Daphne I do still need aid with a strict schedule though

Daphne I have one

then the keyholder should create the "strict" schedule 😉

        Daphne Keyholder asked me to ask here though

        ok and the answer (at least from me), is that it is the keyholder's job, but maybe other users have ideas.

          3 months later

          It's been a while, thought I've give a small update.

          I've been very much still been locked since the last time, it's very much 24/7. And I've been doing well with it despite some struggles and ofcourse frustrations haha

            Daphne

            i'm glad you're sticking it out and achieving your goal, even if it is of course difficult. good luck in the future. 😃

              Daphne And I've been doing well with it despite some struggles and ofcourse frustrations haha

              Logical.

              But it seems you mainly appreciate it,so,good!🙂

                Daphne

                I've read a few of your posts, and there are a few things that are not clear to me. This is probably rather personal, so I can fully understand if you don't want to answer. I'm just curious, and have little actual knowledge of these things.
                You wrote you are a trans girl. Does that mean transgender (living like the other gender) of transsexual (physically transformed into the other gender)? If transsexual, I assume saying you are a girl means that you feel you are a girl, and not that you have the physical characteristics of a girl (but wish you were a boy)? I think in my country 22 (the age you introduced yourself with) would be young to already have gone through a sex operation and hormone therapy.
                So for the belt, if transsexual you might have a male or she-male belt?

                You mentioned you also wear thighbands, and before you had them, you were considering them continuously locked with only a padlock, no chain. To me that seems hardly possible to do 24/7, and now I read you have a 4 cm chain. Have you tried it for a while with only a padlock, or did you see it would not work from the beginning and chose a very short chain instead?

                    carg If transsexual, I assume saying you are a girl means that you feel you are a girl, and not that you have the physical characteristics of a girl

                    Trans people (who are open about that) typically identify themselves as the gender they feel they should be, not the one corresponding to the body parts they have (or had around birth), so my assumption would be the same.

                        youdontknowme

                        this is something i always get confused with, so if someone calls themselves a transwoman does that mean they see themselves as a woman but have male gender characteristics or vice versa?

                            Angelina this is something i always get confused with, so if someone calls themselves a transwoman does that mean they see themselves as a woman but have male gender characteristics or vice versa?

                            The former. Basically, the idea is that a trans person is the gender that matches their feelings, they just looked like they were a different gender before they came out as trans.

                                To answer I'm born male but identify as a girl, and i use a male belt/cage for now.

                                Regarding thigh bands, I'm wearing them 24/7 with a 4cm chain

                                  Daphne Regarding thigh bands, I'm wearing them 24/7 with a 4cm chain

                                  That sounds very restrictive… And 4cm seems to be too short. Do you get any breaks? Keeping thigh bands on 24/7 might not be good for your health.

                                  I appreciate your devotion but keep in mind that your health is the priority.

                                  Daphne i use a male belt/cage for now.

                                  Which brand of belt (Not a cage) do you use? I want some recommendation, and as trans I feel you would have better knowledge about belt specifically designed for transgenders.