your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

James

strictfather What is going on now?

Joh

Jen Crap thing is I'm worried about the size - I've got both sides of the hip band on the widest hole and it won't slip down but I think I could tighten that one notch. But the band over my sex seems too long.

Can it be that it should sit in the waist? Then the front shield would perhaps fit better in length.

Jen

Sin is it definitely a MySteel? There's a good chance they just got an eBay special to scare you

Looks real, are they selling fakes?

Joh Can it be that it should sit in the waist?

No not even close.

Vanessa

Jen But the band over my sex seems too long. Mines not adjustable there.

Maybe it can be worked a bit to make it better...Or if it is a main brand one,it can be sent back to be adjusted.

It is very important it fits well.

Jen Also it's noisy I'm trying to quietly test😳

Do you think it can be noticed when you try it?

Angelina however, you shouldn't wear a belt that doesn't fit 100%. if you do wear the belt for a longer period of time (maybe someday), it can be very uncomfortable if it doesn't fit perfect.

I agree.

Laura

Good question!😉

strictfather

How is it going?

Sin

Jen Looks real, are they selling fakes?

There's a million different knock-offs available, most don't have the build quality of the big Euro brands. I've never seen a real MySteel but I'd be surprised if they were noisy or clunky. Some of the girls here would be better informed on such things though.

Jen

Sin hah nah I think my belt's legit. Just while getting the bands and the plate on there's some clinks.

I think I'm trying to wear it too low a bit higher on my hip I can get the main band closed in the middle positions but it hurts. I think it could work with the shape bent a bit. But up high the crotch is too short. It feels like it would work better lower with one side on the wide hole but then crotch is too long. Yeah the crotch part is right in the middle longer or shorter would work I think.

Sin

Jen that's a shame. Psychologically, how do you feel wearing it? Did your libido turn up to 11?

Joh

Jen I think it could work with the shape bent a bit

Some mention they bended some part of the belt and it helped.

Jen

Sin yeah um more than I expected

Angelina

Joh Some mention they bended some part of the belt and it helped.

Correct

@Jen, although I would rather keep your parents out of it, the strength of a man (like your father) could help bend the belt into a shape that is comfortable for you. 😉

Vanessa

Joh Some mention they bended some part of the belt and it helped.

Yes,it is often necessary.

Jen

A common side effect,which make wearing it even harder!

Angelina the strength of a man (like your father) could help bend the belt into a shape

Especially if he's used to such work.

Foxies

I'm surprised she managed to make a chinese copy comfortable to wear,even with a long work of shaping it better!

Four months,it was a long training!

Joh

Jen I expected it😁

Foxies

As usual, I am late to the party 🤣 but I just saw this thread and it made me think back to the first time I wore a belt. I remember when it arrived (from China) and I was so excited I could barely think straight! I pestered my partner Angela to put it on me and the power it had over me was rather incredible. Just like I had imagined!

Except ... well it didn't fit! As a matter of fact when Angela closed the padlock around my waist and I stood up, it promptly fell down my legs! 😂 We howled with laughter. So much for security.

Of course the belt was adjustable and thus began the long drawn out process of Angela adjusting it, messing with the screws and Angela bending it a bit of a time to make it fit. And ll of this made my skin sore and I was quickly tiring of my new "toy". Eventually Angela got it on and it was reasonably comfy (if tight) and once more I began to feel the power of it. It felt so strange that I couldn't touch myself. I was aroused, excited and frustrated all at once.

But when I walked it was rubbing me and was annoying and then Angela made me go to the bathroom in it. Yuk. What a mess! After that Angela unlocked me and she cleaned it and I cleaned myself (again since cleaning myself in the belt was something I didn't yet know how to do.

On the advice of a friend, I began to wear it an hour a day and during that first week Angela continued to make adjustments and I sort of slowly learned how to handle the bathroom. Unlike many here, I actually rather enjoyed wearing it though it was annoying that it rubbed my skin and made me sore. The bathroom was another impediment. But over the next days, weeks and months I persisted with the belt (despite Angela trying to get me to give up), extending my lock up period by an hour or so every few days. I think it was about four months before I could wear it over night and I remember the first time I wore it through and entire weekend!

All through this period, while Angela had a set of keys around her neck, I too kept keys with me though honestly I do not remember cheating. I would have done if I had really hurt and I admit there were times I was tempted, particularly when going to the bathroom. However rather than unlocking myself, I would always go to Angela where she would carefully make sure it wasn't harming me.

Eventually I could go a week and I started wearing it to work (I hadn't retired yet). Then came the big day I officially handed my keys to Angela. Actually I still had (and still have) emergency keys but it was special moment. Soon after that we then had my made to measure belt made (Neosteel) which was actually much better and we used the old belt to hang up a plant in the garden.

So why did I do it? because I suppose I wanted to show the love I truly have for Angela and make a statement that my life is now inextricably bound to hers.

OK I am loony tunes but It doesn't harm me or anyone else and it is still kind of fun. 🤣

Foxies

Vanessa I'm surprised she managed to make a chinese copy comfortable to wear,even with a long work of shaping it better!

Four months,it was a long training!

This is Foxies partner Angela. When I finally agreed to allow Foxies to get a belt it was because of the experiences of one of her friends who said she should take it very slowly and allow four to six months to get used to it before considering to wear it for long periods. We followed her advice and on the whole what she told us turned out to be fairly accurate.

At least a month of this time however was spend with me forever adjusting, measuring and bending it. Each time it came off I would check Foxies skin to see where it was rubbing and in the early days, I even stopped her wearing it for a few days till any signs of sores were healed. Sometimes it felt like one step forward, two steps back. And to be honest I often hoped she would give up.

But she never waivered and while she was keen to press on, I tried to be enthusiastic but I got sick of worrying about it. But I remember after a couple of months where she wore it most of the day I remember her saying "Don't you honestly think this is already improving our relationship?"

That sort of shook me. I hadn't honestly given it much thought. But I started to realise that she was right. We were much closer than we had been in years and a part of it was that I was always examining her, touching her being close to her and very concerned that the belt was doing her no harm. We were more intimate than we had been years and we hadn't even had a single cross word with each other.

She was happier than she had been in a long time, and yes we had started playing together again. 😁 Over the next few months I realised she was right. We were both happier and very involved with each other and obviously part of it was that she was now my responsibility.

When she handed me her keys it was a huge moment especially as we sort of renewed out vows to each other. In the years since I have to say that her belt had a profound effect on the both of us. We are closer than we have ever been and our attitudes towards each other have changed for the better and neither of us takes the other for granted.

Its probably hard for others to understand however, while this forum is all about chastity belts, for the most part we feel nothing but sorrow for those who only ever see the horrible and cruel negatives abut a device that has had such a positive aspect on both of Foxies and my life.

Sorry for boring you all with our seemingly unique view of CB's. I really understand how most of you feel because though I wrote about one in a story, I only ever considered them crazy and cruel until Foxies got me to rethink. I have to say, that when I read the stories here, my worst fears about them are confirmed yet I also have to admit that Foxies was right about hers all along. It has changed out lives for the better.

Angelina

Vanessa Especially if he's used to such work.

my father is not a craftsman, even though he is very talented at it, but i think any man or at least a somewhat strong woman can do it 😉

Foxies

i find your view of things very interesting. i think it's normal that you had a longer training. you weren't in as much of a hurry as some parents 😉

Avery

Foxies Sorry for boring you all with our seemingly unique view of CB's.

No apologies necessary. I thought that was really cool. Nice sentiments honestly expressed.

Joh

Foxies
Thank you for your view and letting us know how your relationship is. And I favoured your writing for single short sentences.

Ines

Foxies Sorry for boring you all with our seemingly unique view of CB's.

It is nice. A clear, sensitive and nice post, obviously, if @Foxies fall in love with you, you have to be a intelligent woman too.
Thanks for your post, Angela.

Foxies

Angelina i find your view of things very interesting. i think it's normal that you had a longer training. you weren't in as much of a hurry as some parents 😉

That's a pretty insightful comments. I had often wondered at the short times many of you describe as your training periods and I suppose I never thought much about the horrors you might have been through when it was forced on you so quickly at the start. It seems too cruel for words that parents would do that to their children.

Ines

Thankyou for the compliments directed towards Angela. And actually you couldn't be more right. While it is true I know more about Obstetrics and Gynaecology than she does (though she was an RN) it is fair to say she is not only smarter than me but she knows far more than me on literally any other subjects.

It was also nice of her to say in her post that I was right about the CB. That may actually be the first time she said that I was right about anything! Great that I now have it in writing! 🤣

Vanessa

Foxies

Thank you for the reply,it is very interesting to know how it affected(and still affect)both of you!

You use in a very good way,in my opinion.🙂

And it seems it has improved a lot your relationship,very uncommon case,here!

I think our feelings depends a lot about it is voluntarily or not,and the purpose of it.

Angelina i think any man or at least a somewhat strong woman can do it 😉

As long as he/she is talented enough,to not make the comfort of the belt worse than better.

Angelina you weren't in as much of a hurry as some parents 😉

Probably,yes.

Foxies I had often wondered at the short times many of you describe as your training periods and I suppose I never thought much about the horrors you might have been through when it was forced on you so quickly at the start.

Generally,the training lasts two weeks to a month;I think it the minimum needed.No training would make it even more awful than it is(and can be harmful and dangerous).

Foxies It was also nice of her to say in her post that I was right about the CB. That may actually be the first time she said that I was right about anything! Great that I now have it in writing! 🤣

🤣

Angelina

Foxies That's a pretty insightful comments. I had often wondered at the short times many of you describe as your training periods and I suppose I never thought much about the horrors you might have been through when it was forced on you so quickly at the start. It seems too cruel for words that parents would do that to their children.

i had 2 weeks, started with four hours and then it became more and more. definitely not nice, but it was enough to get me used to the belt at least physically, psychologically it is of course something else.

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