Hey Max. Well, now We need to differ who is who 
... how did you actually manage to get the username without a number behind it, when I wanted tocregiste rit back then it was already taken 
... however, feel comfortable here. I'm locked myself btw and I have been welcomed here, too.
Girls only?
Only remind the tags:
Pink is female. So, respect the female topics.
We will respect the male topics.
Max9
Not problem, you can open a new topic and talk about men's needs.
Obviously not in every topic, but, precisely the two that you say, are perfect to have a female and a male topic.
And I am not saying that you can not write, for example in all and every "feminine" thread, but write about female topics. And same than us in the male topics.
How about using tags to differ if some topics are male or female only... like... not adding a female / male tag for the genderneutral tags
Vanessa I'm not sure we should always separate the subject in two topics based on gender
above all, this is also not possible. there are rather masculine women and feminine men (from the point of view of character), everyone is different and should not be classified only according to physical characteristics 
Max9 How about using tags to differ if some topics are male or female only.
how will you definitively judge whether a topic is only suitable for men or women?
Angelina how will you definitively judge whether a topic is only suitable for men or women?
Really the only decision that always works is whether they specifically relate to a penis or vulva. Topics about either getting a finger under the shield or stopping it will always be female-specific, topics about tubes and cages will always be male-specific. Of course, whether "male" and "female" are the appropriate words when there are members here that have male parts while living as females or vice-versa is a different question.
youdontknowme Of course, whether "male" and "female" are the appropriate words when there are members here that have male parts while living as females or vice-versa is a different question.
that would be a problem, but i am more concerned with the psychological component. there are psychological behaviours that can be seen as more feminine or masculine, that could have an influence on the tags and at that point i see it in a more differentiated way.
Angelina there are psychological behaviours that can be seen as more feminine or masculine, that could have an influence on the tags and at that point i see it in a more differentiated way.
The problem is that those psychological parameters are a far too continuous to be adequately served by two categories. Plus all the dimensions of gender they are. How you feel about yourself, how you conduct yourself, how you present yourself to others, how others see you... and none of them are as clear-cut as what parts of your body can be locked up, and even that one has some gray areas in certain kinds of intersex people.
of course, i feel the same way, that's why i'm not a big fan of girls and boys tags. however, at least all topics must remain accessible to everyone and everyone should be allowed to write in every topic.
Angelina this is also not possible. there are rather masculine women and feminine men (from the point of view of character),
Yes,but it sometimes have not much impact.
For example chastity devices;no matter if a woman have a masculine character or not,she would not be able to wear a chastity cage.
Angelina how will you definitively judge whether a topic is only suitable for men or women?
And who would decide it?
At the opposite of what I answer at @Angelina,there is several topics way less specific;and which can apply to both gender...
Angelina however, at least all topics must remain accessible to everyone and everyone should be allowed to write in every topic.
I agree.
As long as it is respectful,of course.
youdontknowme The problem is that those psychological parameters are a far too continuous to be adequately served by two categories.
We don't talk about genders in general or sexual orientation. But about chastity devices they are manufactured in a female and a male version. Anyone who doesn't identify itself with one of these genders is very welcome here, but still need to decide for himself what device is the one that fits best for the given anatomy.
Therefore I think female and male would work well as categories and depending on the topic the other genders can easily choose to which topic they feel more related. We can also implement a tag for other genders for their specific aspects, but with regards to chastity devices, it's very strong related to the two ways of manufacturing these devices.
Sara2001 yeah, hence my original point that the clearest male/female distinction, and one very relevant for chastity, is about the parts that are locked. My point here was that anything beyond that is hard to categorize into two clear groups since not everyone is adequately served by traditional views on gender
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youdontknowme
Exactly. In my opinion the 'male' and 'female' tags are not about who is allowed to post where, or even with what gender a wearer most closely identifies. It is only about for which type of chastity device (for which organ it is meant), that topic is meant.
Vanessa For example chastity devices;no matter if a woman have a masculine character or not,she would not be able to wear a chastity cage.
yes, but a transwoman could. i know that's not what you mean, but i think you understand my problem.
Vanessa And who would decide it?
good question, at most @Laura as last instance 
Vanessa As long as it is respectful,of course.
of course
Sara2001 Therefore I think female and male would work well as categories
as you argue, yes, but men might think that they are not wanted at all in women's topics and vice versa. this is not supposed to be the case.
carg Exactly. In my opinion the 'male' and 'female' tags are not about who is allowed to post where, or even with what gender a wearer most closely identifies. It is only about for which type of chastity device (for which organ it is meant), that topic is meant
That's how I see it too, I'm just wondering if everyone is aware of it