Max9 I meant with my partner... We try to maintain a sense of intimacy with each other, because it's hard when he's away for three weeks at a time. All of his communication goes through his work network, so the least we can do is make sure our chats are encrypted.
As for the Lovense... it's fun being controlled remotely. I can sleep with it and he can wake me up as he pleases. If I have the belt locked on over the top then I'm absolutely at his mercy, and I find that really hot... I can lock it in when I'm making dinner for example, and he can make it very difficult to concentrate. It's fun! Of course I would prefer him there IRL, but chatting on a video call is kind of like being in the same room together. I just leave my tablet set up on the bench and we talk like normal. (Except he's trying to make me explode!). 🤭
Not exactly conventional communication but it sure beats posting letters to each other. It helps make long distance relationships workable. :-)