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Christine Well @Christine, that doesn't just seem to be only my opinion here. If you did something to change your situation, you would write about it too. You now have free boarding and lodging with Mommy and the belt is the necessary evil. What do you think Mommy will come up with next to motivate you to change something? What do you think, why she bought the second belt and puts it on you whenever it suits her? I would find other ways to motivate a lazzy daughter, but her way to do it is great too.
Greetings from 'Daddy'.
even if i can't agree with all the points, i agree with the core statement and must say i always like how differentiated and poetic you write here 
a_father I would find other ways to motivate a lazzy daughter,
there are, but it also depends on the overall circumstances. i'm still not sure whether @Christine can't find a job and doesn't move out because she's too lazy and accepts the belt as a necessary evil, as you say, or whether the job market doesn't allow it. not everyone who looks gets a job straight away, and without a job it's difficult for young people to break away from their parents. Vanessa is an example of this
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Angelina @Christine also has no proper professional training and does not give the impression that she wants to change anything. You cannot complain on the one hand how difficult the job market is and on the other hand you cannot work on better qualifications. It won't work like that and her mother will increase the pressure.
Vanessa is a different story. I'm not saying anything about that at the moment.
a_father also has no proper professional training and does not give the impression that she wants to change anything. You cannot complain on the one hand how difficult the job market is and on the other hand you cannot work on better qualifications.
i agree 100% with that part of your answer, i never thought i would agree with you so completely.
but i already told @Christine that it would be good for her to do an apprenticeship or study. she is not too old for that yet and it would improve her job chances at least in the long run.
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Angelina 
Maybe you should think about what I said about your father too. But I know, we won't be the same opinion.
I'm sure you read the advices I gave @Jen. They worked. Sometimes it can help to trust someone who is the same age as your father. Hopefully you've already noticed that I don't want to harm you?
Sin But locking things up isn't always the answer.
It should be consensual and only an help,not a solution,sure.
Angelina well, if i am still successful in life in all other things, it should not matter
Right.But I think having some "average" is good,even if it can be different for everyone.
Angelina Vanessa is an example of this
And I was pretty lucky to have got some good ones,like the one lasting one year.
Angelina it would be good for her to do an apprenticeship or study
I agree.
a_father Maybe you should think about what I said about your father too. But I know, we won't be the same opinion.
right, i'm just on the same page with you, don't ruin it again
a_father Hopefully you've already noticed that I don't want to harm you?
of course, but I knew that before, if I thought you were harming me I wouldn't write with you anymore
Vanessa Right.But I think having some "average" is good,even if it can be different for everyone.
maybe, in general i agree yes
Vanessa And I was pretty lucky to have got some good ones,like the one lasting one year.
a one-year contract is certainly good, but unfortunately that was already a few months ago. i hope you find something new soon.
a_father What do you think, why she bought the second belt and puts it on you whenever it suits her?
For the same reason why @Maija 's parents added the thighbands.
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