Belt fitting

Joh

Jen But I feel bad quitting too cause I just got a new phone

You got a new phone and see it as it is. You needed a new one. That is it. If it was necessary, you would have got it even without your decision to wear the CB. Don't mix it up with you belt.
Whether you want to continue or take a break or stop should only depend on what you think is right.

Jen I don't need to give it any attention just let it be.

That's a good way to deal with it.

Angelina

Max9 ups, sorry ✌🏼 so, how do you like driving? Do you have a car already?

yes, already since my birthday, i have also described several times. a Mercedes A180 limousine 😃 I like t very much 😃

Jen I made it- done the 2 weeks 😁

congratulations, i am very happy for you 😃

Joh Don't mix it up with you belt.

i agree, but the question is what kind of new phone did she get. if she got one that is significantly more luxurious than before, she might feel obligated.

Jen Yes this. But days are just too hard like I'm gonna miss out on stuff or get found out. I'm thinking just nights when I'm at home - I can commit to that.

are you completely finished with school in the meantime? then you can of course try to find other distractions. a summer job or a preparation for your future apprenticeship/studies or a hobby.

carg

Jen I'm not looking for a game

And I was not proposing a game; just a serious experiment to see how well you can cope with temptation if there is no belt to stop you. You already managed 6 hours on that Sunday. But it was just a wild idea; please feel free to ignore it.

Jen thanks but no the belt makes it easy

I understand that once the belt is locked, you can't fail. But you had the discipline to lock it on quickly every time, not to do anything outside the house, not to ask for early release, and you coped with the part of that Sunday without. I still think that is something you can be proud of.

Jen I'm thinking another 2 weeks - like another test because this is different

If it is a test, I assume you have a research goal in mind? It is because you don't have school and so not a fixed schedule, it might be harder to be disciplined? So you want to find out if you can do it in vacation periods as well?
(I ask because you called it a test, and not an extension - which would be perfectly fine as well.)

Jen

carg It is because you don't have school and so not a fixed schedule, it might be harder to be disciplined?

Yes this. But days are just too hard like I'm gonna miss out on stuff or get found out. I'm thinking just nights when I'm at home - I can commit to that.

carg

Jen OK, I can see that. Well, it will be interesting to see how that will feel compared to the previous 2 weeks.
Don't you think that your parents will still want to stick to the previous rule of wearing at least 12 hours a day for you to practice driving with them?

Jen

Angelina are you completely finished with school in the meantime?

One year left - if I stick with it. It's the end of year holidays now nearly 2 months off but should be doing lots of studying for exams early next year

carg Don't you think that your parents will still want to stick to the previous rule of wearing at least 12 hours a day for you to practice driving with them?

Hmm yeah - well that should be ok

Joh

Angelina she might feel obligated.

Yes, she could but not in relation with the belt. As a daughter to have good great at school or doing only sensible things etc.

Max9

Angelina yes, already since my birthday, i have also described several times. a Mercedes A180 limousine 😃 I like t very much

oh, happy birthday !!! sorry, I haven't been active here for a while

Angelina

Joh Yes, she could but not in relation with the belt. As a daughter to have good great at school or doing only sensible things etc.

I agree that this can be compensated for in other ways as a "good daughter", but it could play a role in further considerations.

Max9 oh, happy birthday !!! sorry, I haven't been active here for a while

my birthday was in july but thank you 😂

no problem you had another big problem

Jen One year left - if I stick with it. It's the end of year holidays now nearly 2 months off but should be doing lots of studying for exams early next year

then i wish you the best of luck. i finished school this summer and i can tell you it's a great feeling when you know what you've been working for for so many years. 😃

Vanessa It seems she has a pretty clear idea about her goal.

it seems to be getting clearer at least 😉

Jen

you will surely know what your goal is at some point, don't put yourself under pressure. we are behind you and no matter what you decide, you will get our support 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina I think it is difficult in her case.

It seems she has a pretty clear idea about her goal.

Jen I made it- done the 2 weeks 😁

Congratulations!

Jen

So,no need to hesitate now,it would stay on for at least a few more hours!😉

Jen it would be harder now

Yes,more free time means more opportunity to self pleasure;except if you wear the chastity belt more,of course.

Jen there was no conditions or promises or anything but still I think about it

Understandable,but if there is no conditions,you should not link it to your wearing.

Jen But later isn't easy but doesn't matter can't fail 🤷‍♀️

Yes,if putting it on is easy,there is not much problem,as,even if it is harder later,it is locked and you can't change your mind;

Jen I'm thinking another 2 weeks

Without a break between?

Jen

Vanessa Without a break between?

I don't need a break - like I can feel the effect but it's ok I can manage.

Vanessa It seems she has a pretty clear idea about her goal.

Yes I'm sure but it's - like it's not accepted I can't use the belt all the time. My goal isn't the belt it's staying special. So saying 6 months in the belt won't work - wish it was just accepted no fuss 😔. Yeah so my goal I want to think it's good even if I make mistakes. Like really promising definitely is too hard can't trust it so yeah goal is a good word actually goal not promise.

Vanessa

Jen I don't need a break - like I can feel the effect but it's ok I can manage.

So 4 weeks without a break?

Jen promising definitely is too hard can't trust it

Would you accept to give yourself a release,or would you feel it as a fail?

Jen biggest one is that trying to do it alone didn't work like I spent ages and the sleeping wasn't good - and once dad helped we got it fixed so quickly

Not surprising,but good it worked.

Jen But like for me it's still only a tease I need better to finish

It's the case for me too...

Jen But the hip it matters.

But let you wear more clothes you like.

And a hip style one seems a bit easier to hide.

Jen I think it's a good choice

I think too.

Jen But 2 hours for clean and dry and rest seems ok.

You wear it 22 hours each day?

Jen I think it's good overall - doesn't affect bending or moving much and better for clothes🤗

Good!🙂

Jen feelings vary a lot

Logical.

Jen

You would need it even more during parties...

youdontknowme But certain kinds of parties (alcohol, casual atmosphere, that sort of stuff) might challenge a commitment to chastity more than most other forms of social activity do, and it could be argued that someone who can trust themself to behave properly at those irrespective of the belt does not need a belt at all.

I agree.

Max9

So happy birthday!🙂

Renita

Sure.

Joh

Angelina you will get our support

Yes, we will.

Max9

Angelina my birthday was in july but thank you

hun, then I did probably just forget about it already

Angelina

Max9 hun, then I did probably just forget about it already

no problem, i don't know who yours is either 😂

youdontknowme indeed. I would think parties are pretty much the event where a belt is most likely to fulfill its purpose

it depends very much on the party and on the other hand there can be an increased risk of someone discovering the belt at parties (just like with drunk sex).

Jen

good that it seems to be a bit better. i'm just still wondering if the measurements were done correctly. the problems you describe can happen but are actually not normal in the amount. i didn't have a lot of these problems and if you are planning long term with the belt, you should consider if it can work with your current belt.

Jen

Hi I'm writing a few thoughts on the belt fitting now that it's kind of done.

biggest one is that trying to do it alone didn't work like I spent ages and the sleeping wasn't good - and once dad helped we got it fixed so quickly
keeping fingers out isn't really possible - I've got mine tight and I think that's why I'm still needing breaks but yeah fingertips can reach if you twist around or push it down (but that hurts). But like for me it's still only a tease I need better to finish
my belt overall I think is difficult type to start. Like at the waist your all squishy 😅 so I think belt shape doesn't matter. But the hip it matters. And without the adjustable crotch there's no choice on where.
Where mine sits at the hip is a bit weird like it's half on the bottom of hip bone and above I think it's a muscle going to the leg - pressing I feel it moves when I move my leg. It still seems lower might be better - it's a fair bit higher than my widest point. But also works now so yeah.
The cable in the butt yeah you get used to it but it WILL feel crazy to start 😳. Mine is tight it really pulls in. But I think it's a good choice - it works to keep the bottom of the shield pulled in
daily breaks is good. I worry about my skin and I read people say it will adjust but like maybe I don't want a weird band of tough skin🤷‍♀️. But 2 hours for clean and dry and rest seems ok.
I think it's good overall - doesn't affect bending or moving much and better for clothes🤗
other feelings vary a lot like its never constant but many times a day it's - like I'm not annoyed - but it's like my body on the inside is telling be it's annoyed - not sore or uncomfortable just annoyed is the best I can think of.

Sin

Jen other feelings vary a lot like its never constant but many times a day it's - like I'm not annoyed - but it's like my body on the inside is telling be it's annoyed - not sore or uncomfortable just annoyed is the best I can think of.

I get this too. It just seems so pointless sometimes. That's why I would have breaks for work, so that I can concentrate on what I'm supposed to instead of obsessing over my underpants.

Joh

Jen
Sin
For me it sound like you could optimise your belt as good as it is possible but it is not as good as it should.
Would another belt fit better which was measure correct and has another design?

Jen

Sin It just seems so pointless sometimes.

Yeah this is a struggle - and it's the thing I confuse myself on like it's not an attack but I start to feel anxiety thinking about it

Jonas

it's like my body on the inside is telling be it's annoyed - not sore or uncomfortable just annoyed is the best I can think of.

My experience similar to yours. But for me the process of belt fitting was truly over when my body told me that it missed the belt whenever I wasn't wearing it. When I later accepted belt mentally as well my transition to cyborg was complete! 🤖

Jen

Off to the party! No belt😝

Joh

Jen Off to the party!

PARTY 🥳 Oh, I jealous you. I would love to go to one again.
Have fun with it and only do what I would do too. 😉

Sin

Jen Off to the party! No belt😝

Of all the times to take your belt off! Tut tut.

Renita

Jen Off to the party! No belt

Even more important to have it on.

Jen

Sin ow it's just my friend group it's safe - not a big party. fun 😁 and we all slept over. Slept lol a bit at least. They'd have all known if I was wearing it - or I'd have to be super booring🥴. Nah nice to be normal and um nice to have it off overnight.

Joh PARTY 🥳 Oh, I jealous you. I would love to go to one again.
Have fun with it and only do what I would do too.

Yep 🥳🥳 but don't know what you'd do 😆

Renita Even more important to have it on.

Yep but worth it

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