Your Mom's Thigh Bands

Angelina

It's also something like: "If you study for school and get good grades, you get a reward". the child does not learn voluntarily and not for the good grades, but for the reward. if we distance ourselves a little from the chastity belt and apply these mechanisms to other areas of life, then we see that many things are quite normal

Kaja

Angelina This is wrong mindset. If you will deal like this with your child he/she will never be a good student who likes knowledge.

Ines

Andrew Bribery with privileges may (but does not have to) indicate a lack of willingness to wear the belt

I think it is not exact, there is a nuance: the girls who accept the belt in exchange for privileges, (and we have talked a lot about things that are privileges and things that are simply the obligation of the parents), do not imply a lack of willfulness... they imply a lack of initiative to wear it.

Mr-TM

Bribery is when it is said "If you wear the cb well, you will get...". However, if there is a previously unannounced reward for correct behavior, this has nothing to do with bribery.

Andrew

Mr-TM Bribery is when it is said "If you wear the cb well, you will get...".

This is exactly the situation I'm talking about.

Ines

Mr-TM

Well, no, and it was talked long time ago.
Finally there was more or less an agreement on what is "a bribe" and what is decidedly "blackmail".

"If you do not wear a belt you will not be able to go to university" is completely unacceptable, it is terrible blackmail.

"If you wear your belt, your mother and I will buy you a car so you can go to campus" or "you can live in an apartment on campus even though you are in this same city", are other terms that can be used as bargaining chips.

a_father

Angelina So I hope you marry in August and then you are free, right? This is the deal or did it change?
I still want to experience that. Then your story would be told to the end. From time to time I still have doubts about you (whether you are real.... ). If after the wedding you report that you are free, that would at least be a strong indication of a real person. I wish you luck.

Angelina

a_father

yes, the day before yesterday i got the official confirmation from the registry office that i want to get married in august, then i will be free of the belt. my personal chastity story is over then, but i hope i will still be allowed to stay in the forum 😉

Ines

i would simply say that bribery is wearing a belt in return for privileges that go beyond the normal measure of what parents should do for their children.

Kaja This is wrong mindset. If you will deal like this with your child he/she will never be a good student who likes knowledge.

that's true and i wouldn't use it with my children like that. but teenagers are more interested in a reward than in good grades, so the system can work. the parents are happy with the grades and the teenager has received a reward. i just wanted to use that as an example to apply it to the mechanism of the chastity belt.

Kaja

Angelina I dont think so. It is about mindset. Lot o child from homeschooling or from good school (not only alternative) like education and they donnt need external motivation.

Avery

Angelina but teenagers are more interested in a reward than in good grades

It almost seems sometimes that you are a troll. Right here on the forum I think @Ines would be a good example of someone who worked hard in order to achieve something, to get into med school, to succeed in sports.

Natalia

Angelina yes, the day before yesterday i got the official confirmation from the registry office that i want to get married in august,

congratulations to you both 🙂

Angelina

Kaja I dont think so. It is about mindset. Lot o child from homeschooling or from good school (not only alternative) like education and they donnt need external motivation.

Avery It almost seems sometimes that you are a troll. Right here on the forum I think @Ines would be a good example of someone who worked hard in order to achieve something, to get into med school, to succeed in sports.

of course that can be, i'm an example of that myself, but i'm talking about the fact that up to a year before graduation a maximum of 20% of the students in my school really studied just to get good grades, in the year of graduation it was maybe 30-40% i'm just speaking from my school experiences

Natalia congratulations to you both 🙂

thank you 🙂

Maija

Bryan not any that I can remember. For example in summertime, she never swimmed while on the beach, even the weather was hot when we were kids

Ines

Maija

What does she think about the bands?
Every girl on your community, (church, neighborhood...)wears them in same regime?

mimikatz

Maija Does your mother currently have muscular health issues from wearing thigh bands 24/7? Doctors in this forum have mentioned that thigh bands are not suitable for long-term wearing with no breaks. And I remember you have the right to remove the thigh bands for one hour for sports.

Maija

mimikatz no, she doesn't have any problems with her muscles so far.

mimikatz thighbands aren't restraints. They are simply something that a proper lady must wear. Yes they prevent the wearer from doing some things, but so do mini skirts and high heels! I consider thighbands with a chain essential, and wouldn't not wear them even if given the chance.

My mother thinks the same way, and always tells how her chastity equipment has made her a better person.

mimikatz

Maija From the appearance, the thigh band is obviously a kind of restraint. You think thigh bands are very natural, so did you also think that wearing a restraints is very natural for a grown woman at the time and feel attracted to it? Little girls always love to imitate their mothers in clothing like high heels, so have you ever wanted to try them when you notice them? Or were you wondering why your mother wears a restraints, or whether other adult women wear similar devices? Did you accidentally discuss this with someone else?

Mr-TM

Angelina year before graduation a maximum of 20% of the students in my school really studied just to get good grades

I never did. Not even before the exams. 😃

Avery

Angelina i'm an example of that myself

You speak excellent English.

Angelina

Mr-TM I never did. Not even before the exams. 😃

That's exactly what I mean, so small rewards can help to motivate the child to learn and get good grades 🙂

Avery You speak excellent English.

together with physics, english was actually my weakest subject at school, but i have the talent to "beat" a lot of learning content into myself and to concentrate, that always helped me

Joh

Angelina And you posted a lot at the forum the last years. I suppose it helped.

Angelina

Joh And you posted a lot at the forum the last years. I suppose it helped.

also that and of course my girlfriend who is american by birth 😉

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