Reasons why a chastity belt is awesome

Vanessa

Max9 They make you be in a good mood (even though you might get frustrated sometimes)

Not much...

Max9 You don't need to buy new underwear
You don't need to decide what underwear to put on

Not in my case.

Max9 It makes you take care of your hygiene

Not needed for it.

Max9 It will please your future partner

Depends on the partner.

The other points,some are right,some are debatable.

Kurt If you need a chastity belt for that, than something is wrong from the beginning.

I agree.

Sin It makes you feel sexy / powerful / in control.

Not at all.Less sexy clothes possible to wear,and less in control.

Sin It makes you impossibly horny.

But,as it can't be relieved,not sure it is a good point...

Jonas They enable another level of faithfulness and commitment to a [future] life-partner.

Should not be needed for it.

Jonas They provide additional self-control, strength and will power.,

Not at all.Self control is not needed/useful,as the belt prevent the access to our private parts.

Jonas Chastity belts can help partners with differing levels of sex drive.

A talk would be better.

The other ones are debatable too,and mainly depend on everyone feelings about it...

Sin

Vanessa Not at all.Less sexy clothes possible to wear,and less in control.

I guess that comes down to the difference in our situations. I take my belt off for work, but I leave the key there so that when I leave I can't take my belt off. Stepping out into the city after work, freshly showered with my belt locked on... this is my favourite part of the day. I feel strong and in control. And if anything the belt makes me wear more cute dresses instead of yoga pants etc. My style has definitely changed since wearing the belt. I feel more confident chatting to random people knowing that it's not going to lead to anything and that I can't be taken advantage of.

I can see how it would be a vastly different situation for someone who is locked involuntarily, that's why I think it's important for people like @Jen to see that you can still be chaste without giving up your autonomy. There are ways of doing it on your own terms without having to conform to the ideals and whims of a third party.

Angelina

Max9 ??? I only pressed "post" once, had an error report and now there are two of them

double chance for good answers or ? 😉

Vanessa some are debatable.

which (apart from time reasons) is the main reason why i will not go into all the reasons, it would cause a never ending discussion. 😂

Sin that's why I think it's important for people like @Jen to see that you can still be chaste without giving up your autonomy. There are ways of doing it on your own terms without having to conform to the ideals and whims of a third party.

that's true, but it depends a lot on what kind of keyholder you have. if the keyholder agrees, it's ok, but if the keyholder tries to go beyond the agreement by manipulation, you have a problem.

gwen

I agree with many of the things posted here. Thanks for sharing everyone 🙂

Max9 from being brainwashed

Can you expand on this? How does a belt prevent brainwashing? I'm quite curious 🙂

Vanessa Less sexy clothes possible to wear

I've wondered a bit about this. I suppose with a bra or thigh bands it further restricts clothing selection, but I often wear a low cut, short dress and it hides my belt just fine. The garment may have a flared skirt, but most would describe it as revealing.

Vanessa

Sin

Yes,I think the situation(willingly/involuntary wearers)change a lot how we feel about our chastity belt,and how it affects our life.

But I agree,w can still have autonomy,and most part of our favorite activities,even if wearing a chastity belt.Even more for a voluntary wearer who can have it off when needed(a bit like @Ines when she wants to do some sports).

Foxies

It's sweet!🙂

gwen I've wondered a bit about this. I suppose with a bra or thigh bands it further restricts clothing selection, but I often wear a low cut, short dress and it hides my belt just fine. The garment may have a flared skirt, but most would describe it as revealing.

Have you a waist style one or a hip style one?

Ines

I would like to have one...

Angelina everyone sees sexy as something different

I agree.

Angelina

And I don't think putting every unwed men and/or every unwed women in chastity devices would be good idea.

Foxies

This is Foxies partner. Of the list of advantages noted above, the only ones that matters to us do not appear to be listed.

Foxies belt binds us together in a very strong and loving way. Foxies cannot climax without me and I can never escape my responsibilities for her. This includes her health, mental well being and above all her safety.
Her chastity belt and her keys that I keep on a chain around my neck, are symbols of our love that extend way beyond any wedding ring.

In short the keys and the belt forge a physical connection between us that really is nothing more than an expression of our love for each other. This alone is what makes up for all the disadvantages listed elsewhere.

Joh

Foxies
This is a way I can totally accept and support.
All other situation without consents is a crime for me.

Alex

Max9 It protects you from doing something stupid (teenage pregnancy) or from being brainwashed or being blackmailed into something that has to do with your genitals

Max9 They make you be in a good mood (even though you might get frustrated sometimes)

Sin It makes you feel sexy / powerful / in control.

Sin It makes you impossibly horny.

Jonas They provide additional self-control, strength and will power.,

Jonas They set behaviour limits, boundaries and ensure moderation.

Jonas They can make you feel energised, alert, engaged and more alive.

Jonas They guard against unwanted intercourse, outercourse or masturbation.

Jonas A chastity belt can feel like a constant hug.

Probably these are the reasons that I would name for myself 🙂

Ines

I have the luck of having a devoted keyholder and it makes feel very loved.
When instead parents is your husband the key holder you have to feel the most desired and valuable girl.
Belt helps to make us behave as better girls, takes care of our virginity...
There are plenty of reasons that make great a chastity belt (always willingly weared).

Mario

Max9 I think something. Positive. Chastity is that it helps to feel. Better .. To people who have persistent sexual arousal syndrome but it is .. Very rare for someone to be in that situation

Max9

Mario it sadly is

gwen A belt doesn't restrict you from wearing sexy clothes as long as you don't wear the bra and tight bands and as long as you don't like to go swimming in public... and as lpng as you don't wear low-cut clothing, but that's anyway out of times... now high-waist yeans are sexy and popular theese days.
ok, belly free clothing might also be a problem when you have a waist band and not a hip style belt.

Max9

gwen Can you expand on this? How does a belt prevent brainwashing? I'm quite curious 🙂

When you are a chiöd at young age and have just watched your first porn videos you mutate from the most pious person anybody has ever met into a horny lusty drooling animal with an addiction to porn and a desire to try out some things. That makes it very easy, especkally for schooled and skilled people, to convince you to trust them by offering you a safe space to talk about it and try out some stuff alone in that space after some time. But that's not all, as soon as they have something they can use to blackmail you they start wanting to take part and brainwash you into doing things you would have actually never done... but they want ti go even harder and after some time you can clearly see that all she wants is to really see you suffer.. to see the pain in your eyes when a mix of brainwashing and mainly blackmailing and an enormous amount of accrued emotional / mental stress makes you do stuff so bad that you can't find words that would express the pain that you feel.
Anywhen you figure out that when you don't show her the pain you feel she will eventually let off ... but in the beginningit only makes things worse, anytime you believe it can't be worse you get proven the opposite. But you were right, you're becoming older, showing signs of being mature and only god knows why an 8 class year old body grows a beard but your pokerface does the rest it takes to make her let off you... And a young man with a moustache and some scarfs was born.

even if some users like for example @Angelina rather feel blackmailed into the belt, events like this make it really difficult for you to decide ot that's really bad. Sure, got robbed some freedom from, but there is no total freedom in this world. The farest going freedom can only be created by having restricitons. The best as restricting item offers her the farest going freedom of living a protected and sorrow-free youth. The fear alone of such things being able to happen - if you know how they actually are - is a thousand times worse (and also more restrictive) as having to wear a belt.
On the other hand we must not forget that the belt itself is hee blackmailing and can potentionally be as bad for her as the actual torture. Suffer is something that is always in relation to your exoeriences. That's why Babies witout bad exoeriences have way worse receotion of dropoing an ice cream as we do. You can't say one thing that isn't something to worry about for you can't be a severe sorror or problem for someone else. Different people have different recepicions of pain. But learning an extremer definition lf pain is somethig you don't wish our girls and boys here to experience ... that's what you actually want to protect them of.
This is the problem about this discussion.

Sin

Max9 I'm sorry for whatever horrors you were subjected to in your childhood, but the answer to abuse is not more abuse (albeit of a different type). When it comes to inter-generational abuse, religion certaintly has a lot to answer for.

Ines

Max9 ok, belly free clothing might also be a problem when you have a waist band and not a hip style belt.

I know it is expensive, but girls should have a hip belt too.
For me it was awesome.

Angelina

Max9 A belt doesn't restrict you from wearing sexy clothes

i always have the question in my mind what we define as sexy clothing. everyone sees sexy as something different and depending on the type, some clothes can also be worn with a belt and sometimes even with bra/thighbands

Max9

Sin I'm sorry for whatever horrors you were subjected to in your childhood, but the answer to abuse is not more abuse (albeit of a different type).

That's true. It is a problem when the measure being taken for abuse is a form of abuse in itself. The question is if there is another way to protect someone in a less harmful way and if there isn't what is worse... having scarfs at your genitals and once suffering from the pain of a psychopath having 1,25 kilograms of weight hanging on each of your genitals that nearly castrate you and let you experience the worst pain there probably is - or not being able to have sex... wearing a belt for sure is a way to protect someone when not being home... the question is how bad the restrictions are for the individual who is locked. Everyone has a very different prescription... for me, it's no big deal, for others it is. For me it's a big deal when fuel-powered cars get boycotted, others don't care about that.

Kurt

Angelina what we define as sexy clothing.

For the skirt length this could be a possible answer 😁

Angelina

Kurt For the skirt length this could be a possible answer 😁

😂

Max9

gwen I was sexually active as a child (thanks to a Catholic priests serial sexual abuse), and it certainly didn't turn me into a lust filled animal.

What you say doesn't turn you into a sex addict person of course, but porn can do that. And as soon as you are such a person it's an easy game for others to direct you into a trap you can't find a way to get out of without pocketing pain.

Joh

Max9 What you say doesn't turn you into a sex addict person of course, but porn can do that.

That the point. I can do it in some circumstances. What you have experienced is extremely bad, but by no means commonplace. I am really sorry for what you have experienced and I can understand your point of view. But since it is a special case, I can not endorse it as a general solution. The goal should be that such a thing never happens. Then it is not necessary to wear a CB.

Sin

Max9 Hmmm well perhaps you have a point... maybe all boys should be put in cages until they are married off and their wives want to use them. Why should us girls have to wear belts? Treat the cause and solve everyone's problems. 😀

Angelina

Sin maybe all boys should be put in cages until they are married off and their wives want to use them. Why should us girls have to wear belts? Treat the cause and solve everyone's problems. 😀

I really hope that was not meant seriously 😉 I do not think that it can be decided in general whether man or woman is the problem. 😂

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