youdontknowme just like school uniforms. totally not my cup of tea. What's supposed to be sexy about it? Or nurses, my ex loved dressid up as a nurse. Therefore she never understood what I find attractive about her feet in nice shoes like high heels or sandals with wedges.
Daphne's dilemma
youdontknowme I have never understood what is supposed to be sexy about lace,
In this case methinks it isn't necessarily that the lace is sexy but that it looks like underwear hanging below her skirt, something you are not supposed to see, and leads one to think about what's up higher.
Avery I'd get aroused putting it on myself so I better not.
you would probably look very sexy in it 
youdontknowme I have never understood what is supposed to be sexy about lace, but I doubt that idea is easy to communicate. Either one is into it or one is not.
finding something sexy is always an individual thing. there are people who find it sexy to lick mayonnaise off other people's bodies, so.... yes there is no right or wrong 
Max9 What's supposed to be sexy about it?
in a sexy school uniform a girl looks well-behaved and dirty at the same time, i find that sexy already
Daphne Like do i stick to just blouse tie + gymslip or do i also get the blazers and underwear that kind of stuff
i think you should just try a few things. wear different variations for a day and then decide what you like best.
Angelina there are people who find it sexy to lick mayonnaise off other people's bodies, so.... yes there is no right or wrong
And then there is always this guy:
https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/3vfsfg/tifu_by_not_understanding_what_vanilla_meant/
the really interesting thing is that he told his parents that. i would die a thousand deaths. 
Avery So would you. There are a number of similar uniforms on the US Amazon site with bare midriff tops. Very nice. Probably also on the German site.
Sounds good, I think I will at least continue to deal with the topic. 
Daphne I do want to know what you all think
but that's hard, i'd actually have to see a photo of you in a school uniform (and there are good reasons why you shouldn't show that)
that just reminds me. do you still have your parents' strict dress code?
Lea You mean uniforms in general have advantages, or you mean the full slip and blazer have advantages over skirt+blouse+tie? And in either case, which? (Apart from turning on some of the members here )
Daphne I do want to know what you all think
I think you really want to go for the strictest option, and are just looking for confirmation. But knowing nothing about how you look like, what your social environment is, what kind of work you are thinking of, we don't have anything to base serious advice on. (And like Angelina said, you shouldn't divulge enough information so that we could.)
carg I think you really want to go for the strictest option, and are just looking for confirmation. But knowing nothing about how you look like, what your social environment is, what kind of work you are thinking of, we don't have anything to base serious advice on. (And like Angelina said, you shouldn't divulge enough information so that we could.)
That's a pretty big assumption yes, one that's wrong. I'm not here for confirmation or anything. That being said, i don't mind giving some of that info if it helps.
Daphne Well you dont have to think what to wear. You are sure that you always wear appropriate clothes. You can try both and compare which one do you prefer.
carg In general. But even strict uniform has advantages for example during cold weather you exactly know what to wear and you don t have to think if it match uniform.
Daphne That's a pretty big assumption yes, one that's wrong. I'm not here for confirmation or anything. That being said, i don't mind giving some of that info if it helps.
OK, since you asked what we think, I decided to take you up on it. My idea was based on that you selected thighbands, and the shortest possible chain too, after asking about it here. But since my assumption is wrong, I was thinking that we might be able to help you if you give us a list of pro's and con's for you for both options: that would give us an idea what is important to you in the choice, and we can perhaps tell you what we think of them, and come up with more.
Lea you exactly know what to wear
Yes, that is of course the standard advantage of uniforms: no need to choose, and apart from that more equality between rich and poor kids (visually).
In what way is the cold weather relevant? Do you find it harder to pick, and match, a winter outfit than a summer outfit (if not in uniform)?