Saintprudence I’m half tempted to start a “reasons a chastity belt is awesome” thread but I’m not sure I have the nerve, so I’ll just hope someone else does 🙂.

Well, I'm going to do it for you.
Why are chastity belts awesome?

  • They look great
  • They protect you
  • You feel constantly protected and loved
  • They make you be in a good mood (even though you might get frustrated sometimes)
  • You don't need to buy new underwear
  • You don't need to decide what underwear to put on
  • You're always perfectly dressed
  • It makes you take care of your hygiene
  • It will please your future partner
  • It protects you from doing something stupid (teenage pregnancy) or from being brainwashed or being blackmailed into something that has to do with your genitals
  • It protects you from being touched at a party in a pub
  • ...

      Max9 It makes you take care of your hygiene

      If you need a chastity belt for that, than something is wrong from the beginning.

      Max9 You don't need to buy new underwear
      You don't need to decide what underwear to put on

      Really no leaking problems for men? Doesn't it get to cold in winter?

            Max9 Good list.

            But some questions

            Max9 It makes you take care of your hygiene

            If that's a pro argument, I think something is wrong from the beginning, or not?

            Max9 You don't need to buy new underwear
            Max9 You don't need to decide what underwear to put on

            And in the cold winter? And what is about the leaking problem by men?

                    Max9 It protects you from being brainwashed or being blackmailed into something that has to do with your genitals

                    Unfortunately this site is proof that this is not the case.

                    I would add:

                    • It makes you feel sexy / powerful / in control.
                    • It makes you impossibly horny.
                    • Attachments are yummy.

                    But I get that this last one could be contentious.

                        Max9 You don't need to decide what underwear to put on

                        i have actually found a reason that suits me 😂

                          • ...
                          • They enable another level of faithfulness and commitment to a [future] life-partner.
                          • They provide additional self-control, strength and will power.,
                          • Chastity belts can help partners with differing levels of sex drive.
                          • They set behaviour limits, boundaries and ensure moderation.
                          • They can make you feel energised, alert, engaged and more alive.
                          • Many people think chastity belts are hot.
                          • They can be a fun game, a shared secret, a submission or a gift between loving partners.
                          • They guard against unwanted intercourse, outercourse or masturbation.
                          • They're highly designed works of steel art shaped and formed to fit just you and no-one else! How cool is that?!
                          • They protect virginity and treat it as something special.
                          • A chastity belt can feel like a constant hug.
                          • ....

                            Angelina why is the topic displayed twice ?

                            Because @Max9 has created two topics. I will take care

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                                Laura ??? I only pressed "post" once, had an error report and now there are two of them

                                    Merged 3 posts from Reasons why a chastity belt is awesome.

                                    Although I'm not wearing a belt yet, That's what I feel like pros of belts.

                                    Max9 They look great

                                    Depends on brands, but they do look nice. Some high end brands allow customers to choose color of lining and add personal engravings, so I feel that I can make belt look beautiful on me!

                                    Max9 feel constantly protected and loved

                                    I would feel protected from bottom dysphoria and I feel keyholding by loving and caring person would make bond in relationship stronger.

                                    Max9 You don't need to decide what underwear to put on

                                    Basically I can't get underwear in align with my gender identity without tucking, while chastity belt can do both, as a tucking tool and underwear!

                                    Max9 You're always perfectly dressed

                                    Exposure is not my thing, maybe due to lack of confidence now, but it's also my personality I guess. I believe I can look beautiful without too much exposures.

                                    Jonas They enable another level of faithfulness and commitment to a [future] life-partner.

                                    A reason why I am considering to keep wearing belt after marriage and post-op. (Of course I'll need completely new belt by then) I want to be committed to my life-partner who saved my life when I wanted to end it myself (due to dysphoria / dealing with family matters with my identity). However, it may depend on my partner's thoughts as she might think differently. Even if she may be okay with holding keys continuously at first time I will be belted, she may change her mind when I become post-op. If that happens, I won't be forcing her to hold keys if she doesn't want to do so anymore. I believe mutual agreement is important when it comes to wearing / keyholding chastity belt.

                                              Max9 They make you be in a good mood (even though you might get frustrated sometimes)

                                              Not much...

                                              Max9 You don't need to buy new underwear
                                              You don't need to decide what underwear to put on

                                              Not in my case.

                                              Max9 It makes you take care of your hygiene

                                              Not needed for it.

                                              Max9 It will please your future partner

                                              Depends on the partner.

                                              The other points,some are right,some are debatable.

                                              Kurt If you need a chastity belt for that, than something is wrong from the beginning.

                                              I agree.

                                              Sin It makes you feel sexy / powerful / in control.

                                              Not at all.Less sexy clothes possible to wear,and less in control.

                                              Sin It makes you impossibly horny.

                                              But,as it can't be relieved,not sure it is a good point...

                                              Jonas They enable another level of faithfulness and commitment to a [future] life-partner.

                                              Should not be needed for it.

                                              Jonas They provide additional self-control, strength and will power.,

                                              Not at all.Self control is not needed/useful,as the belt prevent the access to our private parts.

                                              Jonas Chastity belts can help partners with differing levels of sex drive.

                                              A talk would be better.

                                              The other ones are debatable too,and mainly depend on everyone feelings about it...

                                                                    Vanessa Not at all.Less sexy clothes possible to wear,and less in control.

                                                                    I guess that comes down to the difference in our situations. I take my belt off for work, but I leave the key there so that when I leave I can't take my belt off. Stepping out into the city after work, freshly showered with my belt locked on... this is my favourite part of the day. I feel strong and in control. And if anything the belt makes me wear more cute dresses instead of yoga pants etc. My style has definitely changed since wearing the belt. I feel more confident chatting to random people knowing that it's not going to lead to anything and that I can't be taken advantage of.

                                                                    I can see how it would be a vastly different situation for someone who is locked involuntarily, that's why I think it's important for people like @Jen to see that you can still be chaste without giving up your autonomy. There are ways of doing it on your own terms without having to conform to the ideals and whims of a third party.

                                                                        This is Foxies partner. Of the list of advantages noted above, the only ones that matters to us do not appear to be listed.

                                                                        1. Foxies belt binds us together in a very strong and loving way. Foxies cannot climax without me and I can never escape my responsibilities for her. This includes her health, mental well being and above all her safety.
                                                                        2. Her chastity belt and her keys that I keep on a chain around my neck, are symbols of our love that extend way beyond any wedding ring.

                                                                        In short the keys and the belt forge a physical connection between us that really is nothing more than an expression of our love for each other. This alone is what makes up for all the disadvantages listed elsewhere.

                                                                          Foxies
                                                                          This is a way I can totally accept and support.
                                                                          All other situation without consents is a crime for me.

                                                                            Max9 ??? I only pressed "post" once, had an error report and now there are two of them

                                                                            double chance for good answers or ? 😉

                                                                            Vanessa some are debatable.

                                                                            which (apart from time reasons) is the main reason why i will not go into all the reasons, it would cause a never ending discussion. 😂

                                                                            Sin that's why I think it's important for people like @Jen to see that you can still be chaste without giving up your autonomy. There are ways of doing it on your own terms without having to conform to the ideals and whims of a third party.

                                                                            that's true, but it depends a lot on what kind of keyholder you have. if the keyholder agrees, it's ok, but if the keyholder tries to go beyond the agreement by manipulation, you have a problem.

                                                                                  Max9 It protects you from doing something stupid (teenage pregnancy) or from being brainwashed or being blackmailed into something that has to do with your genitals

                                                                                  Max9 They make you be in a good mood (even though you might get frustrated sometimes)

                                                                                  Sin It makes you feel sexy / powerful / in control.

                                                                                  Sin It makes you impossibly horny.

                                                                                  Jonas They provide additional self-control, strength and will power.,

                                                                                  Jonas They set behaviour limits, boundaries and ensure moderation.

                                                                                  Jonas They can make you feel energised, alert, engaged and more alive.

                                                                                  Jonas They guard against unwanted intercourse, outercourse or masturbation.

                                                                                  Jonas A chastity belt can feel like a constant hug.

                                                                                  Probably these are the reasons that I would name for myself 🙂

                                                                                                    I have the luck of having a devoted keyholder and it makes feel very loved.
                                                                                                    When instead parents is your husband the key holder you have to feel the most desired and valuable girl.
                                                                                                    Belt helps to make us behave as better girls, takes care of our virginity...
                                                                                                    There are plenty of reasons that make great a chastity belt (always willingly weared).

                                                                                                    Max9 I think something. Positive. Chastity is that it helps to feel. Better .. To people who have persistent sexual arousal syndrome but it is .. Very rare for someone to be in that situation

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