Jonas It's all quite confusing really because even things that are healthy needs like food can change into unhealthy cravings.
As I often say,it should not be excessive and not impact badly other parts of our lives.
Jonas I think masturbation is pure self-gratification and know that it can take over your life
Not if we do it,but not "pursuit the pleasure" of masturbation!😉
Jonas I think a lot of the arguments between the generations about chastity stem from the fact that young adults want sexual freedom whereas their elders (often from personal experience) think that people need limits.
But personal experience is more effective than advices from other people.
I agree,knowing our own body is important to get;and give,pleasure with a partner(even more effective for same-sex relationship).
I did both,and always preferred to have sex with a partner than masturbating.Way better.
Jonas However, my personal experience has led me to conclude that masturbation was bad for me.
I agree,it is mainly personal opinion.
Angelina well, i've heard that the desire for cigarettes diminishes at some point, but i don't know if this also applies to sexual pleasure.
I doubt so...
Angelina hmm... i wonder how an orgasm feels for someone who has never masturbated before having sex for the first time. must be a very exciting but maybe also scary feeling.
On the other hand,if the partner is a bit more skilled,he/she should be able to relieve the scary feeling!😉
Jonas This is why I understand when people on here return to chastity following divorce.
Only one of us,I think,and she's not very happy about it!😉
Ines However, probably it can change with time, I believe.
Do you think your sister would finally accept to wear one?
Angelina if i wore the belt because my father told me at the time: "you wear the belt to be a gift for your dream woman" i might think differently.
You would have accepted it more willingly?