A Fundamental question

Renita

a_father Otherwise you should destroy the belt. What should she do?

I don't want to, because I prefer consent.

Vanessa To get some pleasure?

Yes, although it was wrong.

Laura What has happened?

I was too frustrated and demanded to unlock it. She also asked me about relationships.

a_father

Renita It's still your choice, not hers. If she doesn't understand this, you'll have a problem.

Angelina

Renita I was too frustrated and demanded to unlock it. She also asked me about relationships.

are you in a relationship? is that why she refused to open the belt?

Vanessa

Ines And it saves time in the morning too! 😂

Sure!😉

Ines they were tolerant if we did not cross a line.

Good point,at least!

Ines Even, a teacher (and not the youngest precisely), was pupil in the school and she said us that when she was a pupil, she did the same.

Funny,but it shows these rules have not evolved at the same pace than the world,too.

Angelina it's just because i generally don't like it when we define our appearance by our clothes (just my opinion).

It is generally a part of it,but not the only one,of course.

Renita Yes, although it was wrong.

If not being a slut,it is not wrong.

Renita She thought so.

Is she right?😉

Angelina what would be the consequences if you left the belt?

Good question.

Jen

Vanessa Sorry for you...

Which one?

For how long?

I was just saying i still have a uniform - I'm in year 11

Renita

Angelina are you in a relationship? is that why she refused to open the belt?

She thought so.

Angelina

Renita She thought so.

ok, what would be the consequences if you left the belt? you write it is no longer your own choice, so she must be pressuring you somehow

Renita

Angelina what would be the consequences if you left the belt?

Nothing, I think.

Angelina

Vanessa It is generally a part of it,but not the only one,of course.

a pretty face is more important to me and of course the body that is under the clothes 😉

Renita Nothing, I think.

but if there are no consequences, then it remains your decision? i don't quite understand

Renita

Angelina but if there are no consequences, then it remains your decision?

I don't want her to be against it. Plus I'm not sure what is right.

Vanessa Is she right?

Not quite. And I'm going to wear a belt in this case anyway.

Vanessa

Angelina a pretty face is more important to me and of course the body that is under the clothes 😉

I agree,but how we dress participate on the first impression.

HHelen

I think she would have it put on before the start of the date.

Renita Before mom didn't object if I quitted, now she does.

But it would not put you in troubles if you do it anyway.

Angelina

Renita Plus I'm not sure what is right.

and because you are not sure what is right, you leave this decision to your mother?

HHelen

Renita And I'm going to wear a belt in this case anyway.

You may not have time to put it on.

Renita

Angelina and because you are not sure what is right

I'm sure she is right, just share my thoughts.

Ines

Renita
Frankly, sometimes I can not understand you fully.
Since you told us about the change of your wearing status, I am a bit confused.

Angelina

Ines Since you told us about the change of your wearing status, I am a bit confused.

me too, i'm not sure i really understood @Renita's answer

Renita

Ines Frankly, sometimes I can not understand you fully.

What exactly is not clear?

Ines Since you told us about the change of your wearing status

That's correct. Before mom didn't object if I quitted, now she does.

gwen

Renita That's correct. Before mom didn't object if I quitted, now she does.

How do you feel about this change in circumstances?

Christine

Renita Before mom didn't object if I quitted, now she does.

Because you are single, it would be strange if she let you quit easily.

Angelina

Renita That's correct. Before mom didn't object if I quitted, now she does.

but if there are no consequences, they are just empty words (my opinion).

Vanessa I agree,but how we dress participate on the first impression.

that's true, although i find it more important in the professional field

Renita As a belted girl 😃

😂

Renita Of course, not. I'm an adult independent woman.

That's exactly why I don't quite understand it

Renita

gwen How do you feel about this change in circumstances?

As a belted girl 😃

Vanessa But it would not put you in troubles if you do it anyway.

Of course, not. I'm an adult independent woman.

HHelen

Vanessa I think she would have it put on before the start of the date

I think, she doesn't want to.

gwen

Renita As a belted girl 😃

A 😃 emoji... hmm... So, you're happy about this change? Congratulations then. 😁

Vanessa

Renita Of course, not. I'm an adult independent woman.

So,if you truly want to quit it,you can.

Angelina but if there are no consequences, they are just empty words (my opinion).

I agree.

Angelina that's true, although i find it more important in the professional field

I think it's always important!😉

Angelina That's exactly why I don't quite understand it

Me too.I don't understand what is the problem.

HHelen

Why?

Saintprudence beltmaiden

🤣

GoodyProctor my only question to you is, how do you do it? How do you put up with being that far into independence and then just allowing yourselves to be locked up like that?

Mainly because refusing to wear it(I can refuse to put it back on,or ask to get the keys and take it off)would have too much bad consequences.If not,I would not wear it.So,as I haven't much choice,I try my best to mange it.It is hard,I still cry of frustration,and fight it a lot,but I know that I would be free of it when I would marry Emilie(but there is some step we want to do before,like being financially independent,living together,etc...);even if we plan to use it as a game,after.

And I'm 26,so not very in my late 20s!😉

Laura Tell me how I can stop it

Depends on the consequences.

It is very easy to be free of the belt,the consequences are harder to manage.

Angelina i have to admit that although i am also in the belt involuntarily, it also kind of amazes me when women who are over 30/40 years old write the same thing.

But,if you haven't met your girlfriend,it could have happened to you,too!😉

Or would you have decided to stop wearing it at some point,even knowing the consequences?

Saintprudence

Apparently,nothing.

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