Hello,
my name is Max and I have some questions concerning chastity.
Unfortunately the f.a.q. only mentions girls so I do not know if this is the right place for me as a boy? If this forum is the wrong place maybe you have a suggestion for me where to get support?
Girls only?
Max Hi Max I'm a boy and I have been in a chastity device for nearly 4 years.
Ask away!
Welcome to the site. This place is for all genders, but you are free to express yourself, although please be respectful of others.
Hey Max. Well, now We need to differ who is who 
... how did you actually manage to get the username without a number behind it, when I wanted tocregiste rit back then it was already taken 
... however, feel comfortable here. I'm locked myself btw and I have been welcomed here, too.
Only remind the tags:
Pink is female. So, respect the female topics.
We will respect the male topics.
Max9
Not problem, you can open a new topic and talk about men's needs.
Obviously not in every topic, but, precisely the two that you say, are perfect to have a female and a male topic.
And I am not saying that you can not write, for example in all and every "feminine" thread, but write about female topics. And same than us in the male topics.
How about using tags to differ if some topics are male or female only... like... not adding a female / male tag for the genderneutral tags
Vanessa I'm not sure we should always separate the subject in two topics based on gender
above all, this is also not possible. there are rather masculine women and feminine men (from the point of view of character), everyone is different and should not be classified only according to physical characteristics 
Max9 How about using tags to differ if some topics are male or female only.
how will you definitively judge whether a topic is only suitable for men or women?
Angelina how will you definitively judge whether a topic is only suitable for men or women?
Really the only decision that always works is whether they specifically relate to a penis or vulva. Topics about either getting a finger under the shield or stopping it will always be female-specific, topics about tubes and cages will always be male-specific. Of course, whether "male" and "female" are the appropriate words when there are members here that have male parts while living as females or vice-versa is a different question.
youdontknowme Of course, whether "male" and "female" are the appropriate words when there are members here that have male parts while living as females or vice-versa is a different question.
that would be a problem, but i am more concerned with the psychological component. there are psychological behaviours that can be seen as more feminine or masculine, that could have an influence on the tags and at that point i see it in a more differentiated way.
Angelina there are psychological behaviours that can be seen as more feminine or masculine, that could have an influence on the tags and at that point i see it in a more differentiated way.
The problem is that those psychological parameters are a far too continuous to be adequately served by two categories. Plus all the dimensions of gender they are. How you feel about yourself, how you conduct yourself, how you present yourself to others, how others see you... and none of them are as clear-cut as what parts of your body can be locked up, and even that one has some gray areas in certain kinds of intersex people.
of course, i feel the same way, that's why i'm not a big fan of girls and boys tags. however, at least all topics must remain accessible to everyone and everyone should be allowed to write in every topic.