Feelings about being a chastity belt girl.

James

strictfather That is more or less true. You don’t expect her really to be a virgin before met you, but after that if she’s with you you expect her to be with you.

Laura

James What would you do if found out she was still virgin?

Ines

strictfather
But it is not special for you to receive something that costs us so much and for such long time to maintain?

Vanessa

Laura Why don't we ask guys here?

Good idea,they're the only ones who can tell us what they prefer.

Ines But it is not special for you to receive something that costs us so much and for such long time to maintain?

I think it is a good gift a woman can do to her husband.

strictfather ometimes man and woman are not compatible

It is one of the reason for what I think sex before marriage is not bad,but can help to solve problems before they happened at the wrong time(like during wedding night).

But it is pleasant to notice most men here care more about other part of the relationship than the virginity of their wife.

Angelina

strictfather

I think the whole thing is easily misunderstood. it's more about that a girl who had sex could make a young virgin afraid. he might be afraid to disappoint the girl.

besides, a boy likes to know that the girl has saved herself for the right one.

strictfather

angelina: yes and no. yes for reason you told. no because... how can you be sure your sexual life with your husband will work? sometimes man and woman are not compatible. i don't know if you understand what i mean.
examples (valid also exchanging "he" and "she"):

he loves make sex seldom and she doens't like: problem!
there are "size" problems between he and her: problem!
he likes (at bed) doing things she doesn't like or she is not interested at all: problem!
etc etc
if you stay virgin till after wedding... maybe some of these problem will come out at it will be too late.

i am not telling "folks, make sex before wedding!!!!". NO. I am only telling there there are positive and negative side effects in both position: remaining virgin or not remaining (about this last position i have sad example in my family. but not because is wrong not remaining virgin but because my daughter abandoned everything to think only to sex)

Angelina

strictfather

I agree that there can be these problems. but about such things talk a few before getting married.

it can always happen that one wants and the other does not, but that is not a reason for separation or divorce. you can talk about preferences, then there are these problems also not

Raziel

I wouldn't mind if she was a virgin or not, plus the older I get, the harder it'll be to find a virgin, so my limitations shouldn't be restricted to her sex life experience, but what interests we share that's more important for me. I want to be happy with the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with, so that includes doing things together we both love, like hobbies for art, music, or whatever.

Sara2001

Laura But we are talking about preference.

I don't have the feeling they would prefer it. My brother says he don't care. He says if a girl stays a virgin as her own choice, the girl is often a bit strange and isolated in the class. I never had a girl in my classes except some girls from Turkey and the near East that wanted to stay virgin and these girls only did it to avoid major trouble so it felt like not really a free choice for me.

Laura

Sara2001 He says if a girl stays a virgin as her own choice, the girl is often a bit strange and isolated in the class.

What it's not her own choice, like me, you and your sister? E.g. a girl form the same family traditions as yours.

Ines

Sara2001
Slutty girls have their públic(amongst the boys) , mild girls have their public, and we the most conservative in this aspect, have our boys too.
I am usually ellected as class representative so I can not considerate me as isolated. And sometimes a boy proposed me go to the cinema or walk around no Saturday afternoon.
And in the other sensei, some cool progessist girls just want live of the men being pretty and slutty. And it is retrograde, not to choose my way of life.

Angelina

Ines

Well, the discussion has gone a long way now.

so I would like to say like @Ines that every kind of girl has her own boys 😉

but i also think that many boys like it when the girl is still a virgin, because this is a big proof of love, because the girl kept herself for him. this is very romantic 😉

Vanessa

Angelina this is a big proof of love, because the girl kept herself for him. this is very romantic

I think too,even if not my case anymore since a long time.

Laura irls, should I add the tag "Virginity" to the topic?

It would make sense.

Laura

Girls, should I add the tag "Virginity" to the topic? 🙂

Angelina

Laura

depending on how long this discussion about virginity lasts.

Ines

Laura
Well maybe not the main, but a lot of things are surrounding virginity in this thread.

Renita

Laura Girls, should I add the tag "Virginity" to the topic?

Definitely. As you still continue to talk about your favorite topic

amber

I hate wearing the belt, it makes me feel like a child, its basically saying "you're too young to see or touch your private parts" and making it so.

Ines

amber
If fact you are a little young, a little young to wear one. Every family is different, but in my case, at your age I was only talking and asking about belts, not wearing one.

Angelina

amber
what are your wearing times like at the moment ?
could you get used to the belt a little ?

Laura

amber I hate wearing the belt, it makes me feel like a child,

I would say opposite. A chastity belt is an attribute of an adult girl who is attractive to boys and has boys in mind.

Ines Even me, seeing belts in my family and with my mother and sister example, when I was 15, I passed crisses and I only can pass them developing some aspects of my feminity.

16 is the best age to start wearing. I would prefer to start being 16 rather than 19.

amber

Ines Wait, you wanted to wear the belt when you were 13? ...why??

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