Sara2001 Talking about something and changing something immediately because of it are two different things. Often he just explain to me why something is like it is and the idea behind. Then we talk about our position to this idea and almost always I then understand that anything makes sense.
When thinking about a new rule,do you talk about it,and then wait one or two weeks before starting to use it,to be sure you can think enough about it?
Sara2001 I don't understand what you mean.
I guessed you should use every rules or cancel it totally,not being able to discard some of the rules,but still keeping a man-led relationship.
Sara2001 it's very unlikely that we will try it
So you would never know if it would be different.Trying it a few weeks would do no bad...
Sara2001 If he sees that something was a bad idea, he may change it the same day. He is very responsible. I have accepted that sometimes he thinks it's still a good idea but I don't so, then I talk to him again until I understand his idea or until he changed something. I don't miss the power to demand a change immediately.
Good point.
You must wait until the weekly maintenance to ask for a change,but in his case?Can he decide to change a rule if he has some doubts about it during the week,or does he wait until the weekly maintenance for it?
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Angelina i prefer the term involuntary wearer
Similar;but why?