Angelina She works there regularly. In the first time she will just wear the belt but not the CB. When the alarm goes off and she has to take the belt off, nothing is found. After a while, they will just accept that the belt triggers the alarm. From then on she can wear the CB.

      Joh my computer and heels sometimes set it off too. They already don't search me because of that.

        Joh After a while, they will just accept that the belt triggers the alarm. From then on she can wear the CB.

        that is probably true, but it could also be different. i am not sure how extremely strict the controls are, even for known persons.

            Joh Only @BD1791 can assess this and decide accordingly how she wants to proceed.

            Of course, I just want to go through everything theoretically beforehand so that she weighs everything before she decides 😉

              Angelina My general experience is that in the case when the intention is to detect weapons and other prohibited items being brought inside the protected area the security personnel are significantly more lax than when the intention is to detect merchandise being stolen from the protected area. (And well it is mostly simply an security theather in both cases, but that is another issue)

                  6373e6b2 they will be lax with me. I don't anticipate a search or anything but it makes my anxiety shot up.

                      BD1791

                      i don't want you to be afraid of course, and staying "cool" is the most important thing in this situation, you should just prepare yourself mentally for everything.

                          BD1791 that's what I'm doing 😂😂😂...

                          good luck, everything will be fine, at least if you are self-confident enough in case of emergency 😉

                              Angelina I'm starting to feel more at peace with things. He's gradually taking more control of things (not just the belt but other life things) and I'm not freaking out. I'm happy and feel safe/secure with him. I'm not even worried about him having total control of the belt.

                                  BD1791

                                  that sounds good, i hope that this feeling stays. i think as long as you trust him and he does not abuse his power, it will be possible to feel safe and loved. 🙂

                                      Angelina thank you. I don't think he'll abuse his power. He's been pretty lenient and letting me out when I'm uncomfortable. I think that's going to change next week. He said I need to get use to it so I'll only be out for health/safety reasons and not just if I'm uncomfortable. He'll actually have the key too so... I might have some emotions 😂

                                      Just writing this made me a little anxious 😂🤣. It might be a long week.

                                          BD1791 Just writing this made me a little anxious 😂🤣. It might be a long week

                                          understandably, it is certainly a very strange feeling and you should prepare yourself to have one or two breakdowns, then it is very important that he is with you and is there for you. 🙂

                                              Angelina he's been really good. I don't think I'll have a brake down though. I'm not one to show a lot of emotion but this has been a bit of a rollercoaster.

                                                  BD1791 but this has been a bit of a rollercoaster.

                                                  right, it is also not bad if you show emotions, this can give your partner/keyholder signals on how best to behave 😉

                                                      Angelina I get that I'm just not good at it. I hold a lot in. I'm working on it but to a certain extent that's just how I am.

                                                          BD1791

                                                          that's all ok, both lots of emotions and little emotions can help, depending on what kind of person you are, the main thing is that you find your strategy. 😉

                                                              Angelina thank you 😊. My partner is super supportive and I feel very safe with him. I tell him way more than anyone else. It's really nice to have someone like that in my life.