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markules

Yeah, his name is Robin. He was locked when he was 13, but for excessive masturbation too. We never asked each other for specific details of why we were locked. At first, he was wearing HolyTrainer too, but his parents then switched him to metal CB6000s and unlike me, he was released way less often.

1. At first, he was surprised that someone actually wears it; he asked me a lot about the cage and being locked. After a while, we managed to convince my parents to give him my keys. Now, it's normal for us that I'm locked and he makes me orgasm just once in a while.

2. They caught me right while I was doing it (2-3x), and once they asked Jake. I only managed to pull out once, and it wasn't an easy thing to do. That said, it's near-impossible to put it back in. I always got spanked and I spent the first months (about 5 or 6) with no release at all because of it.

3. Once or twice a week. It helps me to get rid of full balls while giving no satisfaction and keeping me horny.

Nate

1. When did you start masturbating?
2. Why did you say you wish you were locked earlier?
3. What is your sexual orientation, if I may ask?
4. Do you sometimes watch porn?
5. What do you do when you're so horny that you think you can't take it anymore?

markules

1. I tried it a few times when I was 11 ... and I started doing it regularly about a year after.

2. Getting locked a year or two earlier would have been great since I wasn't masturbating that much back then.

3. I'm bi, more on the gay side.

4. Well, I try not to, because the cage suddenly becomes smaller .

5. Either I try to do some work (if I can actually concentrate), or workout until I'm completely exhausted. By that time, I may be horny as hell, but I don't feel that. If I can't do any of these, then I can try at least milking or humping a pillow ... though it doesn't really work.

Nate

1. What amount of masturbation would be ok with your parents?
2. Where you ever caught masturbating in school?
3. Have your parents ever made an exception or a "gift" of cage free time?

markules

1. That's a thing I don't really know. That always said that masturbation is normal, as long as it's not too much.

2. No. Good that I was locked before I could start doing it there and somebody caught me.

3. Not a single time; releases were never a reward. Either they let me out just for cleaning or for a regular release. After that, I always went straight back to the cage, without exceptions. However, they did punish me by cancelling a planned release.

Nate

1. Do you use lubricant to put on the cage?
2. How does it feel to be locked for half a year?
3. Do you drip a lot (leak precum)?
4. Which tips would you give a chastity beginner?

Again, thank you very much for giving me so much information!!!::

Nate However, they did punish me by cancelling a planned release.

Harsh. Was this spoken about openly or was it framed as missing a cleaning break?

markules Again, thank you very much for giving me so much information!!!::

Yeah, it's very enlightening and Nate seems to have such a positive attitude about it all. Very inspirational. Thank you for your questions too!

markules No problem , I somewhat like talking about the cage, but it's not so easy, as you can't casually tell this to a friend IRL ...

1. Yeah, just a little bit and only when putting it on; I'm already used to the cage. When I was newly caged, I needed to lubricate it much more.

2. You get absolutely crazy horny, especially as a fifteen-year-old teenager. Some say that you become used to it after a few months, but that wasn't my case. I thought about it several times a day and I would do anything for an orgasm. My parents didn't want to hear about releases, since it was also my punishment for trying to get out. The last month, I even begged Jake (who always made fun of me for being caged) to help me somehow, but the best we did was heavy leaking.

3. I leaked a lot, but it became a lot better now that I milk myself weekly. I still leak though, but mostly just when I get "hard" or overnight.

4. Always start slow and check it often. Most cages are designed well, but still, humans were not originally designed for this. There is a lot that can go wrong. Also, a urethra that is not one-piece (e.g. plastic tube, but with some metal cap) is a big no-no as it can somehow apparently get loose and remain inside your penis (disclaimer: this told me my uncle, who works at emergency).

Nate we decided with my boyfriend to reduce the frequency of my orgasms from once a month to once per two months.

Thinking of oragasm as part of the body's reward system again, would it be better to have releases dependent on achieving goals rather than regularly once every 2 months?

Again it could be a powerful motivator.

Jonas that's true, it would definitely be... but do you need even mlre motivation, or is being chaste empowering enough?

Jonas

The original point of me being locked wasn't a reward/punishment system, but to prevent me from masturbating. That's why it's not designed as such.

Of course, since I was already wearing the cage, it
became a convinient system for my parents (my bf obviously doesn't use that) to punish me (and now Jake).

Also, what would be quite a problem in your suggestion is setting goals that would actually be meaningful for me and somehow trackable.

Nate My parents gave me Jake's key for hygiene reasons because we live far away and only go home once a month. I was told it's for cleaning and that I can give him one more release each month (but I don't really do that), so he gets his release once a month at home.

I hope you are communicating openly about that, it would probably suck for Jake if your parents are thinking he gets his monthly release with you and does not need that opportunity when he comes home.

Nate Yeah, I absolutely died of embarrassment (but luckily got resurrected ). It might seem weird to say, but I'm actually glad it happened.

Did they learn about the reasons behind it quickly? I would think the questions it raises would be one of the most awkward parts of getting outed.

Jonas

So, if I understand you right, you mean something like being allowed only if I do something substantial instead of skipping a regular orgasm as a punishment? Well, I'm pretty sure my boyfriend wouldn't like that a lot for obvious reasons ...

As for the goals - workout isn't exactly something I need to improve, and floorball goals wouldn't be fair, as I can't affect the performance of our opponents. If I really struggled with something (being it school, weight or anything else), then it would make perfect sense for me.

Jonas

Well, I kept instinctively putting my hands in my boxer briefs, trying to masturbate, only to find a plastic cage there and getting more frustrated. Of course, when it tried to get hard, it was awfully uncomfortable. There were even times when I got really desperate and tried humping the bed, but I couldn't feel anything, and Jake could laugh his butt off.

My parents checked on me regularly the first days to make sure I didn't have any problems while wearing the cage. I was told to lubricate around the ring several times a day, so it was fine except for the initial sizing issue.

I couldn't really sleep the first few nights; I kept getting hard and could only think of the cage. I think I really slept just about 4 hours each day. Luckily, I was locked on Friday after school, and the following Monday and Tuesday were free, so I didn't have to go out caged right away.

Seeing it now, both going 5 months without release and the first locked nights were absolutely horrible, each in its unique way.

youdontknowme

Well, good point, I didn't tell them. However, I know that Jake is getting his releases at home because he always complains to me when he gets punished and has to stay locked.

I fortunately managed to dodge the question about why exactly was I wearing the cage. However, I told the guys everything else, because at the moment, I was more shocked than embarrassed to actually make something up and it turned out well.