Feelings about being a chastity belt girl.

Sara2001

Angelina so (only theoretically) your parents would accept it if you didn't wear a cb for your husband after the wedding ?

Yes. My mother would be happy for me and my father would accept it.

Vanessa If she's still wearing it,it would be logical.Her husband(or wife!😉)should have the keys.

That's how it will be and my father is really looking forward to the day where he can handover the keys. He is very proud of me that I will go into a marriage where I stay belted and he thinks that I will have a very happy life because of that. That's why he is very happy about it.

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes. My mother would be happy for me and my father would accept it.

Would she prefer you don't have to wear it after marriage?

Sara2001 That's how it will be and my father is really looking forward to the day where he can handover the keys. He is very proud of me that I will go into a marriage where I stay belted and he thinks that I will have a very happy life because of that. That's why he is very happy about it.

And you?If you've the choice,with no consequences,what would you decide(only about the chastity belt,not for other aspects)?

And would your choice be the same,if the only consequence is you would be equal in your marriage,and it would not be a male led relationship?

Angelina i would live with camryn with my father or her parents. at least my father would agree 😉 as i said we can get married as soon as camryn is 18 and everything else we can organize afterwards 😉

I would not like much being married but still live with my(or her)parents,with my wife...

Sara2001 Most happy he is about me going into a male led marriage but CB is a nice add-on 🙂

Yes,a chastity belt isn't necessarily a part of it,but I guess it is "common" in such relationship.

Sara2001 That's the idea behind everything.

It's the more important,sure.And it seems it's the case!🙂

Angelina

@Vanessa

i would live with camryn with my father or her parents. at least my father would agree 😉 as i said we can get married as soon as camryn is 18 and everything else we can organize afterwards 😉

@Sara2001

but i think that your father is more happy that you will stay in the cb after the wedding or ?)

Sara2001

Angelina but i think that your father is more happy that you will stay in the cb after the wedding or ?)

Most happy he is about me going into a male led marriage but CB is a nice add-on 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

I hope the most important thing for him is that you are happy 🙂

Sara2001

Angelina That's the idea behind everything.

Angelina

Sara2001

I hope that for your, even though I'm not always sure about it.

Sara2001

Vanessa Would she prefer you don't have to wear it after marriage?

I know in general she is very happy with her own situation and supports marriage in a belt but she knows that it is completely different for us girls. She knows that it is very hard for us because it was not our own descision to wear it now. She hasn't forced us to wear one but is also a strong believer of the benefits. It's most important for her that we are happy.

Vanessa And you?If you've the choice,with no consequences,what would you decide(only about the chastity belt,not for other aspects)?

It depends. If I agree that my husband has the right to decide when I am allowed to have orgasm I would prefer the belt. If I can choose freely when I have orgasm I would not decide for one.

Vanessa And would your choice be the same,if the only consequence is you would be equal in your marriage,and it would not be a male led relationship?

I think this depends on my partner. I have to say that I don't have any experience with equal roles in a relationship but I think it can be difficult to make decisions together.

Vanessa Yes,a chastity belt isn't necessarily a part of it,but I guess it is "common" in such relationship.

I am not sure about that. I searched the internet for more information very often and I think it is very uncommon.

Vanessa

Sara2001 I know in general she is very happy with her own situation and supports marriage in a belt but she knows that it is completely different for us girls. She knows that it is very hard for us because it was not our own descision to wear it now. She hasn't forced us to wear one but is also a strong believer of the benefits. It's most important for her that we are happy.

Good she understands you,and how you feel,even if she thinks the use of a chastity belt is a good thing.

Sara2001 It depends. If I agree that my husband has the right to decide when I am allowed to have orgasm I would prefer the belt. If I can choose freely when I have orgasm I would not decide for one.

And would you prefer if you can decide freely or if it is your husband who can decide when you have an orgasm?

Sara2001 I think this depends on my partner. I have to say that I don't have any experience with equal roles in a relationship but I think it can be difficult to make decisions together.

It is a bit related to what we discussed about @strictfather's family.If both are totally equal,it can be hard to decide if both don't want to do a compromise;so having a main leader,who can decide in such case,but far from a man led relationship,could be useful.

Sara2001 I am not sure about that. I searched the internet for more information very often and I think it is very uncommon.

Oh?I thought it was a classical case when a chastity belt is used.

Angelina i wouldn't have a problem with that, there's a realistic chance that i'll work with my father later on, but of course we would only do that if it's ok for camryn, but i don't have to worry about it 🙂

I don't know you planned to work with him;anyway I think it is better for a marrried couple to have their own house.But if it's ok for you and Camryn,no problem,sure.

Angelina you can lead your relationship the way you want, but I can tell you it is not difficult to make decisions together if you talk about it before and compare the arguments 😉

It depends.Some people don't want to make compromise easily,or have troubles to find one in some situation.

Angelina

@Vanessa

i wouldn't have a problem with that, there's a realistic chance that i'll work with my father later on, but of course we would only do that if it's ok for camryn, but i don't have to worry about it 🙂

@Sara2001

you can lead your relationship the way you want, but I can tell you it is not difficult to make decisions together if you talk about it before and compare the arguments 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa And would you prefer if you can decide freely or if it is your husband who can decide when you have an orgasm?

I never thought about it as a singular aspects. I think it is a very important aspect in a male led relationship and for now I really like this concept.

Vanessa but far from a man led relationship,could be useful.

At the end it is closer as it looks. One has the final saying. I don't get orders like in the army, everything is done out of love and in a very respectful way.

Angelina

Vanessa

it's ok for us, and it's not forever, once we'll earn enough money camryn and i'm looking for my own house or apartment, but for starters it's ok.

i have the same interests in bookkeeping as my father so i can imagine working with him later, but he wants me to study first, i'm not sure yet

@Sara2001

even if you consider the relationship to be happy, you should consider individual aspects, because these individual aspects compose the relationship and make it a happy one 🙂

Ines

Sara2001 for now I really like this concept.

I share this feeling with Sarah. It is very nice the trust in our man when we give him all this power, and it is very nice love demonstration towards the girl that husband manage all this power and responsibility making happy his wife.

Vanessa

Sara2001

I think the difference,in my opinion,his the "main leader" only use his possibility to decide,if they have discussed long enough and can't agree.Most of the time,they would be equal,and can decide things together.

Ines

Reading it makes me willing to try it,for a limited time,later,with Emilie...

Angelina it's ok for us, and it's not forever, once we'll earn enough money camryn and i'm looking for my own house or apartment, but for starters it's ok.

i have the same interests in bookkeeping as my father so i can imagine working with him later, but he wants me to study first, i'm not sure yet

I agree,if it's for some time only,and plan to live together later,it can be a good compromise to marry as soon as possible.

You don't want to try a bit living together before,as I want to do with Emilie?

Sara2001 It is but it is something you normally only get as bundle 🙂

I think too.

Sara2001

Angelina even if you consider the relationship to be happy, you should consider individual aspects, because these individual aspects compose the relationship and make it a happy one 🙂

What do you mean with individual aspects? I can do my hobbies and anything.

Angelina

Sara2001

because you wrote you've never thought about singular aspects, I think it's important every single one 😉

Sara2001

Angelina because you wrote you've never thought about singular aspects, I think it's important every single one 😉

It is but it is something you normally only get as bundle 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

i know 😉 but i am a human being who likes to take things apart and look at single points, but i understand that not everybody is like that 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa I think the difference,in my opinion,his the "main leader" only use his possibility to decide,if they have discussed long enough and can't agree.Most of the time,they would be equal,and can decide things together.

Yes, in 99.9% of the situations we have the same opinion.

Angelina

Vanessa

of course, when camryn turns 18, we definitely want to live together for 2 to 3 months, we have to test if it works 😉 but at the latest afterwards we will get married

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, in 99.9% of the situations we have the same opinion.

In these cases,both possibilities(male led relationship or equal relationship with a main leader)are very similar,sure.But I guess having as often the same opinions is not the case in all male led relationships...

Angelina of course, when camryn turns 18, we definitely want to live together for 2 to 3 months, we have to test if it works 😉 but at the latest afterwards we will get married

Good idea,you must be sure all is ok when living together.Will you live with your father during,or will your father rent an apartment for you during these few months?

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