General discussion and advices about Chastity

MaximeJourennes

Hi again @Angelina 😀 As you asked in Introductions thead, i'm copying my last post here so you can reply (thank you so much !)
Of course everyone is welcome in the discussion 🙂

Angelina : i'm doing very well 🙂 but yes it is very hard

I truly think you have a stronger mind and resistance than 95% of other girls, because I think a lot of people wouldn't be able to manage it like you do and still being happy

Angelina : it's like asking a paraplegic how he copes with the wheelchair, it just is.

Very interesting point, but I don't share your view here : in one case (the paraplegic) it's caused by nature and you cannot do anything to change it. In our case, it's a human decision, and we could change it with discussion or arguments. I hope you understand what I mean

Angelina

MaximeJourennes I truly think you have a stronger mind and resistance than 95% of other girls, because I think a lot of people wouldn't be able to manage it like you do and still being happy

as i said before the option of not making it doesn't exist or would have very bad consequences. and of course i am still very happy. i am a positive person and outside of chastity i am very happy with my life. 🙂

MaximeJourennes Very interesting point, but I don't share your view here : in one case (the paraplegic) it's caused by nature and you cannot do anything to change it. In our case, it's a human decision, and we could change it with discussion or arguments. I hope you understand what I mean

I understand what you mean, the comparison was perhaps not quite right, but it describes my situation very well.

Vanessa

MaximeJourennes still being happy

We should try!🙂

But,if we can be happy,except about the chastity devices,it is not too hard.

Even,if,at least in my case,I can sometimes be very sad due to it.

MaximeJourennes no sucess until now

Not very surprising.

A problem is that,if we managed to wear it with no problem long enough,we don't have much arguments to take it off,except wanting to be able to masturbate/have sex,which are not good ones...

Max9

Sure you can, but she has decided that the alternatkves would only be worse

MaximeJourennes

Angelina as i said before the option of not making it doesn't exist or would have very bad consequences. and of course i am still very happy. i am a positive person and outside of chastity i am very happy with my life.

did you or do you still try to talk to your father and tell him than your equipment isn't necessary ? I'm trying to convince my gf everyday but no sucess until now. But I will not stop
And yes you seem to be very positive despite all of this. That's amazing

Angelina it describes my situation very well.

So you really feel like you don't have any choice and it's mandatory to live with it ? Sorry, my questions are a bit psychological but I'm very interested in understing your mind and way of thinking 🙂

Angelina

MaximeJourennes did you or do you still try to talk to your father and tell him than your equipment isn't necessary ?

yes and no. in the meantime i have noticed that he will not deviate from his positions, but if something is really very bad i talk to him about it. i can only change things once a year after my birthday, but i can go and talk to him in an emergency. if he accepts it as an emergency he will change something.

MaximeJourennes Sorry, my questions are a bit psychological but I'm very interested in understing your mind and way of thinking 🙂

it would be too complicated to explain exactly. let's put it this way. if you run with your head against the wall in order to break through the wall, you will stop at some point because you will get a headache. 😉

Vanessa A problem is that,if we managed to wear it with no problem long enough,we don't have much arguments to take it off,except wanting to be able to masturbate/have sex,which are not good ones...

that's right i can wear it so my dad doesn't understand the need for a change

MaximeJourennes What precisely makes you sad ? Is it the fact that you cannot remove it and you always have to be careful about it, or the frustration you get because of it ?

All of it 🙁

MaximeJourennes

Vanessa Even,if,at least in my case,I can sometimes be very sad due to it.

What precisely makes you sad ? Is it the fact that you cannot remove it and you always have to be careful about it, or the frustration you get because of it ?

Vanessa which are not good ones

Exactly... I imagined to simulate a huge pain after a few days or weeks so she will have pity for me and remove it, but I know i'm a bad actor 😂

Vanessa

MaximeJourennes the frustration you get because of it ?

Mainly the frustration,

And it is not pleasant to not have access to this part of my body,more generally.

MaximeJourennes I know i'm a bad actor 😂

And I guess she could notice you're fine,and faking it.

Angelina if he accepts it as an emergency he will change something.

Has it already happened?

Angelina if you run with your head against the wall in order to break through the wall, you will stop at some point because you will get a headache. 😉

Then you go take a mace and break the wall;but you don't break your chastity belt!😉

Angelina All of it 🙁

Well summarized!

MaximeJourennes Are you sometimes afraid that your father could lose the key or not free you ?

All belts are breakable/lockpickable,anyway.

Angelina no, the safe is secured with a four-digit code, but after 3 wrong attempts the safe is blocked for 24 hours and my father gets a message on his smartphone. so it's better not to risk anything.

It would not be a good idea,yes!

MaximeJourennes You should try with your birthdate 😂

Or the day of her first wearing of the chastity belt!😉

MaximeJourennes

Angelina if you run with your head against the wall in order to break through the wall, you will stop at some point because you will get a headache.

I'm glad that you are able to see it this way. I really think you should write a book or something similar to share your story and your secrets to have such a mindset, because your story is truly inspirational.

Are you sometimes afraid that your father could lose the key or not free you ?

Angelina

MaximeJourennes I'm glad that you are able to see it this way. I really think you should write a book or something similar to share your story and your secrets to have such a mindset, because your story is truly inspirational.

i have often thought about writing a book, but it is not about chastity belts or anything that would be interesting for the forum. 😂

MaximeJourennes Are you sometimes afraid that your father could lose the key or not free you ?

we have an emergency key in our safe 😉

MaximeJourennes

Angelina writing a book, but it is not about chastity belts or anything

I'm curious now ! What would be the topic ? I love reading.

Angelina we have an emergency key in our safe 😉

Did you already try to open it ? 🤣

Angelina

MaximeJourennes I'm curious now ! What would be the topic ? I love reading.

it would be something about german politics 😉

MaximeJourennes Did you already try to open it ? 🤣

no, the safe is secured with a four-digit code, but after 3 wrong attempts the safe is blocked for 24 hours and my father gets a message on his smartphone. so it's better not to risk anything.

MaximeJourennes

Angelina it would be something about german politics 😉

Wow that's awesome 😃 is it your field of studies ? i'm a huge fan of (geo)politics myself and since I have some family living in Germany, I read a lot about german political situation. So, AfD or Die Grunen ? 😉

Angelina no, the safe is secured with a four-digit code, but after 3 wrong attempts the safe is blocked for 24 hours and my father gets a message on his smartphone. so it's better not to risk anything.

You should try with your birthdate 😂

Angelina

MaximeJourennes Wow that's awesome 😃 is it your field of studies ? i'm a huge fan of (geo)politics myself and since I have some family living in Germany, I read a lot about german political situation.

no, it's just a hobby of mine. i'm politically active myself 😉

MaximeJourennes . So, AfD or Die Grunen ? 😉

Preferably neither of them 😂

MaximeJourennes You should try with your birthdate 😂

i don't believe in it, my father is not an idiot 😂

MaximeJourennes

Angelina no, it's just a hobby of mine. i'm politically active myself

I know it's a little off-topic but I would be so interested to read the point a view of a young german woman about the actual political situation in Germany and your views about the future and the situation of the country. Would you agree to share your thoughts with me ???

Angelina i don't believe in it, my father is not an idiot 😂

Well, maybe he knows that you would react like this and that you will never try... If I was you, I would try, maybe you will have a good surprise 😃

Angelina

MaximeJourennes I know it's a little off-topic but I would be so interested to read the point a view of a young german woman about the actual political situation in Germany and your views about the future and the situation of the country. Would you agree to share your thoughts with me ???

have a look at the topic "political discussions from germany", i created the topic myself and made my positions clear 😉

MaximeJourennes Well, maybe he knows that you would react like this and that you will never try... If I was you, I would try, maybe you will have a good surprise 😃

as I said I do not believe in it 😉

Vanessa Has it already happened?

in small points yes, but nothing worth writing about. there have not been any major emergencies yet.

Vanessa Or the day of her first wearing of the chastity belt!😉

good idea, I hadn't thought of that at all yet 😉

Vanessa

Angelina in small points yes, but nothing worth writing about. there have not been any major emergencies yet.

He always accepted to change things,in these cases?

Angelina good idea, I hadn't thought of that at all yet 😉

I guess the limited trying reset when the safe is opened,right?If so,try once and wait until your father has opened it again to try another one,etc...You can try twice,too,but I don't advise it,as,in this case,if your father make a mistake when trying to open it and it is locked for 24 hours,he would know you've tried to open it...If you try only once,it would happen only if he makes two mistakes before opening it,which would be unlikely.

MaximeJourennes

Angelina have a look at the topic "political discussions from germany", i created the topic myself and made my positions clear 😉

Wow, what a goldmine ! Thank you for this and for writing in English 😃

Vanessa If you try only once,it would happen only if he makes two mistakes before opening it,which would be unlikely.

I totally agree with you Vanessa, I would try the same

Angelina

Vanessa He always accepted to change things,in these cases?

these cases have not happened often, so I do not want to make a general statement.

Vanessa

i can try twice, the third time the correct code has to be entered. so if i try twice i can't try again until my dad has opened the safe so i have two tries after that. i hope i understand what you mean and you understand me.

MaximeJourennes Wow, what a goldmine ! Thank you for this and for writing in English 😃

😉

Vanessa

Angelina i can try twice, the third time the correct code has to be entered. so if i try twice i can't try again until my dad has opened the safe so i have two tries after that. i hope i understand what you mean and you understand me.

Yes,it's what I meant.But I suggested trying once only,as if you try twice and your father make a mistake before opening it the next time,it would be locked,and he would know you have tried to enter the code two times.

Angelina

Vanessa

right, i can try once but the 5 numbers make it 89,999 possibilities. if i make one try every day, i won't be out of the belt in my lifetime. 😂