Behaviour change through long term chastity?
Jonas A correctly fitted chastity belt can safely prevent sex and masturbation in the long-term. This can lead to repeated episodes of intense sexual frustration, especially following sexual thoughts, belt-fighting or time spent with a would-be sexual partner.
I confirm!
Jonas Do the feelings of frustration that come with enforced chastity ever make you choose to avoid sexual thoughts and behaviours?
Not that much,but I sometimes avoid things that can arouse me too much(except anything including Emilie,of course).
For example,I don't go much on po***ub,or,if I play,let's say,The Witcher,and am already aroused this day,I may skip the "hot" scenes there is sometimes in the game.
Jonas For good, or ill, does a chastity belt train or encourage a person to think, speak and act with purity and self-restraint? Or would it all change back to how it was before when the lock is released?
I don't think it would last much longer after the wearer is free of it.
Jonas Do you think long-term wear would have a positive, negative or no effect on your character?
No effect.
Vanessa For example,I don't go much on po***ub,or,if I play,let's say,The Witcher,and am already aroused this day,I may skip the "hot" scenes there is sometimes in the game.
I do not like porn, but sometimes I had "problems " with books...
Even, this summer I was reading some romantic novels (cheap and bad) and I had to take some showers...
Books are the best
Jen 'If you have enough books I don't want to know you'. Terry Pratchett
I've nothing against porn, but personally am getting real kick out of trying to keep my eyes exclusively on my partner.
Jonas It's only horny-me who says I shouldn't. He was therefore out-voted.
There is that saying that excited men tend to think not with their head, but with their penis, a metaphor that makes that vote sound more interesting.
Here he is: Chastityman
http://prnt.sc/1sq6sdc
youdontknowme hi, about choosing to let yourself out vs just having access all the time... I think it was intro thread... so why do you choose to be out - like is it a need or just when you decide that's enough and want out? I hear guys need it eventually but for me I don't think it's ever a need just want.
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Jen
I assume it is different for male and female wearers. There is some evidence that it is healthy for people with male genitalia to ejaculate regularly (which does not make it strictly necessary per se, but a good chastity routine should be healthy, so it kinda sets a lower limit on permissible ejaculations). Note that those ejaculations do not necessarily have to come through masturbation or sexual intercourse, many young males have spontaneous emissions in their sleep, particularly at the onset of puberty or after long-term orgasm denial, and ejaculation can also be induced through prostate stimulation. In case of the latter, it is possible to also induce orgasm, but from what I have heard (no personal experience putting anything but suppositories up my butt), it is a lot easier to separate from pleasurable orgasmic relief than ejaculations from penis stimulation. Male chastity enthusiasts usually use the term "milking" to refer to that procedure. And even if orgasm were necessary for those healthy ejaculations, most guys tend to want one a lot more often than they need them.
For me personally, I still have not set any rules in stone, I am still seeing what works for me. Currently, my plan is to only be unchaste one day a week at most, on a weekend if possible, preferably on sundays. That does not mean relieving myself every sunday though, I prefer to plan things through the week ahead and for this sunday my mind is set on "rather not". Since I want to avoid health risks and/or the chance of dirtying up my bed though, I do want to have a deliberate emission at least once a month.
Fortunately, despite having masturbated out of habit for years, it has not reached a level of addiction where I do not have the clarity of mind to make decisions with my head on whether I want to orgasm or not. The device is mostly an upgrade over pure willpower to handle momentary lapses in judgment, and having to reach for the key (or something to open the lock with at least) buys me time for my will to take over again. For the same reason, I trust myself to take off the device even when I am not planning to have a release right now, as long as I am not exposed to any stimuli that would cloud my mind.
Ines Why?
the orgasms often seem fake, the happiness seems inauthentic and everything seems too artificial to me. unfortunately, with most porns you quickly see that they are films and not reality.
Christine I think it makes me mad.
so would you say that your behaviour has become more worse because of the belt?
Cool did you paint that yourself?
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Ines I do not like porn, but sometimes I had "problems " with books...
Me too,some books,even if not erotic ones,can have "hot" scenes which make it hard for me!
Jonas Sorry to hear it.
Thank you.
Jonas So there is behaviour change, but you think not permanent.
Yes.
To get aroused?
I thought you watch it a bit to give ideas for you and your girlfriend(and got punished for it,too)?
Amateur porn is better,yes.But hard to find true amateur one,many studios try to make pro movie be considered as amateur...
Jen for me I don't think it's ever a need just want.
We have a thread about it : Is sex a "want" or a "need"?.