fear of orgasm: why?

HHelen She did, but what would she say later?

I meant that,if she hasn't said it before,it could have been a try to get rid of the belt.Obviously,it is not the case,so.

And there is no good reasons to think she would change her mind about it.

Vanessa I expect it to be harder to stick to as we get older. Easy to be committed to staying virgin when you've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Jen

hmmm.... and if we have a boyfriend/girlfriend? then we could openly talk about wanting to stay a virgin until the wedding

Jen Easy to be committed to staying virgin when you've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.

I can confirm it

Vanessa it could have been a try to get rid of the belt

Possibly.

Vanessa And there is no good reasons to think she would change her mind about it.

She will start communicating with new people.

Angelina hmmm....

Hmmm, hmmm, what does that mean.
If you and your girl had no belts and privacy would you stay virgin?

Jen If you and your girl had no belts and privacy would you stay virgin?

@Jen didn't you break and throw your belt out? That doesn't mean you will instantly find love...
Love take work and I was sort of lucky that I already knew someone who moved back closer to me.
Chill out it's all been done before & I don't think all the chastity belts in the world are conspiring to jump on you my sister...

Megan didn't you break and throw your belt out?

Not broken but never worn. Still in a suitcase in my parents wardrobe last time I looked.

Jen
And it should stay there until you decide that you want wear it.
I am glad of not to have a forced wearer here. And your reaction and course of situation is very logical.
Any normal family can survive to a situation of forced wearing.

Ines I worry that it staying there represents a constant sword of Damocles, a fear that they won’t give up their investment that easily. I applaud Jen’s assertiveness against it.

Jen Hmmm, hmmm, what does that mean.
If you and your girl had no belts and privacy would you stay virgin?

hmmm means that I think about something

and no if the situation was like this then i probably wouldn't stay a virgin

Saintprudence I worry that it staying there represents a constant sword of Damocles

I don't know this sword reference. I'd think about it less if I knew it was gone, but I don't worry, I mean I never like conflict but it would be easier than the first time

Ines And however,frankly, I do not think that her parents can force the use

Yep no way

Jen Sword of Damocles is a Greek mythological reference. It means a dangerous thing suspended over your head that could fall and strike you at any moment. In broader use, it refers to an ever-present threat that could re-emerge any time, such as someone getting the idea of that belt back in their heads. I’m glad you stand firm!

Vanessa But it could be harder to resist.

probably yes

strictfather why do you think parents do not want their children to have an orgasm and prefer to prevent it by using a chastity belt or other ways?

It's not just about orgasms.

A young teenager shouldn't be allowed to drink alcohol, but it's not because she would feel drunk, it's because it's wrong to drink alcohol at such age, even if it's not enough to get drunk. Feeling drunk isn't the problem, drinking alcohol is. It's ok to let her have a very small sip if she's curious what it tastes like, but nothing more than that until she's older.

It's the same with orgasms. Orgasms aren't the problem, touching that area is. It's ok to let her wash herself there while taking a shower, otherwise it should be kept inaccessible until older.

shinydiamond77 disagree all. Alchahol has a chemical impact on development, it is actually bad if you have too much too young.

shinydiamond77

i disagree. alcohol has a proven harmful influence, especially on children and teenagers (even on some adults). touching the intimate area or mastubation or sex does not have this proven bad influence