I don't know this sword reference. I'd think about it less if I knew it was gone, but I don't worry, I mean I never like conflict but it would be easier than the first time Ines And however,frankly, I do not think that her parents can force the use Yep no way
Saintprudence Jen Sword of Damocles is a Greek mythological reference. It means a dangerous thing suspended over your head that could fall and strike you at any moment. In broader use, it refers to an ever-present threat that could re-emerge any time, such as someone getting the idea of that belt back in their heads. I’m glad you stand firm!
Joh Jen I don't know this sword reference. A short explanation is at Wikipedia. Is worth to read. I didn't know the details and it makes is more clear for me. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Damocles
