I'd love to hear what it is honestly
Daphne's dilemma
Lea Just one question: Why?
A bit yes. But without the long hairs of course.
Angelina i still imagine it to be very warm and uncomfortable, but good that you still manage to look like a girl.
Well, we boys have the same problem. We can't just put on a thin dress that allows air to blow up to the belt.
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Lea It is not easy to wear modest clothes during the summer especialy that one that cover belts.
that's true, but there are also discreet clothes for summer that are not so warm, summer dresses for example.
Max9 Well, we boys have the same problem. We can't just put on a thin dress that allows air to blow up to the belt.
who says you can't wear a dress?
no seriously: unlike us, you can walk around topless, I couldn't do that even without a chastity bra
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Angelina who says you can't wear a dress?
A kilt would do the job . But that is one point where you can see, that the equal rights for both genders are not equal. Women can wear dresses and pants, men can wear pants. (At least in the western civilization and if you don't want people have a weird look at you, like when women begin to wear pants a long long time ago.)
Angelina you can walk around topless
In public, for example walking through the city?
Women can wear less cloth and look good and decent than man can do.
Right,not very feminine...
Sorry for you...
I agree,hiding belt in Summer is harder(and more frustrating,I liked to wear a bit more sexier clothes in Summer).
Max9 We can't just put on a thin dress that allows air to blow up to the belt.
Tell people you are scottish and wear a kilt!
Kurt A kilt would do the job
Kurt Women can wear dresses and pants, men can wear pants. (At least in the western civilization and if you don't want people have a weird look at you, like when women begin to wear pants a long long time ago.)
Nobody bats an eye at a man wearing a dress in my area any more. Once people are exposed to it, they stop caring or noticing. There is one obvious solution here: be brave. Be a man, wear a dress. Normalize it for your peers and those who come after you.
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gwen There is one obvious solution here: be brave. Be a man, wear a dress. Normalize it for your peers and those who come after you.
That's true. Most people don't have the self-confidence they think they have. And only want to be part of "the group". So they laugh at people or bat an eye on them if they do something that isn't "normal". But if you confront them head on and they don't have the secure feeling of the other members of "the group" the laughing stops and the stammering begins.
And so you can change the thinking of people. If people see your are happy, self-confident and don't want to disabuse/convert them all day with your own believes, they just accept you and every thing is good.
And in my opinion this is the best way, if you want to bring the society to acknowledge and accept the wearing of chastity belts. But I know this is a very hard way to go, because you have to build this self-confidence for yourself first.
gwen Be a man, wear a dress.
I only wanted to point out with this, that the fashion industry is at the moment very limited when it comes to fashion for men. Just look at politician for example (in the western civilization), men always wear suits and women wear so many different clothings (suits, dresses, costumes,...). If you look some centuries back, there you can see that is also possible for men to wear more different kind of clothes, if they are politician.
Kurt Women can wear dresses and pants, men can wear pants. (At least in the western civilization and if you don't want people have a weird look at you, like when women begin to wear pants a long long time ago.)
of course there are differences, but i am also convinced that dresses for men will eventually be developed and socially accepted, it just takes a while
Kurt In public, for example walking through the city?
why not? i've seen it a few times in summer.
Max9 therefore it's no problem when a woman takes a sunbath topless
this is not true, it is not always allowed
Max9 I'm from Bavaria, a deeply catholic and conservative nation...
I always say that catholics are crazy