Angelina Well it depends, but definitely dress would be more comfortable. You can still looks like girl! ๐Ÿ™‚ You just have to have girly style clothes.

    Lea Well it depends, but definitely dress would be more comfortable. You can still looks like girl! ๐Ÿ™‚ You just have to have girly style clothes.

    i still imagine it to be very warm and uncomfortable, but good that you still manage to look like a girl. ๐Ÿ™‚

      Angelina It is not easy to wear modest clothes during the summer especialy that one that cover belts.

        Lea Just one question: Why?

        Angelina I just realised that the dress code probably makes @Lea look like a boy.

        A bit yes. But without the long hairs of course.

        Angelina i still imagine it to be very warm and uncomfortable, but good that you still manage to look like a girl.

        Well, we boys have the same problem. We can't just put on a thin dress that allows air to blow up to the belt.

          Lea It is not easy to wear modest clothes during the summer especialy that one that cover belts.

          that's true, but there are also discreet clothes for summer that are not so warm, summer dresses for example.

          Max9 Well, we boys have the same problem. We can't just put on a thin dress that allows air to blow up to the belt.

          who says you can't wear a dress? ๐Ÿ˜‰
          no seriously: unlike us, you can walk around topless, I couldn't do that even without a chastity bra ๐Ÿ˜‰

            Angelina who says you can't wear a dress?

            A kilt would do the job ๐Ÿ’ƒ . But that is one point where you can see, that the equal rights for both genders are not equal. Women can wear dresses and pants, men can wear pants. (At least in the western civilization and if you don't want people have a weird look at you, like when women begin to wear pants a long long time ago.)

            Angelina you can walk around topless

            In public, for example walking through the city?
            Women can wear less cloth and look good and decent than man can do. ๐Ÿ˜ญ

              Angelina therefore it's no problem when a woman takes a sunbath topless, but when a man does it naked it's a crime

                Angelina

                Right,not very feminine...

                Lea

                Sorry for you...

                Lea

                I agree,hiding belt in Summer is harder(and more frustrating,I liked to wear a bit more sexier clothes in Summer).

                Max9 We can't just put on a thin dress that allows air to blow up to the belt.

                Tell people you are scottish and wear a kilt! ๐Ÿคฃ

                Kurt A kilt would do the job ๐Ÿ’ƒ

                ๐Ÿ˜‰

                Kurt Women can wear dresses and pants, men can wear pants. (At least in the western civilization and if you don't want people have a weird look at you, like when women begin to wear pants a long long time ago.)

                Nobody bats an eye at a man wearing a dress in my area any more. Once people are exposed to it, they stop caring or noticing. There is one obvious solution here: be brave. Be a man, wear a dress. Normalize it for your peers and those who come after you. ๐Ÿ˜

                  gwen I'm from Bavaria, a deeply catholic and conservative nation... ๐Ÿงจ
                  Besides, I anway don't wanna do that.. I mean... neither am I gay, nore will it look gopd on me

                    Max9 I'm from Bavaria, a deeply catholic and conservative nation

                    You could wear a frock, word on the street is that catholic priests love to frock it up!

                    gwen There is one obvious solution here: be brave. Be a man, wear a dress. Normalize it for your peers and those who come after you.

                    That's true. Most people don't have the self-confidence they think they have. And only want to be part of "the group". So they laugh at people or bat an eye on them if they do something that isn't "normal". But if you confront them head on and they don't have the secure feeling of the other members of "the group" the laughing stops and the stammering begins.
                    And so you can change the thinking of people. If people see your are happy, self-confident and don't want to disabuse/convert them all day with your own believes, they just accept you and every thing is good.
                    And in my opinion this is the best way, if you want to bring the society to acknowledge and accept the wearing of chastity belts. But I know this is a very hard way to go, because you have to build this self-confidence for yourself first.

                    gwen Be a man, wear a dress.

                    I only wanted to point out with this, that the fashion industry is at the moment very limited when it comes to fashion for men. Just look at politician for example (in the western civilization), men always wear suits and women wear so many different clothings (suits, dresses, costumes,...). If you look some centuries back, there you can see that is also possible for men to wear more different kind of clothes, if they are politician.

                      Kurt Women can wear dresses and pants, men can wear pants. (At least in the western civilization and if you don't want people have a weird look at you, like when women begin to wear pants a long long time ago.)

                      of course there are differences, but i am also convinced that dresses for men will eventually be developed and socially accepted, it just takes a while ๐Ÿ™‚

                      Kurt In public, for example walking through the city?

                      why not? i've seen it a few times in summer. ๐Ÿ˜‰

                      Max9 therefore it's no problem when a woman takes a sunbath topless

                      this is not true, it is not always allowed

                      Max9 I'm from Bavaria, a deeply catholic and conservative nation... ๐Ÿงจ

                      I always say that catholics are crazy ๐Ÿ˜‰

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                        Angelina always say that catholics are crazy

                        Actually it has nothing to do with catholicism, only with conservatism.

                          Max9 nothing to do with catholicism

                          Good point. OK, don't wear a dress... wear a cassock! ๐Ÿ™ƒ

                          I appreciate the thoughtful responses, but I'm my intent was mostly to be silly. I enjoy the juxtaposition of invoking 'be a man' to encourage men to be less strict in their masculine presentation. ๐Ÿ˜‰

                            gwen I appreciate the thoughtful responses, but I'm my intent was mostly to be silly

                            I know ๐Ÿ˜‰

                            gwen I enjoy the juxtaposition of invoking 'be a man' to encourage men to be less strict in their masculine presentation.

                            Yes, that's very paradox, but that was exactly the same when women started wearkng pants... it also was about embrackng themselves, where the pamts were a 100% male-only clothing to wear. That's why people did have weird lookw at them ... just like they still look at a hairy fat man wearing a princes costume and a pink tutu. Today they are called sexists fore having been like that.

                              gwen but I'm my intent was mostly to be silly. I enjoy the juxtaposition of invoking 'be a man' to encourage men to be less strict in their masculine presentation.

                              I did get your intent from the beginning (and see it also in your way) ๐Ÿ˜‰ and just used it to my advantage ๐Ÿ˜€ Most of the time I just wait for the right moment to post something (if I'm not to lazy ๐Ÿ˜… )