Belt fitting

Jen

I've just woken up with my whole body just like I feel it in my muscles like abs and pelvice and stomach and everything - like it might cramp like doesnt hurt and not worried it will cramp or anything but like there's just a feeling all the muscles are on edge ready to squeeze and i cant control it like i can tighten them and relax them but relax isn't like just forget about it it's like I have to make the mescles relax slowly and then it all is just feeling like it wants to tighten again. And writing about it and tightening my muscles is just making it more intense.

carg

Jen I'm sorry you feel like that. Do you think it is related to the belt? Like because you feel tense about it?
Hope it is over by now. Otherwise I can only think of things like a hot bath or a run to lessen the tension.

Jonas

Jen And writing about it and tightening my muscles is just making it more intense.

Hope you feel better by now Jen. I would see if distracting myself helps.

Angelina

Jen

i'm sorry you had to endure that, but i'm not sure how it relates to the belt. if i understand correctly, it sounds more like a calcium deficiency, which is what magnesium tablets are for.

Jen

carg

Jonas
I'm ok lol no I was mostly surprised or fascinated really - it's just it was like the feelings could have just washed me away like it was bizarre I've never felt anything like that - but thinking about it - it was like I'm thinking about what's happening in my body not just lost in it.

Jonas

Jen Maybe it was just a bit of normal sleep paralysis?

Jen

Angelina

Jonas

Hi sorry I didn't know it was so hard to understand me I don't mean to be difficult 🥺
I was just writing what the frustration was doing to me.

Jonas

Jen I was just writing what the frustration was doing to me.

Ah now I understand! Sometimes I enjoy the frustration and heightened feelings that come with the belt and either way, this year I am being tough with myself - I give or accept no sympathy for my own predicament!

Angelina

Jen Hi sorry I didn't know it was so hard to understand me I don't mean to be difficult 🥺
I was just writing what the frustration was doing to me.

ah ok, sorry that i didn't understand that and it's not a problem, i'm trying everything to understand you well. of course you are always allowed to describe your physical and psychological symptoms when you write about your frustrations, but in the text it sounded more like a calcium deficiency. 😂

Jen

I'm belt free today I've got my period😞 but I'm still frustrated like normally I've got no interest at all during but nothing's normal anymore. Luckily mum's working from home.

Joh

Jen You are still have the goal no sex and masturbation. How long now?

toad

chastitybelted.bdsmr.com I don't know if this is appropriate or not, please use your judgement and feel free to delete if of no interest

Laura

toad Yes, relevant links are allowed here. But it should be "bdsmlr" rather than "bdsm" in your link

Jen

Joh All this year!

Ines

Jen
It is a drug. The longer you go without doing it, the prouder you will be, and the less you will want to give in to temptation, although perhaps the need will grow too.

Angelina

Jen

you have set yourself a big goal. you are frustrated and that is completely normal, but i hope you reach your goal, i think if you are not alone at home without a belt, it should work. if you still have the strong desire, you can try to put yourself in situations where you definitely cannot masturbate. 😉

carg

Jen

It's about a month now that you have kept yourself chaste. Would you give us an update on how things are going?
Do you still need longer breaks because of your skin?
Undoubtedly you have bad moments and frustration, but are they getting easier to deal with?
Are you confident that you will keep doing this?
You mention you go out with it sometimes, just not to school. Are you increasing that, like you once did with the bowling, or is it mostly just walks, groceries and such?
Your parents must have noticed by now that you wear it continuously at home; have they asked about your intent?

Vanessa

James

Good advice,yes.

Jen

Good luck,it could be hard!

Jen An update - yeah well it's already a bit over a month😢😃 it's - well good.

Congratulations!

Jen I look forward to locking the belt though - no more controlling myself no more rules - the belt is protection and I can relax😊

Understandable.

Jen

Ines it becomes real - like a thing not just an idea. Not since 2021 - I can't ever get that back if I break it.

Jen

carg An update - yeah well it's already a bit over a month😢😃 it's - well good. Yes I have breaks - skins ok really but don't want an infection under the shield.

carg Undoubtedly you have bad moments and frustration, but are they getting easier to deal with?

Not bad moments but the frustration - I'm surprised what it does to me - like how my body feels and the intensity of it - I never knew. I make notes sometimes writing about it helps to not feel trapped by it.

Outings - not really. Outings are better for breaks.

carg Your parents must have noticed by now that you wear it continuously at home; have they asked about your intent?

Nope happily avoiding it😆, but she totally knows. I've been getting more reminders like if I'm going to be home alone - or I'm in my room.

Angelina

Jen

i would like to thank you for the update. i think you are doing a great job. by breaks do you mean only breaks for your physical health or breaks that are also used for masturbation? if it is the first i am really impressed by your strength. 🙂

Jen

Angelina nope no masturbating - I'm good now😇🤣

When I'm out of the belt I avoid it all - no temptation, no sexy thoughts, avoid alone time - like I've got rules for myself to cope. Still gets me at times - like busses are bad - but I think positive. Like the arousal is not a bad feeling it's nice really but can't think about wanting more - and don't think about making it go away either - just like, it doesn't mean anything. Just there's a feeling in me and that's ok it's in the background, not wanting more, not worrying about it just going about my day.

I look forward to locking the belt though - no more controlling myself no more rules - the belt is protection and I can relax😊

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