C-B I dont have cb (Fortunately? unfortunately 😀?)

      Kaja unfortunately 😀?)

      I believe that you will not get along your belt! I think you are so much liberal for it.
      Please do not take offense.

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          Ines I really want one to my (our) pleasure 😉

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              C-B Sorry to be so curious, but you have or somehow secure / check CB or lock against cheating?

              well, that's why the belt has a padlock. so to put it naively 😂

                Kaja I really want one to my (our) pleasure

                They do mess with your head - like I'm sure you've thought about it yeah it's a rush. But I call that a toy belt 🤣. chastity belt is different - it control's you or like you let it control you.

                    C-B but you have or somehow secure / check CB or lock against cheating?

                    Make sure it's locked completely, especially the secondary shield.

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                        Jen But I call that a toy belt 🤣. chastity belt is different - it control's you or like you let it control you.

                        i agree, maybe we should finally clearly define what is serious use and what is play

                            Angelina i agree, maybe we should finally clearly define what is serious use and what is play

                            I'll take a stab at that. If the belt is intended to prevent sexual pleasure it's serious use, if it's intended to enhance sexual pleasure it's a toy.

                                Avery I'll take a stab at that. If the belt is intended to prevent sexual pleasure it's serious use, if it's intended to enhance sexual pleasure it's a toy.

                                My belt - well it's to enhance sexual pleasure by delaying it until I'm married🤣

                                Lol sorry actually I like your definition

                                    Jen That is the thing. When you have an unrestricted quantity of sexual pleasure, the quality suffers as a result, so preventing and enhancing pleasure are not mutually exclusive.

                                        youdontknowme preventing and enhancing pleasure are not mutually exclusive

                                        Right. But in @Jen 's case she has a serious purpose. The definition, methinks, must go to the user's purpose, not what kind of belt one has.

                                          Avery I'll take a stab at that. If the belt is intended to prevent sexual pleasure it's serious use, if it's intended to enhance sexual pleasure it's a toy.

                                          that sounds good, i think i would be very happy with the definition 🙂

                                          youdontknowme

                                          this can happen automatically, of course, but i think the important thing for the classification is the purpose with which the wearer wants to wear the belt.

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                                              Avery I'll take a stab at that. If the belt is intended to prevent sexual pleasure it's serious use, if it's intended to enhance sexual pleasure it's a toy.

                                              Something I'd like to add. My first belt was one I borrowed from my mother, who used it as a toy while fooling around with my Dad. I then used it as a serious device to protect me after I was assaulted. So the same belt served two purposes, one recreational and one serious.

                                                  Avery urgh that creeps me. Like I could handle a second hand belt if it fit right.... but my mum's sex toy🤮

                                                      Jen Like I could handle a second hand belt if it fit right.... but my mum's sex toy🤮

                                                      Avery My first belt was one I borrowed from my mother, who used it as a toy while fooling around with my Dad.

                                                      Whether it is a toy is a matter of philosophical consideration and does not change anything about the state of the belt. So where is the problem?

                                                          Jen urgh that creeps me. Like I could handle a second hand belt if it fit right.... but my mum's sex toy

                                                          Have you ever been assaulted (unfortunately, the answer might well be yes)? It was a matter of expediency. Would you go out next day with no protection?

                                                              Avery no. I don't know what to say. Yeah I see.

                                                                Avery So the same belt served two purposes, one recreational and one serious.

                                                                did your mother wear the belt again (i.e. to play) after you had already worn it?

                                                                    Angelina did your mother wear the belt again (i.e. to play) after you had already worn it?

                                                                    I did return it to her. Whether she again used it I don't know. They have six children so they are busy in there.