General discussion and advices about Chastity

MaximeJourennes did you or do you still try to talk to your father and tell him than your equipment isn't necessary ?

yes and no. in the meantime i have noticed that he will not deviate from his positions, but if something is really very bad i talk to him about it. i can only change things once a year after my birthday, but i can go and talk to him in an emergency. if he accepts it as an emergency he will change something.

MaximeJourennes Sorry, my questions are a bit psychological but I'm very interested in understing your mind and way of thinking

it would be too complicated to explain exactly. let's put it this way. if you run with your head against the wall in order to break through the wall, you will stop at some point because you will get a headache.

Vanessa A problem is that,if we managed to wear it with no problem long enough,we don't have much arguments to take it off,except wanting to be able to masturbate/have sex,which are not good ones...

that's right i can wear it so my dad doesn't understand the need for a change

MaximeJourennes What precisely makes you sad ? Is it the fact that you cannot remove it and you always have to be careful about it, or the frustration you get because of it ?

All of it

MaximeJourennes I'm glad that you are able to see it this way. I really think you should write a book or something similar to share your story and your secrets to have such a mindset, because your story is truly inspirational.

i have often thought about writing a book, but it is not about chastity belts or anything that would be interesting for the forum.

MaximeJourennes Are you sometimes afraid that your father could lose the key or not free you ?

we have an emergency key in our safe

MaximeJourennes I'm curious now ! What would be the topic ? I love reading.

it would be something about german politics

MaximeJourennes Did you already try to open it ?

no, the safe is secured with a four-digit code, but after 3 wrong attempts the safe is blocked for 24 hours and my father gets a message on his smartphone. so it's better not to risk anything.

MaximeJourennes Wow that's awesome is it your field of studies ? i'm a huge fan of (geo)politics myself and since I have some family living in Germany, I read a lot about german political situation.

no, it's just a hobby of mine. i'm politically active myself

MaximeJourennes . So, AfD or Die Grunen ?

Preferably neither of them

MaximeJourennes You should try with your birthdate

i don't believe in it, my father is not an idiot

MaximeJourennes the frustration you get because of it ?

Mainly the frustration,

And it is not pleasant to not have access to this part of my body,more generally.

MaximeJourennes I know i'm a bad actor

And I guess she could notice you're fine,and faking it.

Angelina if he accepts it as an emergency he will change something.

Has it already happened?

Angelina if you run with your head against the wall in order to break through the wall, you will stop at some point because you will get a headache.

Then you go take a mace and break the wall;but you don't break your chastity belt!

Angelina All of it

Well summarized!

MaximeJourennes Are you sometimes afraid that your father could lose the key or not free you ?

All belts are breakable/lockpickable,anyway.

Angelina no, the safe is secured with a four-digit code, but after 3 wrong attempts the safe is blocked for 24 hours and my father gets a message on his smartphone. so it's better not to risk anything.

It would not be a good idea,yes!

MaximeJourennes You should try with your birthdate

Or the day of her first wearing of the chastity belt!

MaximeJourennes I know it's a little off-topic but I would be so interested to read the point a view of a young german woman about the actual political situation in Germany and your views about the future and the situation of the country. Would you agree to share your thoughts with me ???

have a look at the topic "political discussions from germany", i created the topic myself and made my positions clear

MaximeJourennes Well, maybe he knows that you would react like this and that you will never try... If I was you, I would try, maybe you will have a good surprise

as I said I do not believe in it

Vanessa Has it already happened?

in small points yes, but nothing worth writing about. there have not been any major emergencies yet.

Vanessa Or the day of her first wearing of the chastity belt!

good idea, I hadn't thought of that at all yet

Vanessa He always accepted to change things,in these cases?

these cases have not happened often, so I do not want to make a general statement.

Vanessa

i can try twice, the third time the correct code has to be entered. so if i try twice i can't try again until my dad has opened the safe so i have two tries after that. i hope i understand what you mean and you understand me.

MaximeJourennes Wow, what a goldmine ! Thank you for this and for writing in English

Vanessa

right, i can try once but the 5 numbers make it 89,999 possibilities. if i make one try every day, i won't be out of the belt in my lifetime.

Angelina right, i can try once but the 5 numbers make it 89,999 possibilities. if i make one try every day, i won't be out of the belt in my lifetime.

Did you search in the internet for this type of save? Read the instruction if it has a general setting or a master key to reset it.

Joh Did you search in the internet for this type of save? Read the instruction if it has a general setting or a master key to reset it.

i did some research on the internet, it's all done through my dad's smartphone, it's 100% secure, it was also not cheap (just like the items that are inside)

MaximeJourennes

**that is very difficult to do, if i had the possibility i would have "borrowed" the keys for the belt long ago

Angelina

You should try first the classical dates,like birthdays,day of your belting(would make sense for a safe in it your keys are kept), maybe part of phone number,of payment card numbers,etc...

Angelina

But a phone may be easier to borrow than your keys!