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Joh Ever since my chastity began, I began to feel insanely sexy. I have never experienced such strong sexual sensations. Not being able to get rid of your urges feels like being in a constant rush of adrenaline. I love it madly, although at first I was very afraid that I would lose the opportunity to masturbate and I would have to endure a lot.

But now my position has changed. I think that chastity allows you to explore the other side of sexuality, to feel the sensations that you would never experience constantly getting rid of sexual tension.

Joh It is certainly difficult to accept when it does not depend on you. But I accepted chastity after persistent persuasion, so I kind of accepted it myself, somewhere in half. Therefore, I do not know if this choice should be considered imposed.

        Jen Sexy clothes

        In my case, I feel much sexier with a belt, and I want to dress as sexy as the boys' fashion allows. Anyway, if it weren't for the belt, I would hardly have paid attention to skinny fit, thongs for men and short bonded jackets.

          Alex
          Everything has min two sides and what you experienced is another way. It is dependent on the viewpoint if it a bad or a good thing.

          I did a similar way with my girlfriend sometime. I excited her until just before the climax and then stopped. After some time started again and so on. I let her come only at the end of the weekend. She found that very nice, even the next day without having come, because it resonated in her after.

            Jen Limits sport activity

            My cup, like the previous cage, did not interfere with my sports activities. if you wear tight and slimming underwear, in order to press the belt to the body as much as possible, then the cage will find itself in a very tight space in order to loose it to the sides. But this applies to male cages, full belts for girls probably rigidly restrict movement.

            I wear tight and tight men's thongs with a wide strip and a voluminous codpiece to completely cover the cup. And the only hindrance to active movement is only the feeling of the perceptible weight of this device. But in the end it doesn't matter, since he's already tucked up tight.

            I also tried the dance bondage that dancers usually wear. It is just like a thong, and I found it the most comfortable for athletics. if anyone does not know what it is, you can easily find it on the Internet for the query "dance bandage"

              @Jen

              The biggest concern for me, is hygiene. The responsibility for wearing a belt isn't just for what your parents want, but for you to remain safe, by staying healthy hygienically. My alternate main concerns are mobility, as if someone needs to move you around if you're unconscious, especially if they need to give you a piggy back ride, but you can't because of thigh bands. You did list plenty of bad things about the chastity belt, but like anything you own, you need to be responsible of how it's used. Your parents sound strict since they first mentioned the belt, but I really hope you'll be ok. Do NOT wear the belt until you are 100% sure, or you will face regrets.

              As others have mentioned, keep a pro list, since looking at positive outlooks would help you cheer you up rather than seeing the chastity belt a completely negative device. I'm sure there are a few pros, but make sure they outweigh the cons. Do as you see fit, but the final decision is ultimately up to you.

              EDIT: Thanks Max9.

                @Raziel, you cab youse an @ and write ones name after that, then they get a notification that you've written them a message... just saying ✌🏼

                Jonas Could it be that the pro arguments are more like feelings? Harder to put into words? And confusing because, rationally, actually deciding to wear a chastity belt in 2021 seems so crazy!

                Yes, yes & yes and also feels more personal too.

                Raziel keep a pro list, since looking at positive outlooks would help you cheer you up rather than seeing the chastity belt a completely negative device.

                Pro's scare me a bit like some ideas are daft. And negatives are real things so don't want to say anything stupid and make things awkward at home again. ......................... Yeah so I think I've been staring at this for 20 minutes. Was going to say something about why but my thoughts are in a loop.

                Negatives are so much easier and also really interesting to see the other side like @Sin wrote some are not negative at all.

                      Jen some ideas are daft

                      Who says it is daft?

                        I agree with your proposal. I think comfort and period are the things that sucks most...

                        Jen You have a top of the range CB, a forum full of support and you have possible keyholders who are loving, but firm.
                        Chastity is there if you want it.

                        If your parents' feelings resonate within you, or if you want to commit to your future life-partner, or you think you'll "feel sexy AF" in your belt then great.

                        On the other hand, if chastity makes you feel fearful, awkward, or negative then drop the idea and think no more about it. No worries,

                          I’m half tempted to start a “reasons a chastity belt is awesome” thread but I’m not sure I have the nerve, so I’ll just hope someone else does 🙂.

                            Jen Don't do it with your parents. I'm sorry but that's just unbelievably weird. Buy a cheap belt from eBay for like $50, play around for a little while and make your decision when you feel comfortable and you've had some experience. Do some sessions by yourself on a keyholding site if you want to know what it's like to lose control for a little while (albeit with a maximum duration of your choice).

                            Maybe if you express an interest in it your parents will give you your good belt to wear when you go out or something. But never, ever, EVER let them hold the keys, because that's some next-level creepy incest shit.

                                Sin There's only one thing I would change - I wouldn't buy a belt but a cage for $50, because for that price you can get a great cage but only a very cheap belt.

                                • Sin replied to this.

                                    Max9 Not sure a cage would work in Jen's case! Here you go, AU$47 delivered...
                                    https://www.ebay.com/itm/353161852590

                                    Nowhere near as secure as a My-Steel but comfortable, discrete and perfectly suitable for a teenager just beginning to explore the world of chastity, without the obvious dangers. Attachments optional!

                                      Jen

                                      i try to interpret what you write all the time, but i don't really succeed. you seem very insecure and i'm not quite sure why, because no one is pushing you at the moment. your parents currently think that you have refused and they have no chance to get you in the belt and i would advise you to take your time.

                                      you also don't seem to have 100% trust in your parents about the whole thing. i can understand that, but if that's not the case, there's no point in trying, because the relationship between the wearer and the keyholder is very important.

                                          Jen Hi, I get that your interested but I don't really want to share the pro list. I think it's part of my thoughts on what to do and I want it to be my decision.

                                          I understand and respect your choice,but it could be hard for us to give good advices if we only know half of it...

                                          Jen Hah 😳 I bet. But I'm leaving that off- part of primary purpose of belt not other issues

                                          I would say more a side-effect of the purpose.It is not meant to make you frustrated.

                                          Jen Yeah that's one of my reasons. If I wait a few years and then the belt is gone or doesn't fit I think I'll regret not even giving it a go.

                                          Understandable.But be careful.

                                          Angelina let me guess, you have found too many pro arguments and now want us to give you contra arguments 😂

                                          🤣

                                          Angelina your parents no longer think that you have this idea

                                          I doubt they guess that @Jen is considering trying it.

                                          Angelina your parents currently think that you have refused and they have no chance to get you in the belt

                                          Right.They probably given up hope to make her wear a chastity belt.

                                          Angelina you also don't seem to have 100% trust in your parents about the whole thing.

                                          Understandable,the start of it was not done well...

                                                          Sin I'm going to try and ask for the key, I think getting caught with another belt in the house would be worse. But waiting till I'm 18 first.

                                                              Jen Good idea! If you get your hands on it, tell them you want to try wearing it out. Then go straight to the hardware store and get a bunch of keys cut. Stash one in your purse, one in your bag, one in your glovebox, one at friend's house, one under a rock in the garden... you get the idea.
                                                              ;-)

                                                                  Sin tell them you want to try wearing it out. Then go straight to the hardware store and get a bunch of keys cut

                                                                  I doubt they will give her the key, they can only unlock the belt

                                                                      Laura they can only unlock the belt

                                                                      @Jen would dictate the rules! If her parents don't accept them she would not do it.