gwen Can you expand on this? How does a belt prevent brainwashing? I'm quite curious 🙂
When you are a chiöd at young age and have just watched your first porn videos you mutate from the most pious person anybody has ever met into a horny lusty drooling animal with an addiction to porn and a desire to try out some things. That makes it very easy, especkally for schooled and skilled people, to convince you to trust them by offering you a safe space to talk about it and try out some stuff alone in that space after some time. But that's not all, as soon as they have something they can use to blackmail you they start wanting to take part and brainwash you into doing things you would have actually never done... but they want ti go even harder and after some time you can clearly see that all she wants is to really see you suffer.. to see the pain in your eyes when a mix of brainwashing and mainly blackmailing and an enormous amount of accrued emotional / mental stress makes you do stuff so bad that you can't find words that would express the pain that you feel.
Anywhen you figure out that when you don't show her the pain you feel she will eventually let off ... but in the beginningit only makes things worse, anytime you believe it can't be worse you get proven the opposite. But you were right, you're becoming older, showing signs of being mature and only god knows why an 8 class year old body grows a beard but your pokerface does the rest it takes to make her let off you... And a young man with a moustache and some scarfs was born.
even if some users like for example @Angelina rather feel blackmailed into the belt, events like this make it really difficult for you to decide ot that's really bad. Sure, got robbed some freedom from, but there is no total freedom in this world. The farest going freedom can only be created by having restricitons. The best as restricting item offers her the farest going freedom of living a protected and sorrow-free youth. The fear alone of such things being able to happen - if you know how they actually are - is a thousand times worse (and also more restrictive) as having to wear a belt.
On the other hand we must not forget that the belt itself is hee blackmailing and can potentionally be as bad for her as the actual torture. Suffer is something that is always in relation to your exoeriences. That's why Babies witout bad exoeriences have way worse receotion of dropoing an ice cream as we do. You can't say one thing that isn't something to worry about for you can't be a severe sorror or problem for someone else. Different people have different recepicions of pain. But learning an extremer definition lf pain is somethig you don't wish our girls and boys here to experience ... that's what you actually want to protect them of.
This is the problem about this discussion.
