Foxies by this point, she’s well past the “thinking about it” stage. I’m not saying she WANTS the belt, but in between the increases in wearing, the work to get it to fit, and living dangerously with the lock, it’s at least on her mind.
Belt fitting
This is Foxies partner Angela
It DOES seem like she wants the experience of being locked in by someone to the point where she cannot just asked to be unlocked. But it also seems that the last person(s) she wants to be controlled by is a parent. It does seem strange though that she can't just buy a lock, click it shut and mail the keys to herself so she loses control but just for a few days - which is a common story plot line.
Jen, if you read this, I am sorry if I sound harsh. But there are vulnerable youngsters here that you are influencing. Please be careful.
Hi Angela
Foxies For the life of me I do not understand why you have the lock even near your belt.
Omg everyone is saying be careful but it's all about nothing. Feels like you've read other comments and think it's somehow a problem
Foxies purchase your own lock
People keep saying this - it's not that easy - needs the corner cut off so it will turn.
Foxies copper wire around the locking beg, or through the locking peg.
Actually I like this I checked bunnings has copper picture hanging wire. The peg has a groove for the lock so yeah wire could be good.
Saintprudence by this point, she’s well past the “thinking about it” stage.
Ya think urgh it's all thinking thinking. The parents thing is like a pressure in my head when i think cause it's not fair and like Sin said it's weird but i want like what Ines has - there I said it everyone gonna say don't now. But like it's not guilt or church - but staying virgin is what i want but am i only being half - but yeah I'm trying the belt cause that's easy
Jen if you want to stay a virgin, which is quite laudable, you can just not have sex. A belt is a pretty extreme way to approach that, let alone parental control when you’re an adult. (Indeed, if you outsource protection of your virginity to a device rather than willpower, it makes you all the more vulnerable if the device fails.)
I sometimes get the impression you’re feeling guilty about the earlier promise you made, but a promise made under duress is not a real promise. I’d urge you to let go of any concern you have there.
Jen but staying virgin is what i want
If you want this try it with willpower as Saintprudence sad.
If you think you will not reject every possible opportunity and you like the belt go for it. It is your live and your decision. No one shall judge you for it because you informed yourself, tested the belt, you know of the drawbacks and you decided on a good base.
Jen i want like what Ines has - there I said it everyone gonna say don't now. But like it's not guilt or church - but staying virgin is what i want
@Ines seems very content and self-assured with her choice to wear a belt so I think you've chosen a very good role model if this is your aim.
I increasingly see my own belt as the physical expression of the strength of my personal choice to abstain. I know what I'm like so it makes sense to install a few physical as well as mental road blocks. 
In regard to parental involvement, others on here manage. Maybe as adults our parents become more akin to highly trusted friends anyway.
This is all more intense more than I want to deal with now
Jen I’m sorry. I’ll try to dial back a bit myself. We’re all intense opinionated people here, but you’re correct. The only thing that matters now is that you are happy and comfortable with what you do next, even if it’s just random exploration. If there’s any way we can support you on your terms, just let us know.
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Saintprudence if you want to stay a virgin, which is quite laudable, you can just not have sex
Easier said than done
Saintprudence if you outsource protection of your virginity to a device rather than willpower, it makes you all the more vulnerable if the device fails
You can't rely on it completely, but it helps
Don't stress. In fact don't stress on anything. Most everything here is opinion. And the important thing to remember about opinion is that it is only your own opinion you ever act on. 
On a side note, while it no longer applies to me, I do feel that a chastity belt to protect your own vagina is a valid option and I could see that when young, it might stop you from making a rash decision and provide a second chance to think things through. And, there is no doubt that it could provide a sense of security when you are on evening out with unfamiliar faces, in unfamiliar places. I can think of times earlier in my life when I would have appreciated the option.
Jen I'm a bit bruised under the shield
You should take big care of solving it,before wearing it longer.
Jen it's tight on the post holds fine
I'm surprised,but it's good for your tries!
Ines Do not hurry, and think well before close that padlock.
I agree.
Angelina ask your parents for the keys and if they refuse, break open the belt.
It could be a good test.
She put the lock in a way they may think it is closed,don't let them touch it and explain she has locked it accidentally when trying it,and want the keys,to unlock it.
If they give her the keys,she can trust them(even if they say something like "are you sure you don't want to wait a bit,to know how you manage/feel it?" before).
If they don't give her the keys,she can't trust them and should never lock her belt with this lock.
It could be helpful for her use of the chastity belt.
Jen I'm just trying to make it comfortable for more than a few hours
And if you manage to make it comfortable,no matter how long you wear it?
If you tell the story one line at a time,it can take a big amount of time! 
Foxies duct tape of even Scotch tape
I doubt it would last long...
Foxies mail the keys to herself so she loses control but just for a few days
Could be a good way to test how it feels,but what about the emergency key?
I agree.
But in her case,it is totally willingly and she trust totally her parents.
Saintprudence The only thing that matters now is that you are happy and comfortable with what you do next, even if it’s just random exploration. If there’s any way we can support you on your terms, just let us know.
I agree.
Laura Easier said than done
I agree too.
Laura You can't rely on it completely, but it helps
Right.
Vanessa It could be a good test.
She put the lock in a way they may think it is closed,don't let them touch it and explain she has locked it accidentally when trying it,and want the keys,to unlock it.
If they give her the keys,she can trust them(even if they say something like "are you sure you don't want to wait a bit,to know how you manage/feel it?" before).
If they don't give her the keys,she can't trust them and should never lock her belt with this lock.
It could be helpful for her use of the chastity belt.
right, this would be an ideal test to see if the parents are suitable as key holders and if @Jen's interests are higher than her own. i realise that @Jen would at least not dislike wearing the belt, but she does not want to be controlled by her parents, such a test could lead to check if the parents are suitable for voluntary wearing and key holding.
Jen I do have one question, and I apologize if it piles on the intensity, but it’s mostly just curiosity and a little guidance so we can best support you: when you say you want what Ines has, what does that mean to you? I know what I think when I hear it but it may not be what you’re thinking.
It’s a shame Ines’ mom Teres is no longer around, or else she could provide valuable parental perspective.
Jen I do have one question, and I apologize if it piles on the intensity, but it’s mostly just curiosity and a little guidance so we can best support you: when you say you want what Ines has, what does that mean to you? I know what I think when I hear it but it may not be what you’re thinking.
It’s a shame Ines’ mom Teres is no longer around, or else she could provide valuable parental perspective.
Jen I do have one question, and I apologize if it piles on the intensity, but it’s mostly just curiosity and a little guidance so we can best support you: when you say you want what Ines has, what does that mean to you? I know what I think when I hear it but it may not be what you’re thinking.
It’s a shame Ines’ mom Teres is no longer around, or else she could provide valuable parental perspective.
Saintprudence tried to sleep but I've taken it off. My promise no more toys is well damn the want gets fierce but it's special like I'm proud of it now and waiting until my partner now seems really special for me but it's such a long time away... but not even fingers seems a bit much and well that's when i miss my toy most anyway so would it be better not at all... is it even more special or just dumb
Jen It’s not dumb. Many young people waiting for marriage have abstained from even touch — and I don’t just mean in the chastity community, either. Many mainstream religious communities teach it as well, even if most of them don’t really follow it. There is a special honor in wanting to preserve yourself until the right person comes along.
It’s not right for everyone, but it’s not dumb. If it’s what you want, it is important. And I also respect your inner conflict, so I’d add that if you choose not to go the way of the belt, there’s nothing wrong with that either. What matters most is your own opinion of what is most fulfilling. You can change your mind at any time and that’s also okay!