Angelina as you argue, yes, but men might think that they are not wanted at all in women's topics and vice versa. this is not supposed to be the case.
Honestly I am fine with man who ask questions in women topics and things like that, but I don't want to read their experiences in these posts.
youdontknowme There are lots of people
No, in fact they are very few. They have my respect but they can not dictate the agenda.
Angelina yes, but a transwoman could. i know that's not what you mean, but i think you understand my problem.
Well, if that people uses a female chastity belt they have threads if that people use a male device, have topics too. So, I do not see problem.
Vanessa For example chastity devices;no matter if a woman have a masculine character or not,she would not be able to wear a chastity cage.
Yes. Exactly.
Angelina of course, i feel the same way, that's why i'm not a big fan of girls and boys tags. however, at least all topics must remain accessible to everyone and everyone should be allowed to write in every topic.
I am going to quote myself 
Ines
And I am not saying that you can not write, for example in all and every "feminine" thread, but write about female topics. And same than us in the male topics.Sara2001 Honestly I am fine with man who ask questions in women topics and things like that, but I don't want to read their experiences in these posts.
It is the point. It is not good for anyone mix sometimes valuable information in topics about other devices.
Sara2001 but I don't want to read their experiences in these posts.
not even if you were married to a woman in a belt? if daniel were here now instead of you, it wouldn't be a problem for me if he wrote about you.
Ines Well, if that people uses a female chastity belt they have threads if that people use a male device, have topics too. So, I do not see problem.
the problem is that male and female does not always mean male or female belt/cage, but i agree with you e is a small problem. i just want to point it out
Ines about other devices.
I am not talking about the devices but about the users
Like I said before, we need to make sure that some topics like belt fitting or hips vs waist and stuff like that is also for boys... otherwise boy / girl tags have no meaning... the most basic thing when weseimg a belt is the fit ... making discussions about the fit only for gils doesn't make sense at all. Only then we can give a meaning to the tags.
Or we create a second topic each about the same discussions for the boys.
Otherwise is the community female only and we boys can basically leave because there is like no discussions about actual chastity related topics ... belt fitting, age to begin... stuff like that. what else do we have?
Sara2001 with regards to chastity devices, it's very strong related to the two ways of manufacturing these devices.
Right.
Angelina yes, but a transwoman could. i know that's not what you mean, but i think you understand my problem.
If men and women are welcomed in every topics,there would be no problem.
Angelina men might think that they are not wanted at all in women's topics and vice versa. this is not supposed to be the case.
I agree.
Joh Let not use female and male instead tube and shield as an example.
Not a bad idea.
Ines Well, if that people uses a female chastity belt they have threads if that people use a male device, have topics too. So, I do not see problem.
There would be one if someone who identify as a woman but wear a chastity cage want to post here.She may feel unwelcomed in women topics,as she wears a cage,and unwelcomed in men topics,as she's a woman(even if not physically).
Max9 Or we create a second topic each about the same discussions for the boys.
I don't like it much;it would separate too much men/women here and split the community of the board.
Personally,as long as everyone respect each other and the subject of the talks,I've no problem about having both genders discussing in the same topic.
So when we don't want to create a second board for the boys, then we only have 5 options left:
I believe 3, maybe in combination with 5 would be the best to clsrify the belongings without splitting up the community.
I mean, all options would be fine, also if the boys don't be allowed to contribute equally like the girls ... I mean, it was originally a gils forum and we kinda settled here, so ... a Völkerwanderung / migration boom of course changes the community a bit because now here are different citizens ...
Joh How about 'Innies' and 'Outies'?
Max9 Interesting point; I've never been an immigrant before!
Joh Sorry Joh, I don't understand your comment.
Vanessa If men and women are welcomed in every topics,there would be no problem.
right, it's just a question of the right way to address people. sometimes i don't know what's right. the best thing to do, as you say, is to welcome everyone. 
Vanessa She may feel unwelcomed in women topics,as she wears a cage,and unwelcomed in men topics,as she's a woman(even if not physically).
That is exactly what I mean
or we do it like me. i don't care what's in the tags for more than 2 years. i only use them when i create a thread myself, otherwise i write when i find the topic interesting. 
Joh I think you expanded on the 'immigrant' comment, which I understood (and agree with). It was the 'ring a bell' comment I'm scratching my head over.
carg I was, but it's a bit of a word play on navels. In the UK we refer to the obvious differences as 'innies' and 'outies'. As I type this I'm realising that I'm being unrealistic in expecting most of the forum members to know the reference. I'll see myself out.
