Chastity checks

HHelen Basically for her protection.

you think this is necessary even if she fundamentally shares your goal ?

Angelina the implementation seems to be developing very much to the disadvantage of the daughter.

Way more than at the start.

HHelen And especially it happens too often.

However,if he stays with her long enough,knowing she can't take it off,he may have proven trustworthy...

Angelina

Preventing her to masturbate is not part of the initial/main purpose,so I guess there is other purposes than being sure her daughter stays virgin...

Vanessa I guess there is other purposes than being sure her daughter stays virgin...

for example ? of course conditions could change, but i can't think of a real alternative that "works" as well as the belt.

Angelina you think this is necessary even if she fundamentally shares your goal ?

I do.

Vanessa However,if he stays with her long enough,knowing she can't take it off,he may have proven trustworthy...

Then he should marry her.

Vanessa Preventing her to masturbate is not part of the initial/main purpose

And I don't prevent it, just limit.

HHelen And I don't prevent it, just limit.

this was also not the original purpose

Vanessa Especially if they fall in love during their studies,but want to get a work/flat before marrying,...

Then they can wait.

HHelen Would it be enough for them to promise to be together for life in front of friends & family?
When I say wait until married I mean something like this. Not involved the law or religion.

Jen https://unwedchastity.org/d/27-chastity-belt-under-wedding-dress

Vanessa Preventing her to feel pleasure,for example.

sorry i thought you meant alternatives to the belt ???? since i'm in exam stress, i'm often confused here

HHelen Then they can wait.

to the wedding yes, to the liberation from the belt maybe not

Angelina since i'm in exam stress, i'm often confused here

Are you winning Kid???

Megan Are you winning Kid???

unfortunately, i don't understand that either. i don't currently have any problems coping with the stress of school, but when i sit for hours over my papers and then visit the forum, i always have to think again.

Jen Would it be enough for them to promise to be together for life in front of friends & family?

Ask your parents.

Angelina to the wedding yes, to the liberation from the belt maybe not

I insist on no sex before wedding. That's what a belt is for.

HHelen I insist on no sex before wedding. That's what a belt is for.

not necessarily, many parents (like my father) want that, but we have enough examples here in the forum where it is also about other reasons (for example belt until to university degree etc.).

HHelen

It could be very long...Some studies can last 5 years or more...

Jen Would it be enough for them to promise to be together for life in front of friends & family?

It can be a good idea,yes.

Laura

She can wear it for such ceremony!

Angelina sorry i thought you meant alternatives to the belt ???? since i'm in exam stress, i'm often confused here

No problem!

HHelen I insist on no sex before wedding. That's what a belt is for.

Not necessarily.Depends on each person.For some,it is only during studies,for others,a part of her studies,etc...

Vanessa It could be very long...Some studies can last 5 years or more...

I don't know what it's like in the US, but at least for me it's 3 years for the Bachelor's and 5 years for the Master's (and that's only if we stay within the regular study time).

Vanessa No problem!

you know it very well

Vanessa It could be very long...Some studies can last 5 years or more...

Nobody died from being virgin.

HHelen Nobody died from being virgin.

And nobody died for not being virgin.

Joh And nobody died for not being virgin.

there are said to have been cases where people have died during sex