Sara2001 I will only get orgasms as a reward for outstanding good behaviour. If I doesn't act as expected, I will most probably loose my orgasm.
In management leadership you normally hear, that the carrot is the superior motivator to the stick. You just have to find the right carrot. I guess in your case it would be both, carrot and stick.
Sara2001 I don't know if we will do the edging thing, too. I really have mixed feelings about it but my (future) sister in law swears to me that it is extremely hot for her.
Why is that? What are your concerns? Because imho you already see some distinct benefits to your relationship, right`?
Sara2001 Right now and for the next year's nothing will change in our sex life, because as long as we are not married he will get no access to my chastity belt. After marriage he will have full control of my orgasms and will only grand them when he sees fit.
Haha sorry, I really thought it was very little, but I keep forgetting, that for a girl who has lived in total chastity for the last couple of years, 12 chances for release a year must sound like heaven. That sounds like a powerful carrot to me. And even if you only got very few, you already prove everyday, that is infinitely more than you really "need".
