Vanessa Even,if,at least in my case,I can sometimes be very sad due to it.
What precisely makes you sad ? Is it the fact that you cannot remove it and you always have to be careful about it, or the frustration you get because of it ?
Vanessa which are not good ones
Exactly... I imagined to simulate a huge pain after a few days or weeks so she will have pity for me and remove it, but I know i'm a bad actor 
MaximeJourennes did you or do you still try to talk to your father and tell him than your equipment isn't necessary ?
yes and no. in the meantime i have noticed that he will not deviate from his positions, but if something is really very bad i talk to him about it. i can only change things once a year after my birthday, but i can go and talk to him in an emergency. if he accepts it as an emergency he will change something.
MaximeJourennes Sorry, my questions are a bit psychological but I'm very interested in understing your mind and way of thinking
it would be too complicated to explain exactly. let's put it this way. if you run with your head against the wall in order to break through the wall, you will stop at some point because you will get a headache. 
Vanessa A problem is that,if we managed to wear it with no problem long enough,we don't have much arguments to take it off,except wanting to be able to masturbate/have sex,which are not good ones...
that's right i can wear it so my dad doesn't understand the need for a change
MaximeJourennes What precisely makes you sad ? Is it the fact that you cannot remove it and you always have to be careful about it, or the frustration you get because of it ?
All of it 
Angelina if you run with your head against the wall in order to break through the wall, you will stop at some point because you will get a headache.
I'm glad that you are able to see it this way. I really think you should write a book or something similar to share your story and your secrets to have such a mindset, because your story is truly inspirational.
Are you sometimes afraid that your father could lose the key or not free you ?
MaximeJourennes I'm glad that you are able to see it this way. I really think you should write a book or something similar to share your story and your secrets to have such a mindset, because your story is truly inspirational.
i have often thought about writing a book, but it is not about chastity belts or anything that would be interesting for the forum.
MaximeJourennes Are you sometimes afraid that your father could lose the key or not free you ?
we have an emergency key in our safe
MaximeJourennes I'm curious now ! What would be the topic ? I love reading.
it would be something about german politics
MaximeJourennes Did you already try to open it ?
no, the safe is secured with a four-digit code, but after 3 wrong attempts the safe is blocked for 24 hours and my father gets a message on his smartphone. so it's better not to risk anything.
Angelina it would be something about german politics
Wow that's awesome 
is it your field of studies ? i'm a huge fan of (geo)politics myself and since I have some family living in Germany, I read a lot about german political situation. So, AfD or Die Grunen ?
Angelina no, the safe is secured with a four-digit code, but after 3 wrong attempts the safe is blocked for 24 hours and my father gets a message on his smartphone. so it's better not to risk anything.
You should try with your birthdate
MaximeJourennes Wow that's awesome
no, it's just a hobby of mine. i'm politically active myself
MaximeJourennes . So, AfD or Die Grunen ?
Preferably neither of them
MaximeJourennes You should try with your birthdate
i don't believe in it, my father is not an idiot
Angelina no, it's just a hobby of mine. i'm politically active myself
I know it's a little off-topic but I would be so interested to read the point a view of a young german woman about the actual political situation in Germany and your views about the future and the situation of the country. Would you agree to share your thoughts with me ???
Angelina i don't believe in it, my father is not an idiot
Well, maybe he knows that you would react like this and that you will never try... If I was you, I would try, maybe you will have a good surprise
MaximeJourennes the frustration you get because of it ?
Mainly the frustration,
And it is not pleasant to not have access to this part of my body,more generally.
MaximeJourennes I know i'm a bad actor
And I guess she could notice you're fine,and faking it.
Angelina if he accepts it as an emergency he will change something.
Has it already happened?
Angelina if you run with your head against the wall in order to break through the wall, you will stop at some point because you will get a headache.
Then you go take a mace and break the wall;but you don't break your chastity belt!
Angelina All of it
Well summarized!
MaximeJourennes Are you sometimes afraid that your father could lose the key or not free you ?
All belts are breakable/lockpickable,anyway.
Angelina no, the safe is secured with a four-digit code, but after 3 wrong attempts the safe is blocked for 24 hours and my father gets a message on his smartphone. so it's better not to risk anything.
It would not be a good idea,yes!
MaximeJourennes You should try with your birthdate
Or the day of her first wearing of the chastity belt!
MaximeJourennes I know it's a little off-topic but I would be so interested to read the point a view of a young german woman about the actual political situation in Germany and your views about the future and the situation of the country. Would you agree to share your thoughts with me ???
have a look at the topic "political discussions from germany", i created the topic myself and made my positions clear
MaximeJourennes Well, maybe he knows that you would react like this and that you will never try... If I was you, I would try, maybe you will have a good surprise
as I said I do not believe in it
Vanessa Has it already happened?
in small points yes, but nothing worth writing about. there have not been any major emergencies yet.
Vanessa Or the day of her first wearing of the chastity belt!
good idea, I hadn't thought of that at all yet
Angelina in small points yes, but nothing worth writing about. there have not been any major emergencies yet.
He always accepted to change things,in these cases?
Angelina good idea, I hadn't thought of that at all yet
I guess the limited trying reset when the safe is opened,right?If so,try once and wait until your father has opened it again to try another one,etc...You can try twice,too,but I don't advise it,as,in this case,if your father make a mistake when trying to open it and it is locked for 24 hours,he would know you've tried to open it...If you try only once,it would happen only if he makes two mistakes before opening it,which would be unlikely.
Angelina have a look at the topic "political discussions from germany", i created the topic myself and made my positions clear
Wow, what a goldmine ! Thank you for this and for writing in English
Vanessa If you try only once,it would happen only if he makes two mistakes before opening it,which would be unlikely.
I totally agree with you Vanessa, I would try the same
Vanessa He always accepted to change things,in these cases?
these cases have not happened often, so I do not want to make a general statement.
i can try twice, the third time the correct code has to be entered. so if i try twice i can't try again until my dad has opened the safe so i have two tries after that. i hope i understand what you mean and you understand me.
MaximeJourennes Wow, what a goldmine ! Thank you for this and for writing in English
Angelina i can try twice, the third time the correct code has to be entered. so if i try twice i can't try again until my dad has opened the safe so i have two tries after that. i hope i understand what you mean and you understand me.
Yes,it's what I meant.But I suggested trying once only,as if you try twice and your father make a mistake before opening it the next time,it would be locked,and he would know you have tried to enter the code two times.
Joh Did you search in the internet for this type of save? Read the instruction if it has a general setting or a master key to reset it.
i did some research on the internet, it's all done through my dad's smartphone, it's 100% secure, it was also not cheap (just like the items that are inside)
Angelina it's all done through my dad's smartphone
Then, borrow his smartphone when he's sleeping 
**that is very difficult to do, if i had the possibility i would have "borrowed" the keys for the belt long ago
