Your Mom's Thigh Bands

Kaja

Angelina I dont think so. It is about mindset. Lot o child from homeschooling or from good school (not only alternative) like education and they donnt need external motivation.

Angelina

Kaja I dont think so. It is about mindset. Lot o child from homeschooling or from good school (not only alternative) like education and they donnt need external motivation.

Avery It almost seems sometimes that you are a troll. Right here on the forum I think @Ines would be a good example of someone who worked hard in order to achieve something, to get into med school, to succeed in sports.

of course that can be, i'm an example of that myself, but i'm talking about the fact that up to a year before graduation a maximum of 20% of the students in my school really studied just to get good grades, in the year of graduation it was maybe 30-40% i'm just speaking from my school experiences

Natalia congratulations to you both 🙂

thank you 🙂

Avery

Angelina but teenagers are more interested in a reward than in good grades

It almost seems sometimes that you are a troll. Right here on the forum I think @Ines would be a good example of someone who worked hard in order to achieve something, to get into med school, to succeed in sports.

Natalia

Angelina yes, the day before yesterday i got the official confirmation from the registry office that i want to get married in august,

congratulations to you both 🙂

Maija

Bryan not any that I can remember. For example in summertime, she never swimmed while on the beach, even the weather was hot when we were kids

Ines

Maija

What does she think about the bands?
Every girl on your community, (church, neighborhood...)wears them in same regime?

mimikatz

Maija Does your mother currently have muscular health issues from wearing thigh bands 24/7? Doctors in this forum have mentioned that thigh bands are not suitable for long-term wearing with no breaks. And I remember you have the right to remove the thigh bands for one hour for sports.

Maija

mimikatz no, she doesn't have any problems with her muscles so far.

mimikatz thighbands aren't restraints. They are simply something that a proper lady must wear. Yes they prevent the wearer from doing some things, but so do mini skirts and high heels! I consider thighbands with a chain essential, and wouldn't not wear them even if given the chance.

My mother thinks the same way, and always tells how her chastity equipment has made her a better person.

mimikatz

Maija From the appearance, the thigh band is obviously a kind of restraint. You think thigh bands are very natural, so did you also think that wearing a restraints is very natural for a grown woman at the time and feel attracted to it? Little girls always love to imitate their mothers in clothing like high heels, so have you ever wanted to try them when you notice them? Or were you wondering why your mother wears a restraints, or whether other adult women wear similar devices? Did you accidentally discuss this with someone else?

Mr-TM

Angelina year before graduation a maximum of 20% of the students in my school really studied just to get good grades

I never did. Not even before the exams. 😃

Avery

Angelina i'm an example of that myself

You speak excellent English.

Angelina

Mr-TM I never did. Not even before the exams. 😃

That's exactly what I mean, so small rewards can help to motivate the child to learn and get good grades 🙂

Avery You speak excellent English.

together with physics, english was actually my weakest subject at school, but i have the talent to "beat" a lot of learning content into myself and to concentrate, that always helped me

Joh

Angelina And you posted a lot at the forum the last years. I suppose it helped.

Angelina

Joh And you posted a lot at the forum the last years. I suppose it helped.

also that and of course my girlfriend who is american by birth 😉

mimikatz

Maija no, she doesn't have any problems with her muscles so far.

Does she have time for sports? How does she exercise with bands connected? Or the connection is removed while sports?

mimikatz

Maija thighbands aren't restraints. They are simply something that a proper lady must wear.

Well, I didn't mean bands are restraint, but what you said is the understanding of an adult. As you thought they're natural and your mom didn't explain their purpose until you get old enough, it can be drawn that it's impossible for you to understand their necessity and advantages for a lady as a little girl. Appearance of bands is really similar to handcuffs to a little girl.

Rina

Maija thighbands aren't restraints

Maybe. Thighbands a lot look like and what it does is basically restricting the movement so I guess it falls under restraints. However on the other hand it also prevents wearer from trying to cheat the belt, so...

Maija They are simply something that a proper lady must wear

If I get to wear thighbands I guess it would help me understand proper behavior so my behavior will help me "pass", but many of my hobbies especially cosplay stops me from wearing it. (Like most of characters I cosplay tend to have short skirts...)

Maija but so do mini skirts and high heels

I tend to prefer long skirts, maybe because I just prefer something look modest. I generally don't like high level of exposures.

Maija I consider thighbands with a chain essential, and wouldn't not wear them even if given the chance.

Would you be keep wearing it after you get married?

Bryan

Angelina It is definitely best for @Maija to answer herself although I've generally found her one of the more voluntary/enthusiastic wearers on the forum?

Maija thighbands aren't restraints. They are simply something that a proper lady must wear. Yes they prevent the wearer from doing some things, but so do mini skirts and high heels! I consider thighbands with a chain essential, and wouldn't not wear them even if given the chance.

That being said, I agree the rules while traveling seem excessive and I think it would be quite reasonable for her to push back more against them.

Ines

mimikatz

No.
For those looked as sophisticated underwear, clumsy and girly, for me it has resemblance with XIX century underwear, never as restrictions.

mimikatz

Ines but if you notice the bands at 8yo you may not know these ancient underwear but you must know handcuffs.

Ines

mimikatz

It is pretty common in films, even animation, comics, cartoon...
I can not say you, exactly "why" but I never thought about restrictions.
In fact if a woman behaves inside the limits of good manners for women, bands, (with an acceptable chain length), are not very restrictive.

Angelina

mimikatz but if you notice the bands at 8yo you may not know these ancient underwear but you must know handcuffs.

yes, I agree with you here. i think if i as an 8 year old girl, whether accidentally or on purpose, would have discovered my mother's thigh bands, then the first question in my head would be: "why are mom's legs tied up?" . a girl that age doesn't think far enough to see it as normal in any way.

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