PaulE I will only get orgasms as a reward for outstanding good behaviour. If I doesn't act as expected, I will most probably loose my orgasm. I don't know if we will do the edging thing, too. I really have mixed feelings about it but my (future) sister in law swears to me that it is extremely hot for her.
Megan Sara is this getting out of hand? I wonder one a man is 100% in charge if that is what you want a traditional old time marriage. What is in it for him to push past 100%?
I think it should be anything or nothing. I don't want a husband who only want to be the leader if he feels in the right mood. In this case I would prefer a relationship with equal rights.
Megan What is this about his sister? Even if she is to be obedient to her husband If I were her brother, sister, or parent there would still be requirements for her happiness.
She is very happy and tells me that she has an exciting sex life.
Megan I don't know exactly what is going on so I just see this is all moving rather suddenly.
Right now and for the next year's nothing will change in our sex life, because as long as we are not married he will get no access to my chastity belt. After marriage he will have full control of my orgasms and will only grand them when he sees fit. He things, and I can see his point, that a submissive wife should focus on the husbands pleasure and not her own. So if I know, that no matter how much effort I invest in a sexual "session", only he can release his urges, I can focus more on him. Basically that's what we do now, too and I really enjoy his orgasms.
